Ive been married 17yrs. hes lied and cheated at least 2, and he says he want to stay together but i see him as a monster. is it time to move on?
2007-01-28 13:46:19 · 16 answers · asked by wifey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES.
Asking us is your sign that you are asking permission.
You have mine but you don't need anyones.
2007-01-28 13:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by kishoti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know everyone says this.....but it's true! When it's the right time you'll stop wondering and know it. Make a list with two rows...Good and Bad:
If there are more bad things than good it's a great indicator that you need to explore your options and think about moving on.
Best of luck!
2007-01-28 21:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by wbmastergoug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it over when you see him as a monster and can't stand to be in the same house with him. When you have no love left in your heart and want to live life single again. You just know, don't second guess yourself. It's over it just is
2007-01-28 21:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to stay with you and stop his cheating ways then try to work on and save your marriage even if you need help and counseling for you and your marriage to do so... Do not give up on him and your marriage until after you tried all this and it does not work or make things better in your marriage.
2007-01-28 22:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 17 years, no cause if your love has went through 2 cheats dont give up now if you love him, if you dont then i say move on honey you can get better.... ive been in your shoes and he cheated 3 times i caught them in my bed, but we have 4 children and ill be damn if im giving him up now..... and we are going on 21 years
2007-01-28 21:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by okurbusted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bible says that if your partner is unfaithful, you may divorce him, if you are not living in peace, you dont need to stay with him, God hates a broken heart, cry out to Him and He will answer you....Jesus loves you
2007-01-28 21:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by Bert 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know it's over when you're (really) ready to say it's over. Not before. And despite this cad's behavior, it may not be enough for you yet. Only you know the answer to that.
2007-01-28 23:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was time to move on when he first lied to you.
2007-01-28 21:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES. Move on. Trust your instincts.
...but before you move on, prepare your papers so that you'll get financially what's yours. Get your evidences in place. Don't rush out until you get a good lawyer.
2007-01-28 21:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by RunSueRun 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to remain with someone whom you feel you can not trust, the answers are inside of you. Do what makes you happy!
2007-01-28 22:00:37 · answer #10 · answered by snickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋