2007-01-28 13:49:27 · 17 answers · asked by jdm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well everyone that is saying get another girlfriend hasnt really felt that deeply for somebody. The fact is i loved a girl once and well she end up being a mega ***** lol..anywayz i went off the rails trying to get over her..from the classic having loads of one night stands and clubbing and all that other **** didnt work.So then i got a girlfriend like people are saying on here, that dont work either.In the end it took me 10 times as long as it would have to get over her and i messed up my degree big time.The fact is you gotta just give yourself some time to get over the hurt dont try quick fixes because other wise you will drag that hurt on....Trust me just take some time off the girls for a bit...
2007-01-28 14:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by SUNIL S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the first thing to do is figure out why you broke up with her and if it was a good enough reason. Do you still like her, or was it a fling? Because if you can't get over her quick, that means you really didn't need to brake up with her. Rethink what you did.
Or, if that's not the case, try not to think of her, go out with friends, do something to distract your mind. Good Luck!
2007-01-28 13:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends why you broke up with her in the first place. The bottom line is you sound like you still love her a lot. Keep asking yourself what is best on a long term; not what hurts on a short-term.
2007-01-28 13:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lois L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude but to be it sounds like she broke up with you. My suggestion is to just give it some time then go out and try to find someone new.
Hope this is helpful.
2007-01-28 13:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welllll..... if u broke up with her and u like her why did u break up with her in the first place. and umm the easiest way to get over her is when u think of her start talking to one of ur friends about something totally different so u forget her and dont look at her if she is in one room go to another. avoid her. unless u want to stay friends.
2007-01-28 13:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by Agu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to get hurt. You dont feel the same way for her anymore, it happens. Itll take a while for you (and your ex) to get over this. Heres some advice:Move on, find someone else, remain friends with your ex.
2007-01-28 13:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by daydream♥believer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sux u cant get over her quicker im not trying to be mean but truthful...ive said this plenty of times u never truly get over a person u just have to take it one day at a time and things will get better...i still think of all my exes and luvers it sux :) feel better!!
2007-01-28 13:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that feeling, dude. Its been years and I just got over a girl. Now I have to get over another girl. Life feels like total **** and you feel like hell, right? Sorry, even I'm looking for a pain reliever.
2007-01-28 13:53:32 · answer #8 · answered by Link 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um maybe trying going out with another girl.Forget about your past. It will be good 4 u.Good Luck.
2007-01-28 13:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by 2jackweedm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's that hard to get over her, why did you break up with her in the first place???
If all else fails, time will help. Over time, your heart will heal, but other than that, nothing else can help.
2007-01-28 13:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋