The guy I like, his mom despises me!! It is like Romeo and Juliett! He just proposed to me (I am 17) and my mother says its fine and his dad does BUT his mom HATES ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What can I do?
2007-01-26 14:35:20 · 7 answers · asked by sophiasweetiebandy178 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
who cares what his mom says if u like him marry him
2007-01-27 04:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watch your step... some guys are very loyal to their mommy dearest, and it could get really ugly. I lived that mess for 13 years. My ex's mom always hated me... before we even met she hated me... and i mean HATE. His family tried to break us up from day one. They treated me like crap so very many times, and my ex let them do it and even told them they were doing nothing wrong. When you marry a guy... you do marry his family as well. I would not walk down the isle until i knew exactly how things were going to be with her. FInd out if this guy will be man enough to step in and say... enough all ready.
And on the other note... you're only 17. That may be what she has a problem with and rightfully so. How can you plan to share your life with someone if you don't even have your own life yet. You better make it a very-very long engagement.
2007-01-26 22:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a question that needs some serious honest thinking. Does his mom hate you or the situation? It may be that she thinks the two of you are far too young to be thinking of marriage and that he is hurting his future by tying himself down and maybe giving up his education. You need to really look into why there is such a problem with her. Believe me, you do not want to be fighting your mother-in-law....they effect everything. And frankly you are so young....maybe waiting wouldn't be such a bad idea anyway. Good luck.
2007-01-26 22:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out why his mother hates you and confront her...dont be rude about it, just talk to her and let her know that you care about her son and that you wouldnt take him away from her nor do anything to hurt him...thats what mothers and fathers worry about the most..good luck sweetie
2007-01-26 22:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jessi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you shouldn't be getting married at 17 but, maybe you can talk to his mom and try and work things out... other wise this might be your typical "moster-in-law" ( i like that movie) haha
2007-01-26 22:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's what some mother-in-laws!!!
2007-01-26 22:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by littlemissflamer 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
JUST IGNORE HER.
SHE WILL EVENTUALLY COME ROUND.
2007-01-26 22:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋