i never loved my boyfriend i've just been dating him because my family likes him. he is a very nice person and he is always there for me but he is more like homie than a hubbie if u know wut im saying. we've been together 3 years and he really loves me with all of his heart. but i only like him.
2007-01-28 13:58:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't have to please your parents, you only have to please yourself. You will marry the guy,and you will have to deal with him, so if you won't be happy with him, then i suggest, not marry him,and find someone you love, and love you in return.
2007-01-28 14:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by OnionSkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the other guy love you with all of his heart and will you and he have the support of your family and his family? There is more to a good relationship than that in love feeling all time.
You will fall in love over and over with that person who is kind and respects you over a life time!
Your parents, let me guess loves you and are older than you and wants what is best for you?
This is the kind of person you know will not break your vows and be there when tough time arise.
Just think beyond that being in love feeling because it is very hard to not love someone who is so kind.
I hope that I get to meet my Boaz someday. Until then, I pass on all other guys becasue it is not worth it!
Hope you make the right decision. That being in love stuff only works if you are on the same accord! Remember there are other issues to consider when looking for a life partner!
Arene
2007-01-28 14:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After three years, you know whether you want to be with someone for the rest of your life. Maybe you two should split up for a bit so you can get a clarification on your feelings. That time could make you see him in a different life or confirm what you feel now.
2007-01-28 14:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a mistake by been with this man for three year, trying to please your mother and your family that was wrong of you staying with him all this time without telling him the true. Tell him don't go threw with it ,don't mess his life up when he can be with somebody else and you can be with the person you in love with.You don't want to be marry and unhappy. Don't worry about your mother and family because you have to deal with this for the rest of your life.
2007-01-28 14:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by msredbonel1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't marry someone just because you family likes him. Afterall you're the one that is going to wake up next to him for the rest of your life, and have to deal with all the issues and thoughts of marrying the guy you didn't really want in the first place.
2007-01-28 14:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by motroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, you shouldn't marry someone just because your mom says you should; especially, if you don't love him. because there could come a time in your marriage that you will regret it and blame your mom. So, your best bet is to just tell your boyfriend and your mom how you feel. If they both love you enough they should understand. believe me I have been down this road before!
2007-01-28 14:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by andreana411 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to follow your heart. i know it is your mom, but if u don't like him u should share with ur parents how u feel. and Girl go for the guy u like
2007-01-28 14:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by cherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never listened to your mom before..... why start now...
2007-01-28 14:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋