well, i've been friends with this girl (well let's calll her) monica since i was like 10 years old (im only 14 now btw) and last year in gr 8, i started hanging out with another group; in it, a girl named bonnie and a girl named clarissa. in gr. 7, monica kinda made fun of bonnie about her clothes and stuff and i never really liked it. this year in gr. 9, monica's hangin out with bonnie and im more with clarissa. which is really weird cuz monica's being a real hypocrite. i gotta say that bonnie's more "girly" and stuff this year and more brand name-ish and now their really good friends. im hangin out more with clarissa and we're really good freinds too and we know whats going on with our friendship (meaning me, clarissa, bonnie and monica) and we dont wanna be freinds with just each other, but with monica and bonnie too. is there anything i can do?
2007-01-28 14:00:02 · 6 answers · asked by monkeypie6 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
As you grow older, from 10 to 14 is a big difference, your interests & personalities change. Just because you were friends when you were 10 doesn't mean you'll always be friends. Just be nice to them, try to include them, & if they still don't want to be friends just let them go.
2007-01-28 14:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... my advice to you would be if you wanna be friends with them, talk to them a lot, even about random things. Include them in a lot of things and try to do things together.
If they don't feel the same way and don't care about being really really close friends with you, then you either give up, or you can take every chance to bind with them. But make sure you don't come off as being annoying.
And believe me, whatever you do, it'll take a while, so be patient
2007-01-29 11:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by monkeypie66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah.... be friends with them..............wow this was easy
Not all of your friends will like one another, just remember that when one of your friends starts talking junk on another one, stick up for them don't jump on the band wagon, because if you do your friend that is being talked about will be told that you said it or agreed...... If your friends who are talking junk get mad at you tell them that you would stick up for them too if someone were talking that way about them............................
2007-01-28 22:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by kevferg64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love them Like Jesus
2007-01-28 22:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by Daddy-O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice to each other.
2007-01-28 22:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol get your grade school wanna be drama stuff off here
2007-01-28 22:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by Doss 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋