Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

Does anyone know Tony...I think his name is Tony Doubld or something.

He's a sophomore at Kearny High School in New Jersey, he swims. Do you know him and how?

2007-01-28 13:52:58 · 9 answers · asked by Christy J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 13:52:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and I are long distance and for several weeks we've been planning that he'd come visit me next weekend. We haven't seen each other since New Year's. My mom's b-day is also on that weekend. I didn't plan on going home b/c I don't have a car, and my brother and sister who live in the same town didn't bother to inform me if they were gonna go home so I could ride with them. Well, now my mom called and said they were coming home so I should go with them. Even worse, they don't know that my bf is coming over; I didn't tell them because they don't like him. I am ticked off at my family for springing plans on me at the last minute. How should I resolve this situation? I hate to cancel on my bf because I don't know when I'll see him again if I do that. But I also don't want to piss off my family and be a bad daughter. What should I do?

2007-01-28 13:52:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My co-worker is wanting to buy her bridesmaids dresses from the abovementioned store but has heard rumours that the store may be closing? She has tried to call them but the phone was not answered.

2007-01-28 13:50:43 · 1 answers · asked by doofynic 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i like another kid that we are relly close friends not the one at the party a different one, so.... he onced asked me to go to the moves with him,but i have knoe 2 guys after me!!!what do i do!!!

2007-01-28 13:50:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone else in their early to mid 20s have a hard time making friends? Sometimes I feel like taking out a classified ad in the paper. It's so hard to meet people if you don't go to church and don't do something like scrapbooking or aerobics class or social groups like Kiwanis or Rotary or whatever. I consider myself intelligent, creative, and passionate, and I find that most people I meet have very different values and hobbies than I do. It's tough to find common ground. So how do you make friends? I'm especially interested in hearing from creative types--you will know what I mean about the need for fellowship with others like us. But regardless, I'd appreciate any input.

2007-01-28 13:50:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was raised in a Missionary Baptist church. My dad's parents raised HIM in the same church.
My boyfriend and I are very serious and probably getting engaged soon. However, he was raised in the Church of Christ. The two churches aren't very different, but he told me he doesn't feel comfortable going to my church. Church is a huge deal to my parents (not so much to his) and they're concerned about what will happen when we're married. How do I deal with this situation? Especially once we have kids?

2007-01-28 13:49:34 · 32 answers · asked by SaintsFan 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been going out for just about 2 years now.. she lives with me on the weekends when I'm off work. I'm 21 and a police officer so I have the whole career thing going for me already and we have been talking about moving out with eachother soon after I Graduate the police academy and get some money in the bank. Just wondering when the right time to get engaged would be? I know this is the girl I want to be with, we get along great and share so many of the same characteristics and views.

We are not really planning on getting married for about 2 years or so, that way she can graduate from college and my salary wont affect her scholarship grant. But wanted to get engaged with her just to show her that she is that special something in my life and I want to share all my future experiences with her.

2007-01-28 13:49:34 · 11 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Weddings

I recently married a very nice guy that I love dearly. Problem is that real life is settling in and now that we are married, he is getting a lot more demanding, intolerant of my needs ( I am finishing grad school..working full time now), and likes things his way. Now I don't mind so much, I am accomodating as I can be. But the moodiness and blaming is getting concerning....and I am working so hard to get him legal, with health insurance...ya da ya da.

I don't want pity, I just want to know what to do..some ideas. I see problems brewing. Not easy ones...and I know what the problems are: smoker, drinking but doesn't think it is an issue. Wanting to quit but still in an awkward time adjusting to it all.

I am being tolerant. But the moodiness is a bit much. And I put a lot of time into legal matters, homemaking, and him every week. What is the deal? Does it even matter in the long run?

2007-01-28 13:49:29 · 22 answers · asked by kishoti 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-28 13:49:27 · 17 answers · asked by jdm 1 in Singles & Dating

In a "holliwoodian" society that throws sex in our faces every minute, prasing quantity over quality... how can we find our sexuality be happy with it and enjoy a healthy relationship without any tabu or inhibitions??? why do we think of it as something dirty, unacceptable and something we should t speak about?

2007-01-28 13:49:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your bf made a comment about you having a little bit of a gut and then claims it really doesn't matter to him...would you believe him?

What if he also makes comments about "fat" women or even women in hollywood (Tyra Banks and Kirsty Alley) getting or being "fat" or "chunky". Would you still believe him when he says it (your weight/stomach) didn't matter to him when it comes to you??

2007-01-28 13:48:12 · 1 answers · asked by DebChick 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I deal with out looking like a phsyco jealous girlfriend?

2007-01-28 13:47:13 · 15 answers · asked by viva 2 in Singles & Dating

I was in love with a woman (I'm 42, she's 37) and I finally thought I'd met my soul mate - till things went from bad to worse - and now she's seeing someone else since 15 days...how do I get her back...and if I cannot, how do I cope with the tremendous sorrow and loneliness I feel?

2007-01-28 13:46:52 · 5 answers · asked by sumit 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been married 17yrs. hes lied and cheated at least 2, and he says he want to stay together but i see him as a monster. is it time to move on?

2007-01-28 13:46:19 · 16 answers · asked by wifey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-28 13:45:32 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm so adorable. Can you imagine the world without me? That would just be terrible.

2007-01-28 13:45:24 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi my name is Nikki I am 17 years old I am currently in a serious relationship with my boyfriend...For our anniversary he surprised me with a half a carat promise ring..
What does it mean when a guy gives you a pomise ring..


Thanks to everyone in advance for answering

2007-01-28 13:45:21 · 16 answers · asked by Beautiful Disaster♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

yea, im getting tired of the old positions. any one have some new innovated ones?? thanks!!

2007-01-28 13:45:11 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 13:43:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In a world where more than 50% of the women don t get married, and where more than 50% of the elders die alone in their houses in case of disaters because they have nobody, how do you know if you are supposed to hare your life with somebody? and how do you know when you meet that somebody? is the idea of people making other people happy extinct?

2007-01-28 13:42:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When men get out of a relationship do they go for something better? Or do they settle for whatever they can get? When they get with someone else do they compare them? In a way I do - my husband is 500 times better in EVERY way than my ex was. But my husbands ex is a peice of trash and not so good looking, how could he go from that to me. (not tryin to be stuck up)

2007-01-28 13:42:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Whenever I feel upset about something in my own life, or things aren't going well for me and things are going well for my friends - I don't feel happy for them one bit. I tend to resent them or hope that those good things never happened for them. For example, if my friend were ever talking about how great her boyfriend is and how much fun she had with him one day, and I had nothing new to report with my boyfriend, I'd get annoyed with her for even talking to me about it, and sometimes wish she'd never met her b/f.

It's not like I'm never happy for my friends, it's just that I'm not whenever things aren't going just as well for me at the moment. Is this just a jealousy thing or what? I really don't like this trait I have and I want to feel happy for my friends ALL THE TIME and always be supportive, without having to fake it.

Is there something wrong with me and how can I fix this?

2007-01-28 13:41:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were kickin it nonstop for bout a week, hes 26000n debt and tryng hard to me it work. the problem he got upset cuz he came to my job which is a bar and i was busy so i didnt give him a drink and i wasnt really able to talk to him so he was mad. that night he went to another girl house that he claims is a friend and slept there. after that happen i wasnt feeling him and i didnt know what to do. its been a week of us not seeing each other but he calls and try but i turn him down. what should i do should i talk to him? i dont really know what to thing or say i do like him but damn.

2007-01-28 13:40:58 · 5 answers · asked by the truth, do you hear me 1 in Singles & Dating

At the end of my senior year started to go out with a boy that i had liked for a year. When i graduated my family and I moved from NY to SC, the same week i moved he moved from the down the street in NY to Idaho... we had a long distance relationship for about 3 months, but had been dating for 6 months.

Before we started going out we were best friends, i mean he even drove to FL with my mom and I before we were going out. When he broke up with me i thought everything was over. Then we stayed friends talking every other day. Then he told me he was thinking about going to the college i'm transferring and alll my feelings came back so fast and now he's going to go to westpoint. I'm so depressed and so torn up.

i know the likely hood of getting back together is tiny but i cant get raid of that hope. We're still amazing friends and i talk to him so much.

Please someone help me? how do i get over him and move on!?

2007-01-28 13:40:37 · 7 answers · asked by sXe... try it 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom and me dont get along at all im a teen and she doesnt let me do anything at all. like go to the dance or to a friends house or date I try to tell her i hate it and i have no social life but today things hit the fan........we were sitting at the dinner table and she said i wasnt going to any dances ever and when i got my car all i could dont was go to school and they would have a gps put in the car so they would no... i put my fork on the plate and left to my room where i shut my door..... then they tell me to get out there ......so i got and she's like we give you everythin you could want me:i have no social life
Mom: your friends are always calling you
me: because they think i died!!
mom: tthats not true
me: everyday i try to have a life but you keep me in this hell
mom: wow
pause
mom: if your unhappy you can live with kenny (real dad my dad now adpoted me)
me: i rather hang myself and go to hell then live with that bastard
mom: your dad and me will see where u can go

2007-01-28 13:40:09 · 1 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

After the papers have gone out and then the other persons sends their papers; is there anyway to say stop the divorce or does it have to go on since you both already did some papers and lawyers are involved?

2007-01-28 13:39:03 · 12 answers · asked by Tgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

how much would you pay for it?

2007-01-28 13:38:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-28 13:38:56 · 6 answers · asked by LostLove 1 in Friends

and every day that goes by i feel like less of a man how do i feel normal again?

2007-01-28 13:38:49 · 17 answers · asked by rollin1530 1 in Friends