WHY?
2007-01-28 13:57:36 · 17 answers · asked by Mr. Nice Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no
2007-01-28 14:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the beginning you bet. I was pregnant and married at nineteen (shot gun wedding). We had problem a couple months later and had a baby three months too early to boot. After that, let's just say there was never a dull moment, most of it good but some of the bad were REAL BAD.
With all the ups and downs it took a lot of tears, anger, resentment, trust issues and a lot of years to fight and keep this marriage together. Overall, it was shaky for the first eight years , it was not all bad but it sure made you wonder what you saw in him when the bad crept in.
Anyways although it was tough I must say that the last ten years have been easier and a lot more happy and fulfilling. We are now closer than ever (best friend you might say) and love each others company (quirks and all). I couldn't imagine being with anyone else, I'm glad we stuck it out (learned a lot) and don't regret it one bit.
2007-01-28 14:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I must admit I have. I've been married for 10 years and dated him for 8 years previous to that. When I did wish I hadn't married him was about a year ago... I was desperately lonely and then I felt he was unfaithful. I don't feel that way anymore. To be quite frank, I do believe there will be another time when I will go through this again. Probably when I feel unimportant, neglected, or even unappreciated. The feeling of not have gotten married may stem from the need to find someone who will make me feel important, attended, and appreciated, BUT not being able to search for this individual because I AM MARRIED. Psycho huh?
2007-01-28 18:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by lola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love being married. Granted I may not have been married as long as some people (3 years) but we've been together for almost 7. We have so much in common and we aren't as romantic with each other as we used to be, but even during the difficult times, I think what would happen if I lost him, and I know I'd be devestated. It's just a matter of finding the right one.
2007-01-28 14:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by glassflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married 2 days after my 18th birthday. Huge mistake. It did last for 18yrs but i cant say it was good after the first 5. He became an addict and I ended up supporting him and our two kids. If I could do it over I would have gone to college instead. Marriage is a lot of work and it takes both people to do it. I am now dating after 2 decades off the market. SCARY!!! My advice is to wait until at least your mid twenties so you can do college and have a career too.
2007-01-28 14:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yes! I knew the day I married him that it was a mistake, that we were not a good match. I was approaching 40 and had never been married, and thought if I didn't marry him, I may never get married! Wrong reason to marry someone. If I had it to do over again, I would listen to my gut and call it off. It cost me 4 years of heartache, and I will be very careful to not make that same mistake again.
2007-01-28 14:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by dallas_darling 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is I did it once and my husband and I will be married for the rest of our lives weather we are together or not. I will never get married for the second time. And I will not pay for a divorce nor will he, so that's why I say we will be married for the rest of our lives. Marriage sucks.....
2007-01-28 15:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by aloneathome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the opposite problem. I wish I had gotten married.
True, I've seen some bad marriages, but I would like to think that it's possible to have a good marriage to someone that I can love.
2007-01-28 14:04:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first marriage I was sorry. I had no reason to be happy. I was married to an alcoholic who abused me and my children for alot of years. We finally got divorced and I am now married again and doing better.
2007-01-28 14:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i don't wish that, even though i am divorced and my ex is worthless, i still don't wish that, i have a daughter that i love and would have never been here if i never got married, also, all the choices and actions that i have made have brought me up to this point in life, and i like this point in life, i am happy with myself
2007-01-28 14:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all.. I am so glad i am married to my husband and i would do it all over again if i could... I wish i would have felt this way in my first marriage but i did not and it caused alot of problems and heartache in my first marriage which ended in tragedy and sadness.
2007-01-28 14:11:09 · answer #11 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋