i really like this guy and we race in the same dirt bike series but i only get to see him on weekends.i really think he likes me cause he treats me different than he treats other girls.i have a friend that goes to his school and she says that he is a jerk, snob, and a perv at school but he isn't like that around me, he's really really sweet.but he is like my brother and i like him so it's weird. HOW DO I ASK HIM OUT WITHOUT RUINING OUR FRIENDSHIP??? and if it matters, our sun signs are gemini and sagitarus
2007-01-26 14:21:11 · 7 answers · asked by plazndrt 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, ur already his 'buddy'.... but if he is a known perv...etc.. i dont know that you would want to ask him out.. but maybe... if the topic were to come up.. dont ask him out- he should ask you, but ask him what he thinks going out with a girl is- like wether he will or what she needs to be like-.... dont go over and beyond with the inspector stuff though.. can be annoying... stratigically learn his preferences and stuff... good luck though..
2007-01-26 14:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fisrt off how old are you? If your still a teen I say dont worry about it okay let me rephrase that.Be your self dont let a crush turn you all crazy.You all ready have an advantage over other girls you two share a fun hobbie go from there . Find out what else he likes to do then ask him if he wants to do that with you.Dont let it get between your friendship just take things at a steady pace dont try and rush anything if it suppossed to happen it will if not okay you got a cool friend.Believe be there are tons and excuse the expression tons of fish in the sea dont do anything but be yourself if he aint into that there will all ways be plenty that are.
2007-01-26 22:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by cutelittlecoconut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you suggest after one of your races grabbing a bite to eat. It would come across as a friendly jester and through conversation over the meal you can find out if he is the jerk your friend says he is. Who knows there may be some truth to what's being said about him. But try finding that out over a friendly meal instead of an actual date.
2007-01-26 22:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by Venus T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking him out wont ruin ur frienship. just ask him, if he say no, and then chickens out or acts weirdly about it then maybe he's not worth the friendship
2007-01-26 22:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by xckid62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is into you. Tell him how you feel. Tell him that you like him but if he doesn't like you that way that you guys should stay good friends.
2007-01-26 22:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by Shaken, Not Stirred. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him to hang out as friends first, ask him to go to a movie or somthing casual, tehn see how it goes
2007-01-26 22:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by d o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ASK. in person.
2007-01-26 22:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by Food For Thought 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋