It doesn't sound like much of a marriage to me. You don't say if he supports your and your children. I don't think you should try to generalise about the nature of Nigerian or men from anywhere else. In all countries there are good men and excuse the term Bast***s - It sounds like he has his citizenship and is having a wonderful time. You need to take some action and tell him he either gets himself home or you want to finish it. Gosh you're running 2 households this can't be getting you a better life.
2007-01-26 14:43:53
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answered by smilingtalker_au 4
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Never put a label on any group of people because that makes you narrow-minded....and besides what difference will it make what Nigerian men do. You're married to one Nigerian man.
I would suggest you start divorce proceedings and file for child support.
This is not a marriage....and you and your daughters deserve better.
2007-01-26 22:40:49
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answered by daljack -a girl 7
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I do not think this has anything to do with being Nigerian. I think it has everything to do with being foolish, which can show up in any race at any time. I would suggest that you find a woman to talk to in a church near you. Contact the minister of a church and tell him you want to talk to a woman for some counsel about a troublesome marriage. Most will gladly help you.
2007-01-26 22:44:05
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answered by Anonymous
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That's like asking if all white men are the same, or all Hispanic men or Asian men. No man is the same, with perhaps this exception: one cheater is like any other cheater; one abuser or controller is like another. THESE type of men (and women, for that matter) are the same. Nobody can be classified really by their nationality or race - it's their character that classifies them, and it sounds like your husband is in the wrong class. You deserve better than that - so do your kids. I wish you the best.
2007-01-26 22:40:58
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answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6
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Racial views shud be avoided. The very idea of the couple deciding to separate for better tomorrow leads to these problems particularly when the man/woman is sexually very active.
2007-01-26 22:54:16
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answered by Anonymous
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What's done is done. He has decided he doesn't want to be with you. Divorce this no good cheater and build a life for you and your daughters. One day you will find a man who will treat you with respect.
2007-01-26 23:22:29
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answered by LuvMyGirls 5
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aren't ALL men the same? doesn't sound too good. I would give him one last chance and then end it. while kids are a huge reason to try to work it out, its not healthy for anyone if you aren't really happy. good luck.
2007-01-26 22:44:09
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answered by redsox fan 4
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Divorce him.
2007-01-26 22:44:45
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answered by missgigglebunny 7
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??? ~_~ YOU WASTE MY TIME!!!
2007-01-26 22:38:47
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answered by littlemissflamer 3
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