I was in love with a woman (I'm 42, she's 37) and I finally thought I'd met my soul mate - till things went from bad to worse - and now she's seeing someone else since 15 days...how do I get her back...and if I cannot, how do I cope with the tremendous sorrow and loneliness I feel?
2007-01-28 13:46:52 · 5 answers · asked by sumit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first thing to do is to do is to realize that sometimes a loss can be a much bigger gain that we could ever imagine. The next thing you have to do is realize how good you are and where you are in your life. You have to know that if you are meant to be with her, then it will happen in God's time. There may be something she and you both have to go through before you are ready for each other. Or, on the flip side, you are intended for someone else who will give you more love than your heart has room for. Just be patient, as I said, that someone could very well be her, but a little further down the road. You have my prayers that things work out for the best either way and I pray for you heart to heal.
2007-01-28 13:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by singtobeme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You hang out with your friends.. you get a hobby other than thinking of her.... you find some new chicks to hang with. Getting your mind off of her is the key. You can sit and mope for eternity and it won't change a thing. Tomorrow will come and the next soul mate will arrive as well. Have faith my dear friend!!
2007-01-28 13:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sumit i can tell u jst one thing...its only ur heart that can decide whom to trust n whom not......she might have left and u hv realised she was not the soulmate u imagined.....so u need to live in the hope that u will meet her sumday...maybe soon enough....one person cant be the whole world to you...u hv to expand ur horizons and luk out....promise urself u will get urself a partner in 3 months....and work up the challenge...i hv been struggling since the past 3 yrs and found her in jst 1month....so the bottomline is keep up d hope....n hunt online or offline...it wasnt jst meant to be ...u hv to accept the truth nw..m too younger 2u to advice u but i thought maybe my words can do some magic to ur spirit....
2007-01-28 16:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by rajdebrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to sort out the reasons, as to y she had left u........n if ur sure that she truly luved u, ask her y she did so.
........time vil heal is still correct, its jus 15days, bt even u should try to forget it, if u sit n cry n wait 4 time to heal it, how can it happen.
ask god to giv u sum courage to face this situation.
move ahead dont make ur life stagnant.make urself busy in sum other things so that u may not hav time to think about her.
all the best.
2007-01-28 13:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ramya R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suck it up..be a man..go look for another and get a drink
2007-01-28 14:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by dewbe_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋