Why can women be so ignorantly glib?
I was at a party in college and some girl I was flirting with, after we spoke for a while, took it upon herself to tell me I had no balls because I was drinking a nip. And she was a couple of years older than me too, you'd think she'd be more mature.
Anyways, she did what most women do when they insult people, she hid it behind a coy smile and "apologized". Then later on in the night, I was leaving and she saw this girl on the steps crying. She asked if she was ok, and then in a real sarcastic tone said
"You should talk to this guy over here, he's with the social squad"......Then I went right up to her as she was leaving and said "Oh, so you're saying you think im a nice guy?" Then she replied not looking at me like she was annoyed "At times" then I told her "Im drinking beer by the way now, just so you know. Have a good evening".
Ladies who want to come at me for standing up to that ***** can save it. I was not the one out of line here. They can find some other way to bum 2 points.
2007-01-28 14:02:29 · 7 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess that you wasted your time on that one.
There are more mean people than nice in the world.
She sounds like a stuck up ***** who obviously thinks that she is better than you - but hey you know better than that.
I think that it is good that you didn't take any of her crap and at least next time you know not to waste your time talking to her.
2007-01-28 14:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That girl just sounds like a *****. Just forget it and don't let it get to you. I have to say, you do need to develop a thicker skin though. There are always going to be people in the world who are rude and who will insult you for no good reason. They are just bitter for whatever reason and 99% of the time it has nothing to do with you, it is all about what is going on with them. She was probably just dumped by her boyfriend and is mad at the world, and especially at all guys. Just ignore people like that, don't even waste another second worrying about it. Good luck, you sound like a nice guy.
2007-01-28 14:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by bellyyo62 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She seemed actually to be flirting with you and being humorous..but you took it to heart and pretty much attacked her. I'm certain she wasn't sober but what was your excuse? You don't have to walk around being so sensitive and what you view as taking up for yourself is more like going out of your way to be a jerk. You should have had a snappy comeback instead. I'm from the States so I'm not sure what a nip is..but you could have made a reference to her nipple or anything else.
2007-01-28 14:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a girl, and I'm in college, and I will tell you that a) she didn't exactly insult you, and b) your "comeback" was just plain silly. Maybe you think women are glib because you don't have a lot of social skill?
2007-01-28 14:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by Julie K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're right; it's about time men stood up for themselves; what is a nip, by the way? Does that mean a shot?
2007-01-28 14:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry she was so impolite, but we really don't want to hear something so gross!!!
2007-01-28 14:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
girls can be bitches, and thats all their is to it...i dont know who that girl was but **** her
2007-01-28 14:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by fritnit1349 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋