Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

My wedding plans with my fiancee keep changing, mainly because there is so much going on in our families this year. Initially, we were supposed to go to city hall with our parents this November and then have a bigger ceremony in a year. But, my brother, who is in Iraq, will be coming home in April and we're not sure when he'll be back again. I want him to be there to see me get married, so my fiancee and I decided to move the city hall wedding up to April. However, his parents won't be able to join us. They live in the south and their daughter is having a baby around that same time. So, to include them in our plans, we are planning to fly out and stay with them the weekend we get married. Do you think they will be upset that they weren't at the ceremony even though it is only at city hall?

I should add that we are no longer having the second ceremony because my fiancee thinks it will be a waste of money since we will already be married and we are on a very tight budget.

2007-01-27 12:49:34 · 9 answers · asked by Galoshes 3 in Weddings

went out with this girl i like last week she is 14 im 17 and she said she likes me 2 but the whole night she never really spoke to me much just to her friend but then she started talking a lot when we were walking home together just me and her and her mum drove past and she turned down getting a lift home and walked home with me instead this tells me she wanted to spend more time with me but im getting mixed signals what do u think is going on in her head do u think she really does want me or not? btw she isnt very shy either (just before people say this is the reason for it) and also i had never met her friend before this night

2007-01-27 12:49:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is your personal opinion about marriage and family and about having children? What is your life-long partner going to be?

This is a question for non-married people.

2007-01-27 12:49:16 · 8 answers · asked by HarrisonZ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my boss isnt married anymore and hes a big time ceo and im his secretary it all started after a meeting and he grabbed my but . im hoooott with a rock body and butt he said and i said excuse me and i turned around and he had an erection. and yea i blew him and stuff i feel guilty should i quit...

2007-01-27 12:48:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so here's how it is i was at a b-day party and i told my friends who i like and one told! so he found out and at first he was all cool about it but then he kept sayin he liked someone else and not me! so he was going on vacation & he kept saying his heart hurt because he was leaving me for 5 days! Then said he was kidding and after that he started being rude and said he didn't even like me! so i said that i won't like him anymore because it would be a waste of time and he made me cry!!!
nobody understands, please help!!!

2007-01-27 12:46:51 · 21 answers · asked by some call me CUTE 3 in Singles & Dating

Last week when I went bridesmaid dress shopping with my party, my soon to be Mother-in-Law found a very nice dress that allows you to pick color options. It's a two piece dress and she wanted to get the black skirt with an ivory top (the ivory should practically be white, it's not ivory at all)...my bridesmaids, mother and the dress shop owner all jumped in and said that this would not be appropiate...come to find out she purchased it today! I am fuming! what should I do? Stay quiet or speak up?

2007-01-27 12:46:03 · 23 answers · asked by ellem_x2 1 in Weddings

these guys like getting me drunk so they can see me act stupid and they laughed at my mom tonight , i dont want to goout drinking and acting like an idiot are these friends or not

2007-01-27 12:45:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why i live....
why god gave me a brain ( if i dont use it)...
why do you think is making me stir all up like this?

2007-01-27 12:44:57 · 11 answers · asked by My chesse 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy that i've been talking to broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago. and that's how long we've been talking. but it's obvious she still likes him and she said she doesn't want him talking to anyone else. but he said he really likes me and wants to talk to me. the problem is everytime i see him at school they're always walking together or she's trying to hold his hand. and he tries to pull away but it seems like there's somthing i don't know. he won't talk to me when she's around and i questioned him about what was going on between them. he said that he doesn't like her anymore and he's focusing on me right now but he doesn't want to be mean to her and tell her to go away. am i wrong for getting mad? what should i do?

2007-01-27 12:44:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I divorced with my husband last year. I am now a graduate student. My two daughter are living with their fathers far away, because I can't afford two kids now, and if I take one I would defintely miss the other, I chose let them live with their father. I miss them every day, every moment. i wish one day I can find the one love me and I love him and set up my family, then take my kids back. But I can imagine how long it would take, My parents said that if I took the kids now, it would be very difficult to find a good man. These days I stayed in home all days surfing online because I am really drpressed. Others have happy family, big house and happy kids to live with, I don't have anything.... I even wanna die, but thinking my kids, I can't. What can I do, I think now I need love, need care and need the hope.

2007-01-27 12:44:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

at school, i'm reallly shy. i talk online with a guy i like all the time, but at school he tries to talk to me,i get nervous because theres a lot of people around us.and hardly talk back to him.. what should i do?

2007-01-27 12:43:17 · 13 answers · asked by <3 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont know whats really wrong with me just lately i been depressed over nuttin and been very irritable to my wife and kids when i am bothered I was never like this before. Nuttin been going wrong in my life it just hit me all at once. Today we got into a fight over nuttin I got her some food she asked for and forgot the fork and knife (it was pizza) and she made a comment about me forgeting it i asked her if she wanted me to get her a set she like if thats not a Incovince to you all cocky to me I snaped back at her saying Why do you say that I asked you nicely if you wanted me to get them and you do that to me. I was like no why do you think it is a big incovince Why do you make me feel like the bad guy She was crying ever since I feel real bad about it I truly love her But When I tryed to talk to her about it she wont talk to me about it and it is making me feel worst then what i already do. It Just that i am really depressed and i dont know how to take care of it So What should i do

2007-01-27 12:42:58 · 15 answers · asked by Stevidtude 2 in Marriage & Divorce

should i forgive her?? I gave her everything, all my love, and helped her in her most difficult moment! and look what she did!!
theres nothing I didnt do for her

should I forgive her?? I love her, but I dont know if ill ever trust her again

2007-01-27 12:41:58 · 37 answers · asked by sergio r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Recently broke up with fiance. Met him after his divorce from 12yr marraige & became great friends. Knew he was interested in me but wouldn't date him for a yr. After 6 mo of dating he proposed. He's extremely successful, spoils me, compliments me constantly, has dinner waiting every night, rubs my feet daily & drops everything to always be with me. But when he's mad he tells me I'm a worthless piece of sh1t & points aggressively in my face. He's even poured a glass of water on me-- he was mad & couldn't sleep so neither could I. He gets jealous easy or mad if I want to spend anytime apart. We split when my brother witnessed the verbal abuse 1 night & called the cops. He says he had past issues of distrust & has come to terms with it now after 2 mo. I'm "the love of his life" and he'll do anything to make it work. I've been seeing him once in awhile, but family/friends don't approve- say he's too controlling. When with him I have second thoughts. When apart I rationalize it could work.

2007-01-27 12:41:27 · 7 answers · asked by MBinID 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've heard that black men are a bit more "fortunate" in the length of their tools, is this true? why or why not>?????

2007-01-27 12:41:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently broke up with fiance. Met him after his divorce from 12yr marraige & became great friends. Knew he was interested in me but wouldn't date him for a yr. After 6 mo of dating he proposed. He's extremely successful, spoils me, compliments me constantly, has dinner waiting every night, rubs my feet daily & drops everything to always be with me. But when he's mad he tells me I'm a worthless piece of sh1t & points aggressively in my face. He's even poured a glass of water on me-- he was mad & couldn't sleep so neither could I. He gets jealous easy or mad if I want to spend anytime apart. We split when my brother witnessed the verbal abuse 1 night & called the cops. He says he had past issues of distrust & has come to terms with it now after 2 mo. I'm "the love of his life" and he'll do anything to make it work. I've been seeing him once in awhile, but family/friends don't approve- say he's too controlling. When with him I have second thoughts. When apart I rationalize it could work.

2007-01-27 12:40:08 · 11 answers · asked by MBinID 1 in Weddings

2007-01-27 12:40:06 · 2 answers · asked by Lorrane 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister will not talk with me because I only visit her children once or twice a year. I live far away and have to take a plane to get to her state. She never comes to visit me.

2007-01-27 12:39:33 · 3 answers · asked by BR 3 in Family

I am 14 years old. I want to to tell a very attractive Mexican girl a comliment. Like Mama Cita or somethinhg like that. Can someone please tell me other things to say. Please dont put anything thats dirty. Please include pronouniation. Thank you.

2007-01-27 12:39:14 · 2 answers · asked by chunkyhomer1992 1 in Singles & Dating

How many of you ladies out there have had a boyfriend/ significant other stolen by your best friend or roommate? How did you deal with it?

2007-01-27 12:38:48 · 14 answers · asked by patti_jim_reynolds 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is my deal. I work with these two guys, one I used to be in love with and slept with (he's38). The other trained me and has been like my closest friend and we know everything about one another, and just decided yesterday to kinda start dating (we're both 27). And then there's a third guy who I used to be engaged to and we have been decent friends since (he's 31), but lately he's pushing to get back together and i don't want that so what do I do?

2007-01-27 12:38:43 · 18 answers · asked by vernise2679 4 in Singles & Dating

I think I love my girlfriend. I talk to her for hours on the phone and would talk forever if my phone bills allowed it. I endure shopping that no man should have to endure, but I enjoy shopping and just being with her. We have been going out for almost a month now and I don't want to rush into things, but we both enjoy being erotic with each other.

I am senior in high school and so is she and we've known each other since we were kids.

When is the time "right" to have sex?

2007-01-27 12:38:24 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2 days ago my brother ( he is 20 ) got put in jail untill july25 !! this breaks my heart cuz he is doing it for his friend ( cuz his buddy has a new born baby ) i love my brother very much and i am very heart broken about him being in jail. i'm a senior in high school and it just seems like things are getting worse and worse...i have a great group of friends that i have been friends through high school..( all the guys have droped out but like 2 of them) and the girls are complete sweethearts, but after all this sh*t with my brother went down.. i don't want to go out and get in trouble... plus.... none of my friends are going to college and i really want to go... ijust feel like i can't put myself around them to make it, but there my friends !!! i wanna go out with them, but i'm scared i might end up like them ( last night at the party there was a 25 year old guy there !!!) and he was hitting on my 17 year old friend. ... what should i do ?

2007-01-27 12:37:49 · 4 answers · asked by Emmie S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what does it mean.

2007-01-27 12:37:22 · 5 answers · asked by person 1 in Friends

I wouldn't like that, but it is an interesting fantasy.

2007-01-27 12:37:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i "wow" my girl friend, what should we do together? whats fun to do wit a girlfriend? movies, dinner? what??????

2007-01-27 12:35:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just curious.

2007-01-27 12:35:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so my boyfriend of 5 years wants to marry me, we talk about it all the time. we almost rushed into it once and almost got married, i decided we should wait. I figure there is no rush. if we are meant to be, it'll happen, rite? no matter how long it takes. is it worth it to wait, or should we just go for it? i know what i wanna do, i just wanna know what you guys think...

2007-01-27 12:35:14 · 24 answers · asked by the MRS. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been happily together for about 4 1/2 months now. Recently he started talking about marriage and children and practically proposed. I just laughed it off, thinking it was just a spur of the moment thing, but now that I look back, he seemed completely serious. I trust him with my heart and soul, and am completely faithful to him, as I believe he is to me, but I'm a bit nervous about actually doing this so early in any relationship. Part of this probably stems from the fact that he takes his faith very seriously, one of which ideals is to NOT HAVE SEX UNTIL MARRIAGE. Should I be watching out for him to do this to me?

This question might seem a little odd until you consider the fact that I'm just 15 years old. He's my first serious relationship and I'm getting the impression I'm getting a bit over my head in this. One option I really don't want to consider is dumping him or cheating on him. I hope I can figure this problem out... Thanks

2007-01-27 12:35:06 · 10 answers · asked by Melissa M 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm her youngest daughter, but her and I don't get along. I've tried, but it is no use. The other children don't see her for who she is. She lies, and twists things around, pulling them out of context to talk bad about others -- namely me. Has anyone else had a similar problem? I'm in my forties by the way.

2007-01-27 12:34:28 · 18 answers · asked by ruby s 1 in Family