In a "holliwoodian" society that throws sex in our faces every minute, prasing quantity over quality... how can we find our sexuality be happy with it and enjoy a healthy relationship without any tabu or inhibitions??? why do we think of it as something dirty, unacceptable and something we should t speak about?
2007-01-28 13:49:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-29 09:47:51 · update #1
We just have to accept sexuality as an exciting part of life; it is a basic need of survival. But humans have diverged from nature, adding emotion to the fundamentals. In nature sex is a means of acceptance; strong traits are chosen over the weak ones. In our society we also have the materialistic side. Don't get confused. When a person sleeps with you it means you have been accepted into their bed, loving somebody does not mean that they are worth your soul. Sex is most pleasurable when there is a true connection and understanding between partners. The quality of sex is mental as well as physical-- my girlfriend and I are always passionate, I say things to her I do not say to anybody about sex and about other things. Because we share this, every time I think about the last time I made love to my girlfriend I crave the next time. But I think the most important thing is that we connect on other levels as well and our acceptance our mental view is reflected in a physical sense.
2007-01-29 16:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by 18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me the importance of true love making, is from a spiritual sense, when two souls meet and connect on some higher level, and you just can't help but want to melt into each other, the passion to become one is completely overwhelming. Not just getting it on and having an orgasm, granted that's what most have in today's society and have fun with it, but I'd rather have the other any day. *Let you know when I find it(lol)* if it exists?, I don't have much experience in that dept., but if I couldn't find it with supposedly the love of my life, in marriage? Then maybe "Hollywood" has the right idea? Or maybe people just settle, before finding"the one", that makes the heart skip a beat! Then they gladly boast quantity over quality because they have never experienced anything else.
2007-01-29 03:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Aces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only befor marraige is it portrade this way. After marraige no one cares. My current boy friend has had sex befor marraige more then once. He regrets it aswell. Hollywood makes movies that have sex because it provides sexual apeal, and "fun" for veiwers. I personaly would never have sex until after marraige. My boyfriend has never asked me to do anything I would'nt want to. Sex is a natural stage in life, and can only be enjoyed when with the right person. God made us to love one person for our entire life and not to loose our virginity befor we get married. Thats they way it should be. Hope I helped!
~Hannah Christina
2007-01-28 13:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We need to take a lesson from the Europeans who are less inhibited and hung up regarding sex. We have puritan ties which will always look at sex as a dirty sin.
2007-01-28 13:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by sup 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not #1 on the list but it's not on the bottom either.
2007-01-28 15:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because Eve just had to eat that damned apple.
2007-01-28 13:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by steve.c_50 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
our society should be less dirty than it is. or at least keep that away from the public.
2007-01-28 13:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not my top priority, but I would like some now and then.
2007-01-28 14:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know how many stupid spelling errors there are in your question?
2007-01-28 14:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by 2u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we don't all think that!!!!
2007-01-28 13:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋