Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

For instance, a guy i met for a about a week ago and he called me and started to talk about the future, of like being married and having a house(s), (general future) and like what does that mean i dont understand if he then wants to be friends or something more.

2007-01-26 14:38:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in love with him and he loves as much or more than I do. We love each other and we want to live by ourselves. Currently, we live in the same house, my mom, my brothers and sisters, him, me. What should I do. HELPPPPPPPPP MEEEEEEEEEE.

2007-01-26 14:37:40 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean lets say i ask a girl to go out with me, and she says yes.
what do u do next? whats it like to have a girl? what does it mean to have a girlfriend? what do u do next?

2007-01-26 14:35:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy I like, his mom despises me!! It is like Romeo and Juliett! He just proposed to me (I am 17) and my mother says its fine and his dad does BUT his mom HATES ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What can I do?

2007-01-26 14:35:20 · 7 answers · asked by sophiasweetiebandy178 1 in Family

I've been married to a Nigerian man for almost 3 years now and I don't think it's ever gonna get better. We have 2 beautiful daughters now and the thing is that he doesn't even live with us right now. He moved 3 hrs away to try and make a better life for us but it's almost been a year since he moved and nothing is better exept for the fact that he's never home. He has his own apartment and it's really nicely decorated. He gets angry at me when I ask him to come home. When I ask him when we will be living together, he can't give me an answer. I think that he cheats on me because some nights he doesn't go home. It's a really complicated situation and if it wasn't for the girls we probably wouldn't be together because I can't live the way we have been. Please help. Are all Nigerian men the same?? Did he just marry for his citizenship?? I'm Canadian so I'm starting to wonder??

2007-01-26 14:34:36 · 9 answers · asked by Aimee B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-26 14:32:44 · 22 answers · asked by Jeff W 3 in Marriage & Divorce

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Ok so it's been a week of being single and the feeling of it is starting to take its toll. I feel empty and alone. Missing the companionship I once had with the woman I had loved. The situation between us is weird. We still tell each other we love one another and we say we miss each other almost everyday. Some nights I would stay the night also. I call her and text her as if we had just started going out and she hasn't told me to stop otherwise I would have. The question I'm asking here is... What kind of relationship do we have with each other right now? She is now dating the guy she cheated on me since a month ago. Every time I see her I caress her and stroke her hair. I really want to move on but I don't want to feel life without a partner to see daily. I am still deeply in love with her and I don't know what I really am in her heart.

2007-01-26 14:32:21 · 9 answers · asked by Chris M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i went to a parent/teacher conference with my new husband for the 1st time and this really pissed his exwife off.she had to go by herself.she feels she should go with my husband not me and i have no right going since i'm not her sons mom.she made such a stink the school asked my husband to keep me away to avoid any more problems.since this happened she has done other things to let me know she will always be queen bee since she has a son with my husband and i don't.my husband and her both have joint custody and he does not agree with this but will not go against her in fear it will hurt his son.was she right to act this way?should i just back off with kids stuff till she finds a new husband to keep her busy?

2007-01-26 14:29:58 · 11 answers · asked by bettyjovincent67 1 in Weddings

I would like you to tell me how you met your partner;

The interesting stories where you meet years after the first time you saw one another by some random act of fate, or where there were unusual circumstances that just make you think it was meant to be.

The type of stories you'd tell your grand children or the stories you recollect between each other and laugh.

2007-01-26 14:29:45 · 12 answers · asked by Kasha 7 in Singles & Dating

venice beach or new york city?
the job in venice pays a little less, but its what u always wanted
and u sort of have a friend there.rent will be higher and the hours will be crazy. job will go unappreciated but in the long run will be good for career. job securituy is minimal to no existent, the threat of being fired is always hanging over u.
the job in new york pays more, but its not really what u want to do. and u have no friends at all. rent is actually pretty low and the hours are ok. job will go unappreciated but will do nothing much for career. job security is guaranteed. u will always have a place here.

which will u choose?

2007-01-26 14:29:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 14:29:27 · 20 answers · asked by Mike S 7 in Weddings

Okay, I've known this guy online for three weeks now and we spent many hours chatting online, we've seen each other on web cam, he is sooo HOT.. He just proposed to marry me and I really want him, I know many people would think that I'm crazy, but I'm just finding it so hard to say no. Any thoughts?

2007-01-26 14:29:16 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i went to a parent/teacher conference with my new husband for the 1st time and this really pissed his exwife off.she had to go by herself.she feels she should go with my husband not me and i have no right going since i'm not her sons mom.she made such a stink the school asked my husband to keep me away to avoid any more problems.since this happened she has done other things to let me know she will always be queen bee since she has a son with my husband and i don't.my husband and her both have joint custody and he does not agree with this but will not go against her in fear it will hurt his son.was she right to act this way?should i just back off with kids stuff till she finds a new husband to keep her busy?

2007-01-26 14:28:45 · 10 answers · asked by bettyjovincent67 1 in Family

i went to a parent/teacher conference with my new husband for the 1st time and this really pissed his exwife off.she had to go by herself.she feels she should go with my husband not me and i have no right going since i'm not her sons mom.she made such a stink the school asked my husband to keep me away to avoid any more problems.since this happened she has done other things to let me know she will always be queen bee since she has a son with my husband and i don't.my husband and her both have joint custody and he does not agree with this but will not go against her in fear it will hurt his son.was she right to act this way?should i just back off with kids stuff till she finds a new husband to keep her busy?

2007-01-26 14:28:33 · 7 answers · asked by bettyjovincent67 1 in Marriage & Divorce

one of those embarassing situation's specially if he has a wife as well.....

2007-01-26 14:28:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We broke up cuz we werent close enough and he said I called him too much, but that was only cuz I was worried about us falling apart cuz we hardly ever spoke... we dont talk anymore unless I'm at my bff's house cuz her brothers are best friends with Andy who is my ex...
He told my bff Allana, that he thinks I am the most prettiest girl he has EVER met. He used to be a total goody-goody and NEVER got himself into any type of trouble... but ever since he broke up with me, he's been getting "steps" which are like referalls if you get yourself into trouble, and he almost got expelled, and some people are saying he's only doing this stuff to get my attention. This is SO totally not like him! In math, I hear him saying stuff about me, but I'm not too sure if I can understand what he says most of the time, except,"Yeah, she's too beautiful." and that time he used my name, so he was talking about me. I dont understand though, does he still like me?

2007-01-26 14:27:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 14:27:11 · 8 answers · asked by gaultjoshua 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 14:27:11 · 8 answers · asked by Kimmi 3 in Family

always pretending to be something else, and being ashamed of their own race and heritage? why are they like that?

2007-01-26 14:25:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since he is so nice, I don't want to be too mean, but he needs to learn who is boss you know.

2007-01-26 14:25:07 · 34 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in love with a very good friend of mine and have been for over 5 years now....she is in a committed relationship and I am trying to finally get past putting her first in my life and so I am looking for a poem to express that I still love her very much and always will but that I have to move on for the better of everyone involved and that we will still always be friends....

Can anyone help me with a poem like that? I have searched for poems like goodbye, starts with goodbye(song), letting go, time to let go and stuff like that and just can't find the perfect one..any suggestions anyone???

Thanks..

2007-01-26 14:25:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-26 14:24:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has a narcotic addiction. I asked him to leave when I overheard a doctor tell him he tested positive for cocaine.I really love him and want my marriage to work but my 17 yo daughter said she would leave if I let him come back. I work nights so she has to be here with him alone when he's high. He also embarasses her when her friends are here. My daughter is pregnant (2 months), (she also had a miscarriage in aug). He says that he has it under control. I asked him to either go to rehab or marriage counseling. He said he could do it on his own. He says he hasn't abused them since he's been gone.He left in Oct. He's lied to me before. He has heart and back problems and goes all over the place to different hospitals saying he has pain. I don't know if he's telling the truth or not. I miss him. I'm lonely and feel scared with all the pressures I have with work and my daughter. I love my daughter with all my heart. Her daddy died of cancer when she was 5. What should I do?

2007-01-26 14:24:42 · 10 answers · asked by ktzmom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to make a dinner for my boyfriend for Valentine's Day, with fortune cookies for dessert. Any ideas on cute/romantic fortunes I could put inside?

2007-01-26 14:23:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 14:23:42 · 11 answers · asked by Grayson L 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been wit my bf for 2 months. what should i get him for his birthday? he wears things like rocawear and lacoste

2007-01-26 14:21:18 · 10 answers · asked by JOOOLAY ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy and we race in the same dirt bike series but i only get to see him on weekends.i really think he likes me cause he treats me different than he treats other girls.i have a friend that goes to his school and she says that he is a jerk, snob, and a perv at school but he isn't like that around me, he's really really sweet.but he is like my brother and i like him so it's weird. HOW DO I ASK HIM OUT WITHOUT RUINING OUR FRIENDSHIP??? and if it matters, our sun signs are gemini and sagitarus

2007-01-26 14:21:11 · 7 answers · asked by plazndrt 4 in Singles & Dating

PLEASE B ONIST

Im going to be onist and tell u all that i am

♥

OX ROX

2007-01-26 14:21:03 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is going away next year to college i'm staying here because i'm attending a community college for one more year. I want to see her i want to be with her...but i just feel like it's going to be so difficult. I'm going to be working she's 2 hours away...is this even worth it anymore? Sometimes i just want to be single just to meet other girls at college and hook-up with them. I think about it a lot I feel like a fresh new start might be good for us. We've been dating for almost 3 years. But at the same time when i think about loosing her...and her leaving me i want to cry. I can't bare being without her for more then 3 days how am i going to handle only seeing her once to twice a month? I want to go to the same college as her but my mother forbids me to apply anywhere until after i receive my associates degree. She thinks i'm to much of a "party boy" I want to major in chemistry or physics. Why am I feeling so hurt...I want to go with her...how can i? is there a way??

2007-01-26 14:20:21 · 8 answers · asked by Mike T 2 in Singles & Dating

Here is my situation.....I have this "friend" who I have known since high school. In the early stages of our so called friendship everything appeared "cool" and we would hang out almost on a daily basis but I always had the idea in my head that things were too good to be true. Over time though I started to convince myself that maybe she might be a legit friend. Lately though it seems that the only time we hang is when she needs a favor or a ride somewhere. Im strongly starting to believe now that we are only friends because I have a car and money. Now I'm the type of person that if I feel that someone is being shady then I will call them out on it. The only problem that I have with the "being blunt" tactic is that if I'm wrong then it makes me look like an *** and I destroy a friendship. What is the best way to handle this situation?

2007-01-26 14:20:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends