At the end of my senior year started to go out with a boy that i had liked for a year. When i graduated my family and I moved from NY to SC, the same week i moved he moved from the down the street in NY to Idaho... we had a long distance relationship for about 3 months, but had been dating for 6 months.
Before we started going out we were best friends, i mean he even drove to FL with my mom and I before we were going out. When he broke up with me i thought everything was over. Then we stayed friends talking every other day. Then he told me he was thinking about going to the college i'm transferring and alll my feelings came back so fast and now he's going to go to westpoint. I'm so depressed and so torn up.
i know the likely hood of getting back together is tiny but i cant get raid of that hope. We're still amazing friends and i talk to him so much.
Please someone help me? how do i get over him and move on!?
2007-01-28 13:40:37 · 7 answers · asked by sXe... try it 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
find someone else.
hang out with other people and find that your better than him and can find others better than him.
2007-01-28 13:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by Huh? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to do it is to cut ties for a little while. You're not going to be able to think of someone else if you're thinking of him all the time. Maybe you should talk to him about this a little, you guys are older now and maybe you could actually have a long distance relationship. Or maybe it's just not your time yet and you'll come together again in the future. If you truly want to get over him, though, I'm afraid there's not going to be any way better than taking some time away from each other until it's easier to talk without those feelings.
2007-01-28 13:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jennylind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi girl, thats a tough one... My point of view of the situation is to follow your heart. If depression is taking over you about this boy, you should let him know your feelings inside and out. Not saying that, that will stop him from going to college but after getting that of your back, i promise you will feel some what better.. If im still not answering your question hit me back im here..................
2007-02-05 12:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mickey B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In modern times all definitions changed. Now love never lasts forever. Now try to get another good guy where you work, study or stay. He must be caring and sensitive like you. Try to get yourself involved in more work. And enjoy rest of the time with new good guy. Never ever go into your past again.
2007-02-05 05:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by santosh j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As difficult as it is, it sounds like it would be better to just move on. It will take lots of time to move on, but in the long run, it will be worth it. Your listening to your heart that says maybe there is a chance, but listen to your head, be strong and move forward. Good Luck!!!!
2007-02-05 11:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear your sadness,but you can get over this,i know it's not easy,but you really be okay.what you need to do is find an activity you like to do,I'm sure you will meet somebody there that will like you,and whom you will like back,let your old boyfriend go.there is an old saying it goes something like this,if you love something set it free,if it comes back it was meant to be.I've been in your shoes trust me you will be happy again.let him go!
2007-02-05 06:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by myself sheri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are still 'amazing friends', that in itself is quite something, these days. Don't lose that friendship.
2007-01-28 14:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by sandyblondegirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋