Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

when the three of us hang out together, i'm the one that is forgotten. when there is a really interesting conversation going on, i'll ask a question but they won't answer me because they're so fascinated with what they have to say to eachother-- but not what i have to say. but when its only me and one of the person then it'll be easier for me to actually be part of a conversation. why am i the third wheel? and its like that all the time.... no matter what people i'm with, no one acknowledges me. i know that they hear me but they just don't answer. i think its because i've never hooked up with anyone or gone out with anyone so they assume i have nothing to tell about. Or maybe its because i'm the loser-iest one out of all of us. ughhh.. its always been like that. since i was little. And i act really normal too-- its not like i'm really quiet or boring. i just say whatever anyone else would say. its probably cuz i'm ugly too. of course no one listens to you if you're ugly. ughh. LIFESUX

2007-01-27 13:04:42 · 3 answers · asked by snowangels 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 13:04:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ther's this girl i like that's really pretty. Her name is crystal, and she wears a very pretty flower on her hair, till now she's single. I wanted some advice on how to ask her out, i need a girl's opinion. Also on a date, how does a girl expect to be treated? And what does she expect from a date? Any answer will be a big help. Thanks for your time.

2007-01-27 13:03:55 · 11 answers · asked by johnygarland 1 in Singles & Dating

A girl I was seeing invited me to her house for dinner for our second date. We had a nice dinner and couple glasses of wine, when it hit me.
The night before I had Chinese for dinner and Mexican for lunch the same day of the dinner. Through all the stomach rumblings, I just couldnt hold it anymore.
So I excused myself and asked to use her bathroom. Well to make a long story short, I did some major "damage" to her poor toilet. On top of that I guess she heard me in there and was disgusted by the sounds and the smell that was coming from the bathroom and asked me to leave.

I guess I wanna know, is completely rude? I mean just because of a natural body function I have to be the bad guy? I have tried to call and she won't return my phone calls... Should I just give up?

2007-01-27 13:02:25 · 38 answers · asked by Billy Gavin 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a lot f help for children that are abused (web sites, phone numbers etc.) But what do you do, if a parent is abused verbaly and mentaly BY his/her child/children? How do you proceed, what do you do?

2007-01-27 13:02:13 · 5 answers · asked by b.s. 4 in Family

I am so confuced so please advise me.....

2007-01-27 13:02:03 · 20 answers · asked by love you jaan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-27 13:01:50 · 15 answers · asked by BUDMAN 1 in Singles & Dating

Does it seem that I did not give the relationship my all??

2007-01-27 13:01:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you ask a girl out does it mean you are just going on a date or you are asking her to be your girlfriend

2007-01-27 13:01:34 · 7 answers · asked by go_pali 2 in Singles & Dating

i was with this guy 4 a long time and i found out that he cheated on me 4 times and now he wants to get back together wat should i do?

2007-01-27 13:01:15 · 8 answers · asked by beauty 3 in Friends

I went through a couple foster homes then I got adopted. I never got along w/ this "dad". He was always mean to me and my brothers. My mom was nice though.

I never really had anything.. friends, a good education, good clothes.. anything.

I just want to be a happy strong person.. but i'm not.

My parents said they're counting the days still i'm 18. I've never had a b-day party.. and the friends I do have i'm losing b/c I never get to see them other than at school.

I tried getting good grades and staying out of trouble for my parents.. but everything I did was never good enough.

They wont even let me get a job or licence till i'm 18.

Me and my mom usually got along and she told me today she couldn't wait until I was 18 and moved out.

I feel so unloved. I feel like I have no hope. My bestfriend/ex is living w/ his new girlfriend and she hates me too. I'm always nice to everyone. What did I ever do wrong??? Someone please tell me..

2007-01-27 12:59:58 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hey, I'm 15 and I like never talk to people unless they talk to me first. I have no close friends because I moved far away from them all. I want friends but I am afraid of talking to people for some reason...how can I get over being shy and get friends?

2007-01-27 12:59:16 · 9 answers · asked by Just Another Guy 2 in Friends

2007-01-27 12:58:47 · 17 answers · asked by Iggy O 1 in Singles & Dating

like the youngest you would date and the oldest? i think mine is only like 2 or 3 years younger and 4 years older. sex though is a different matter, i ould do it with a 50 year old, lol.

2007-01-27 12:58:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean if man have over weight and feel in love with a laidy do u think she is going to love as he do or not

2007-01-27 12:57:57 · 11 answers · asked by king1986 2 in Singles & Dating

If I were to look for a girlfriend in the USA, but not having sex while I was with her, how much would it cost? The reason I can't have sex while I'm with her is because I don't have that much money to give her for sex($1,000 a night). Do girlfriends offer sexless dates at a lower cost? I am seriously looking at marriage right now.

2007-01-27 12:57:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm taking this girl, who I like, to the valentines dance and I need some ideas for a fun, inexpensive, date. I want it to be fun/memorable, not just like dinner and a movie. Plus I want to be able to talk with her and just have fun, no stress or awkward silences, etc.

2007-01-27 12:57:40 · 10 answers · asked by Devster 1 in Singles & Dating

My man said he'd marry me if I lost weight...I luv him but tell me, have any of you lost weight because someone told you to??

2007-01-27 12:56:41 · 22 answers · asked by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I fell in love with the guy who is obsessed with makeup. It made me feel insecure. I have low self esteem because of my childhood experiences.When he told me he liked my redlipstick and lipgloss more than a few times, I put on pink lipstick with no lipgloss. I know it wasn't a nice thing to do,but I couldn't help to test him if he liked only my look. I sometimes felt pressure and felt like being controlled because of this( I tend to feel like I am controlled by people when they ask me to do something because my life has been controlled by my parents' business) I explained this to him, but he kept on believing that I try to look pretty for only others not for him. When I go out, I wear makeup the way I like and nobody tells me he/she likes my makeup. I loved looking pretty for him! I explained to him about this so many times and he thinks I don't love him. He has similar experience with his last girlfriend.I want him to understand me, but I can only email him. He lives overseas.

2007-01-27 12:56:14 · 1 answers · asked by ladybug 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friends go to this place called the Bridge on fridays and a couple of my friends thought that this guy was cute, and that same night we were walking around, and everywhere we went there he was. Well that night I had a dream that me and him was at some building, together with some of my friends, and it was like we were a couple, hugging and stuff, then it jumped to we were at my school, which he doesn't attend, and he was all over me, I couldn't get him of. What is this supposed to me because I'm not the one who said I liked him, that was my friends.

2007-01-27 12:54:27 · 19 answers · asked by tonimichelle1221 2 in Singles & Dating

We havent talked forever cuz we used to not get along. Anyways, right now he's signed on aim and I want to IM him but I dont know if it would annoy him or not... should I?

2007-01-27 12:54:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 12:53:44 · 11 answers · asked by good-for-all 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok. I like this guy. And he's kinda a rebel type. Well when we are alone we have an awesome time. And he knows a lot of my secrets and stuff. But when we are at school and around my friend Mimi, he's like, totally in love with her. And I know he likes her because he told me. But this is like, a teen dating-drama kinda thing. But what should I do? I think he might like like me. But should I let this go, or what?

2007-01-27 12:53:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My longtime boyfriend and I have discussed getting married for some time now. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me and we are so happy together....just on problem, somehow he got on the topic of how he was going to have a hard time picking a best man and groomsmen because he has a lot of good friends and three brothers. This got me thinking about who I would pick, here's the problem, I don't have close friends really because I have a hard time getting close to people. I couldn't think of anyone that I am close enough to to ask them to be in my wedding party. Now I'm panicing and I can't stop worrying about the situation. I have no idea what to do, granted we aren't planning on getting married for a couple of years, still it's really bothering me! Any advice...........?

2007-01-27 12:52:02 · 10 answers · asked by Camille 2 in Weddings

Also, I want to enter this look-a-like-celebrity show. There's really good money in this. What celebrity do I resemble if any? I was thinking Nia Vardalos from the movie, "My Big Fat Greek Wedding."

You could look at my 360 page for more photos.

2007-01-27 12:51:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am twenty-one years old. i still live with my parents and they are very strict on me. i feel like i am still sheltered by them. my mom holds all my credit cards..anything important she holds because she's afraid that i will loose them. she babys me too much and i hate it. how can i let go of her without hurting her?

2007-01-27 12:51:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-27 12:51:40 · 5 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Singles & Dating

We were really shy around eachother, and now that he asked me out on Thursday I am worried we wont talk 2 eachother a lot cuz we still are kinda shy even though we know eachother pretty good. What should I say?

2007-01-27 12:51:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 12:50:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were thinking "cocktail" and dress up and go out to dinner but any other ideas and/or themes would be helpful? Always ideas for things to do at the party. We want a reasonable amount of money not outragous.

2007-01-27 12:49:35 · 7 answers · asked by <3 2 in Friends