2007-01-28 13:59:29 · 18 answers · asked by rat_leg danny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am attracted by personality, looks, confidence.
2007-01-28 14:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you attracted to someone is your looks, your personality, good hygiene and good sense of humor. Sometimes your fashion too. That's what grabs a person attention. That's the key, the hair, clothes and smell. Then a good intelligent conversation helps also. Don't be to eager or clingy that's a big turn off.
2007-01-28 22:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by sweetmocha07031984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't deny that physical looks is what attracts first a person to another person but will it hold? Honestly, I once met this very attractive man who from all angles was my dream boat, physically attractive, comes from good family, good school, etc. but after a few dates I was totally turned off because I found out he was a very opinionated person and was very conceited at that. I don't think he will become the loving and understanding partner that I really want nor can we satisfy each others emotional needs he being 'egoistic'.
Anyway, if you want to be attracted to someone else, try to cultivate in yourself first a person who is nice to be with. A person who is not selfish, who thinks of others even before himself or herself. And of course you should always be considerate of other people by not making them wait for you, not hurting their feelings, always be neat and decent, friendly and always be there for your friends. Once you cultivated these traits in yourself, people will naturally be drawn to you. They feel good being with you.
2007-01-28 22:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by bethcelis88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their character and the way they treat people. That is the first thing. If they have a positive attitude and a good laugh, that is next. Of course I want someone who agrees with me on my religious beliefs and values, but character, integrity, sense of humor, positive attitude and treating people right are the things that attact me to someone.
2007-01-28 22:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person with a great personality and a kind heart, someone whos fun to be around
2007-01-28 22:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks... personality... and how they treat me. If they make me feel good, I will be attracted to them!
2007-01-28 22:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by Julie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is if u find them attractive - then there attitude. If they are sexy and are a good person then there u go.
2007-01-28 22:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality for sure. easy on the eyes is a plus. treating me like I'm the only person in the world is the icing on the cake.
2007-01-28 22:06:29 · answer #8 · answered by beachprincesssc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first sight the smile and that special twinkle in their eye. After that its all about what's inside.
2007-01-28 22:06:59 · answer #9 · answered by Debs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i usually see their eyes and smile but then their personality is what really gets me...after that their looks and everything else grows on me. if they can make me feel good about myself and make me laugh a lot IM IN!
2007-01-28 22:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by loversarereal5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋