Is THE ONE extinct? How do you know that he/she is THE ONE?

Question

In a world where more than 50% of the women don t get married, and where more than 50% of the elders die alone in their houses in case of disaters because they have nobody, how do you know if you are supposed to hare your life with somebody? and how do you know when you meet that somebody? is the idea of people making other people happy extinct?

Answer 1

for some yes. If you dont have kids or get married you are taking a chance there will be no one to look after you when your old. You could end up with someone who is just looking to cash in when you die.

Answer 2

This question is a trick and the person who came upwith it is probably evil; but who am I to say. How do we know that there ever actually was ever "the one," and the idea is nothing more than just a romantic fantasy? But, if you believe there is one then the one does exist. The key is not to idealize your partner or your own judgment, thinking that everybody who says a few smart words, shares a few things in common, or has really great sex is the one.

A woman's role has changed allowing more freedom and self sufficiency, so if 50% of all women live alone that leaves another 50% with somebody. Somewhere in there exists enough tolerance to say he/she is the one.

The key is to date someone for n less than all seasons... That way you can see if they can tolerate all conditions. Then you will know that you have found the one...GOOD FORTWO POINTS.

Answer 3

The One is NOT extinct. Sometimes it takes a LOOOONNNG time to find them but you will. With the evolution of the internet your odds have increased. remember that dating is a numbers game and to be open to new oppertunities. the reason elders ie alone is because their spouses have died before them--sharing a long and happy life before they died, having had children with them and grand children. most of those elders are stubborn and independent because they think they dont need to be taken care of because they raised children and dont want to be taken care of by their babies. they think they took care of their babies and they ought to continue to do do and it shouldnt be the other way around THAT is why they dont live with them. THAT is why they die alone. so we bumped of the spouse and they refuse to live with the kids they are extremely independent this person is stubborn so they refuse to live in assisted livig because lets face it the thought of living in one of thoe communities would make them go out of their gourd! and they arent qualified for a nursing home. no wonder thy want to live by themselves! they dont have any other options! then the disasters come! so now here they are all alone a stubborn oldperson with "no one" they can count on because of their situation. THAT is why they die. as for why the women dont get married its because they are either picky or the men are picky. lets face it, we all have higher standards due to the media and magazines. when's the last time you saw somebody NORMAL on a magazone cover? even jennifer anniston gets airbrushed. she can't even meet her own standards for getting on a magazine! she has to lose 20 pounds in post production and a few moles and add makeup! its getting ridiculous! people need to look on the inside, not the outside. Jesus said if you wash the inside of the cup the outside of the cup will naturally be cleaned. He was talking about your soul but I think you get what i'm trying to say. Men can apply the same idea too. If we'd all just lower our standards a little bit and be a little forgiving and remember we are all human our marraige rates would go up and our divorce rates would go down. dont forget that gays are also counted among singles.

Answer 4

Very good multiple part question.In my search it seems "she" does not exist.Some of the problem with people not finding each other and not staying together is we are too busy.Its sad but true! So many things to do, we forget to slow down and look around.This world is obsessed with getting ahead and we work ourselves to death to get there.I personally am going to slow down and enjoy life a little everyday.We single people probably missed someone special along the way.

Answer 5

The answer to all your questions, is you dont. Those people who who dont get married and die alone, you dont know if they prefer it that way. I dont believe in "the one". Your life is what you make of it, good or bad, especially if you make a relationship work. The main thing is not to hurry. Nothing good gets away.

Answer 6

Wait until you've had sex with that person a few times. Then ask yourself if you might be able to tolerate him for another month or two more. If so, that's about as good as it gets, so you might as well get hitched.

Answer 7

When you meet someone (I'll use a girl since I'm a guy), let's say she's really pretty and nice. Every time you talk to her, see her, even think about her, your stomach turns. I miss that feeling, actually... it felt nice to be like that now that its over...

Answer 8

Well in todays society, its hard to determine who the ONE is because it seems that infidelity is popular unfortunately. Hope is still there...you know you found the ONE when you and that person cant even IMAGINE life with someone else.