How many of you ladies out there have had a boyfriend/ significant other stolen by your best friend or roommate? How did you deal with it?
2007-01-27 12:38:48 · 14 answers · asked by patti_jim_reynolds 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lauren, I wish you lived in NH. You damn near read my mind...lol
Sh*tty thing is, it's this situation that has rid me of the one female friend I had, that I never thought to be a skank:( Sucks to be me.
2007-01-27 13:17:23 · update #1
I haven't. But I want someone to! You want him?!?!
But anyways, my advice would be to go out shopping, get yourself a brand new outfit that you feel totally sexy in, and go out with your girlfriends (not the skeezy one). Even if you blow your whole paycheck on this outfit, have no regrets! get some jewelry too!!!
2007-01-27 12:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My friend ,best friend since fourth grade,we have done that more than once to each other. We were mad at first, but always talked and made up. We are still best friends today after thirty years, laugh at how dumb the things we use to do, but true friendship will last forever. I f she is your best friend, talk, don't let anything get in the way of what you have. Good Luck!
2007-01-27 20:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by mybudnoobs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that done to me twice actually. Once by my then best friend and the other by my own sister. It felt like a kick in the gut both times. I don't speak to either of them anymore, and in a way I'm thankful for the experiences now. These experiences revealed to me that I was surrounding myself with toxic people, and I was allowing myself to be treated without respect or dignity. It was a period of painful personal realizations and growth.
2007-01-27 20:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am female on friends pc.
i know exactly what you mean.
growing up 2 doors down i had a a friend who tried to take or sleep with every guy i met from early on, i just got over it and if they were dum enought to have her then goodluck to them..
She even went to the extreme to go to one of my ex's places and when he said i wasnt there she said good i came to see you.
then there is another trog at my husbands work who sleeps with every male she works with to get looked after.. it worked with my now ex husband. (they will never be together)
ignorance is the best medicine
2007-01-27 20:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by megs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never happened to me, but I wouldn't want a guy who could be "stolen" so I'd be very happy to be rid of him. I'd know I deserve better, and those 2 losers belong together.
2007-01-27 20:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't had that but i did i think i would be pretty mad, then i think i would cool down and think about it for a while. I would think about what is the best thing to do, should i get him back, who should i talk to and so on. I would talk to the person who stole him.
2007-01-27 20:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by lemonz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i had this guy that i was seeing then my best friend ended up seeing him & sleepn with up just after we broke up....i was like u lil b**ch but then i was thinking bout it & i didnt care cuz hes just a guy & there will be more to come.........shes still my friend & i still talk to her & u better bet ur *** if she every try to make a move on my hubby i will kick the liven day light out of her.......plus my hubby thinks shes nasty cuz she does get around.........soo move on & dont let it get to u, that just show what kind of a friend she is & that u shouldnt bring ur boys infront of her & what kind of an *** the guy was.......cuz if he messed around with ur friend then who knows how many other females he messed around with..........i know love is crazy but thats life & we got to learn from everything that happends to us.....good luck & god bless u
2007-01-27 20:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by ~i love my boys~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurts. The best thing to do is walk away from both relationships. It will make you stronger and don't let them see your pain. Some feed of the pain they cause you.
2007-01-27 20:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by faith 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
never. and if it should ever happen i'd move on and realize that whoever i thought was my best friend is not anymore and be more careful next time.
2007-01-27 20:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i have.. the best thing that i did to deal with it, was to not interfere with your friend or your boyfriend, and move on.. or get revenge and break them up...
2007-01-27 20:44:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋