Im in middle school and my best friend(12) is going out with a highschool drop out(16) going out with him is really hurting her reputation.shes a nice girl good grades excelent athelete and shes really pretty.i usually go 2 her for advise.theres this grl in my school shes extremely jellious bcoz she cant get a date for her life. after her 1st date wih her boyfriend she missed school for about 3 days and the jelious girl started a rumor that my bestfrend was pregnate.she even texted my bestfriend saying that im starting a bunch of rumors when she came back 2 school every1 was laughing at her while she was walking down the hallz.and i ws the only 1 defending her.but sumhow the skool councelor found out so every girl in my grade had 2 go 2 an assemboly where the principal had 2 talk to us afterwards my best friend and i had to hav a private conversation with the skool councelor shes convenced i started alot of rumors and everyone in our skool is laughing or making fun of her what do i do
2007-01-28 14:08:02 · 6 answers · asked by Nikki DV 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That is tough. The worst that happens is that no one believes you and in a couple of months when she's not showing her "pregnancy", then people will start talking about her having an abortion..... I think you got sucked into the vacuum of hell that rumors and gossip creates. First I would convince your friend that you didn't start those rumors, and then start being really aggressive to anyone that makes fun of her, target the ring leaders. People you don't want to be friends with will hate you, people that respect you for it will want to be your friends. Just do the right thing. You might also want to ask what is going on between your friend and her bf. Because that whole situation makes me worry, you girls aren't old enough to recognize when a older guy starts manipulating you, because that is what they do. Stand up for your friend and yourself, just do what is right and it will be hard, but it will work out. promise.
2007-01-28 14:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by LALALALALALALA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats hard but first off you need to make sure that the ***** who started the rumors gets slapped in the face and your best friend needs to break up with this guy i could understand if she was going out with someone around her age but 16 seems too old for a 12 year old and if hes a drop-out only makes it worse
2007-01-28 14:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get upset. Keep your cool no matter what. Focus on the issue (your friend's rep) and defend her with the facts. Rumors are intended to make people mad. The rumor mill worked on you. You cant let that happen. Dont let lies get to you, trust yourself. Please get your friend to ditch the drop out, that will bring you down as well.
2007-01-28 14:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by Benny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she/you should tell the principal what actually went on... that girl is stupid ...do not let her get to you or she will drive you crazy!. believe me...or sit down with your friend and tell her what really went on...and if she doesnt believe you she is not a Real friend...
Talk to her!!!
2007-01-28 14:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by crzycoolswmr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must realize that people will believe what they want to believe!!! There is nothing you can do about that!!! I believe that no matter how good a friend is , they"re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that!!!!!!
2007-01-28 14:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, a 12 year old has no business dating a 16 year old. He's a pedephile!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-28 14:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋