ok my boss isnt married anymore and hes a big time ceo and im his secretary it all started after a meeting and he grabbed my but . im hoooott with a rock body and butt he said and i said excuse me and i turned around and he had an erection. and yea i blew him and stuff i feel guilty should i quit...
2007-01-27 12:48:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you wanna work for me?
2007-01-27 12:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
You obviously feel uncomfortable, otherwise you wouldn't have asked the question, and while I wouldn't call you a whore on the basis of what you'd said, I'd say that the two of you started something that can't possibly have a good ending. You can't work and feel honorably about yourself and your work if there's a a sexual element involved; it's not fair on you, it's not fair on the other people around you (and what was he doing grabbing you, I wonder?).
If a man starts any sexual relationship by wanting a blow, he's not going to be a good lover ... because that puts the woman in the position of servicing him, and doesn't show much by way of affection or concern for her satisfaction. I don't think you'd find yourself with a good lover; you haven't got a good boss; and you're uncomfortable in your job. Quit while you're ahead (and while you're at it, take him for a good reference and see if you can grab some severance pay as well).
2007-01-27 12:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by mrsgavanrossem 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmmmm a relationship built out of the reasoning "you're soooo hot". Look I'm not going to call you a whore. I mean it takes more than a stupid mistake to be labeled a whore. However, if you continue to mess around with this guy for the reasoning "your hot" then you might have some aspirations to be a whore. Listen, you said you have a rock hard body. People don't get that without determination and hard work. You must be much smarter than you are giving yourself credit for. Just stop. You will need to really be creative to stop this sexual direction you've started.
2007-01-27 13:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should quit your job as soon as you can find another. Your boss harrassed you and forced you into doing something inappropriate. Unfortunately calling the police might not be an option at this point because he can claim you willingly took part, so it'll be your word against his. Good luck.
2007-01-27 12:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have more respect for yourself as a female. It is your decision to do whatever you do to whoever, but if you know that you will regret it later on in life, you should not put yourself in that situation. When he touched you, it was considered sexual harassment until you gave in, unless you did or said something to him that made him think otherwise. You make yourself seem so easy. Is that how you want your other employees to think of you? If you don't show respect for your own body, no one else will either.
2007-01-27 12:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Tee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FOR SOO MANY YEARS WOMAN HAVE FAUGHT HARD TO GAIN RESPECT IN THE WORK FIELD, THEN SOME ONE LIKE YOU COMES ALONG AND RUIN EVERYTHING.
HE MADE A RUDE COMMENT TO A FEMALE HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN SERVE WITH A SEXUAL HARRASMENT LAW SUIT. BUT YOU BLOW HIS HORN AND YOU JUST MADE THINGS HARDER FOR YOU TO DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT.
THE FIRST THING YOU SHOULD HAVE DONE IS GONE TO HUMAN RESOURCES AND MADE A FORMAL COMPLAINT AGAINST YOUR BOSS. JUST BECAUSE HE IS YOUR BOSS IT DOES NOT GIVES HIM ANY RIGHT TO TREAT YOU LIKE A PIECE OF MEAT.
IF YOU STAY YOU SHOULD THINK WHAT IS GOING TO BE YOUR NEXT STEP. BUT IF YOU LEAVE, TRY NOT TO SINK IN TO THE SAME OR YOU WILL NEVER GAIN NOTHING OTHER THAN A FILTHY REPUTATION AMONG YOUR CO-WORKERS AND NO ONE WILL RESPECT YOU.
2007-01-27 13:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by ââ¢Â¥*~áƦ~NYSunrise~áƦ~*ââ¢Â¥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! if you feel like what happened will influence how you perform at work then you should probably start looking for something else. if not, then just try to forget about it and avoid doing stuff like that, cus even though sometimes they may get you a raise, they can also get you fired.
2007-01-27 12:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventualy you need to quit but make sure you have a plan in place like another job or money saved away for rainy days. if the relationship turns bad then it will reflect on job.
2007-01-27 12:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL NOW NOW...If you do not more on and get a different job then I am afraid that he will use you to his every advantage...You will become a scapegoat for any thing that the company and him needs to lay blame on...I hope you were satified as well...Do not become a Monica too his Bill
2007-01-27 12:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by beetem@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Too late to quit, Ms. Lewinski Jr.
2007-01-27 12:53:34 · answer #10 · answered by chevy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, well ...
It is my belief that we all can have "whore tendences". However, some have them more then others. You simply wasn't thinking when you decided to give your boss a ********.
Hope you learned from it ....
2007-01-27 14:42:07 · answer #11 · answered by rosie768 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋