what do guys look for as far as qualities in a girl?

Question

I'm 5 ft. 5, 130 pounds, dark, curly hair, pale skin with rosy cheeks, freckles near my nose, brown eyes, long lashes, intelligent with a great sense of humor. How do i compare to other women?

Answer 1

You sound wonderful. I know 4'9" 150lb girls with plain faces, no sense of humor, no brains, and big mouths that have absolutely adorable boyfriends. There are some guys that claim to have high standards, but that's usually just to make up for the fact that women aren't attracted to them, they're sexually confused, or extremely narcissistic. If you're having any trouble in the guy area at all, it's their problem and not yours. So don't worry. One of these days they'll smarten up and see the perfect woman in front of them.

Answer 2

'Intelligent with a great sense of humor' - huge qualities. From a man's perspective, the looks department comes second in a rating of one to ten and from a woman's perspective, it comes a low seven.

For a man, the first thing he will look for is if the woman is good looking / attractive. After he gets to make contact, will he look for the other qualities I mentioned. Sad, but true. So if you have good looks and a vivacious personality, you're sure to hit it off better at the initial stage.

Answer 3

Well I haven't seen you but you sound cute.

Remember this though, lots of guys are going to go for different kinds of girls, we're all different.

You can be the hottest girl around but if you can't hold a conversation I'd rather avoid you.

Looks count for a little bit and they get you a little ways, but what is really important is the whole package. Just put yourself out there, as long as you're open to whatever then you might be pleasantly surprised.

Answer 4

You describe yourself very well, so i'd have to say you are very attractive so that's a plus.
What I look for in a woman, is intelligence, honesty, and she must be adventurous willing to try most anything (legal) atleast once. Also, she must feel comfortable being herself, not putting on any fronts to impress me or others.
Other things i look for are, signs of alcohol abuse, or use of non-prescription drugs, don't want to get hooked up with a druggie or a drunk.

Answer 5

this is a trick question. There are females that have issues i seek for. that isn't the priority. the priority is all the different BS you'll be able to desire to handle. So i assume the respond could be a woman who has extra stable features then undesirable ones.

Answer 6

Do you have a nice set of knockers ? Can you spell , chew gum and talk at the same time, cross the street without a boy scout to help you and the BIGGY are you a wax er ??

Answer 7

What guys look for in girls varies from guy to guy. Not all guys like the same thing.

As far as how you compare to other women, you should not worry about that.

Be the best "you" that you can be. No other woman can be "you" like you can.

Answer 8

a lot of guys go for the looks in a girl but if shes high maitenence, a ***** or a spoiled brat guys try to stay away

Answer 9

looks are only part of it, do you have goals, will you stop at nothing to achieve them, do you have self pride, are you happy with yourself no matter what anyone else thinks, is the glass half full or half empty, there are a lot of qualities that I look at in someone one of the last is overall looks.

Answer 10

A wise man once said, "I can't tell you what a pretty girl looks like, but I know one when I see one."

Having said that, I like a girl with brains. Smart girls are sexy.

Really.