Ok so here's how it is i was at a b-day party and i told my friends who i like and one told! so he found out and at first he was all cool about it but then he kept sayin he liked someone else and not me! so he was going on vacation & he kept saying his heart hurt because he was leaving me for 5 days! Then said he was kidding and after that he started being rude and said he didn't even like me! so i said that i won't like him anymore because it would be a waste of time and he made me cry!!!
nobody understands, please help!!!
2007-01-27 12:46:51 · 21 answers · asked by some call me CUTE 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're being very immature, don't ever let him see you cry. He's a jerk and a waste of your time. Let him go and get over him. The fact that he would go out of his way to hurt you, just makes it clear to you what type of person he is. Babe you are so better off. Now you know that you never let a guy know how you feel unless you're sure it's reciprocated, because the only person you have to tell your feelings to is God and your husband you don't owe anyone else anything. Your friends are jerks, don't let them know the names of anyone else you like. Tell it to a family member, they keep better secrets.
2007-01-27 12:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off if you really like this kid you won't be able to just let go of him(I'm sorta going through this exact thing right now) Also he could be being rude because he really does like you and since he said his heart hurt because he was leaving you for five days; he might not want to show he really does like you.
2007-01-27 12:57:31 · answer #2 · answered by Steve-O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. He is a waste of your time and just wants to keep you wanting him in case him and the other girl don't work out then you're desperate self will take him. Find someone who doesn't have a girlfriend and knows what they want and that of course would be you!
2007-01-27 12:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by K-E-G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer cry your self to sleep. do no longer seize your self in a delusion approximately that "one guy" who you would be with consistently. in case you haven't any longer even dated a individual in the past what you're doing is an extremely undesirable plan. i'm happy to tell you which you're inflicting your individual subject concerns. no longer that every person individuals at the instant are not sufferers to this as quickly as in awhile. If the boy asks you out, evaluate him and in case you like his company then "flow out". All meaning is which you would be spending extra time mutually. in case you do no longer enjoy it you could purely get out of it. in the adventure that your immaculate weigh down Andre comes around later, he will. If no longer, you could pursue him, yet comprehend that relentlessly crushing on a guy for this long without taking action will become undesirable. i've got been in comparable circumstances and that i will no longer be able to tell you strategies happy i'm to have escaped them. overlook all of the valueless policies and regulations, the "ideal thank you to do issues" that society has taught you and purely have relaxing. enjoy your existence and adolescents on an identical time as you nonetheless have it, lest you would be regretting it consistently interior the destiny. you're alive for this 2d and all of the peace and glory you will detect in it.
2016-11-01 11:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by santolucito 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard when you like a guy and they treat you like garbage (I should know!!). Try to get over him, and if he's rude to you try to ignore him or just don't listen to him. And about your friends only tell them personal information if you really trust them. Dump or confront the one who told. I really hope that this helps, and that you feel better.
2007-01-27 12:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, it's a waste of time! You sound young, and there's lots of other boys out there. This one sounds like he's not boyfriend material anyway. I wouldn't worry about it.
2007-01-27 12:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by JackLyN___ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself the question: do I really like him if he makes me cry? no guy is worth crying over and being hurt.
2007-01-27 12:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by ms.chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
telling the truth,i dint understand ur question, i think,u are saying dat ur crush found out u liked him,nd dat it was cool,but then say dat he likes somebody else,nd dat he has goin on vacation ,nd his heart is hurtin,,nd started to joke around after that, then dat means dis boy is a jerk, i wouldn't even talk to him. mean *** ************
2007-01-27 12:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by personaltiyqueen92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ither
1) he is a player
2)He feels embaressed because the way he found out you liked him.
Him Being a jerk is just wrong though.
your choice and you should tell him he made you cry and if he laughs kick him in the balls for me please!
2007-01-27 12:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by read_laugh-love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but he sounds like an immature idiot. I'm guessing he's in his teens. Either way he's someone to avoid. Anyone that treats you like that doesn't deserve you. NEXT.
2007-01-27 12:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by Erika B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋