Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

My wife has a habit of raising her voice on me and the kids. It runs in her family and I have seen her parents raise their voice for very small issues. I think that now she subconciously thinks that if she raises her voice, she is right. I have told her countless times, but it does not do any good. It is driving myself and the kids to the point that we do not want to talk to her about issues. I would appreciate any advice.

2007-01-26 14:19:28 · 30 answers · asked by Samuel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you do if you ended your marriage to be with a man who you were in love with? Then to endure 2 years of his wishy-washy back and forth behavior between you and his wife?

What would you do if you got out of the military and ended up moving in with this man? Then to have him basically tell you that the only reason you are there is in case things don't work out with his wife?

What if he told you that his wife suspected you were there and he asked you if you were ready for a confrontation with her? Would you park your car somewhere else and hope that she didn't come by? Would you pack up your stuff and your animals and stay at a hotel until you found a room mate?

What would you do if you really loved him?

2007-01-26 14:19:23 · 17 answers · asked by torn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

asap

2007-01-26 14:19:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm a single mom who isn't bad looking, but my 3 year old has scared away a lot of potential dates. I've been single for 2 years now, and am ready to meet someone. Any guys out there know how to put myself out there even though I have a kid? How would you want a woman to approach you? Where is a good place to meet men? Any advice would be very much appreciated!

2007-01-26 14:16:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really just don't know what to do anymore... Ive met a lot of new people in highschool, including a particular person who I like waayyy more than i should. He's my best friend, and I cant help but like him as more than that... and Im almost positive he likes me in the same way. The only problem is that he has a girlfriend that im sort of friends with and they really do like each other they're perfect together... but i dont know what to do. I like him so much its hard for even me to believe. And I cant believe how much I trust him after only a few months. I can honestly tel him anything, and he trusts me that much too and I can always be myself around him, and I know its horrible of me to want to take him away from my friend, but I cant help it I want to talk to him about it, but Im so afraid to lose him, or to cause him to lose her or to lose both of them. Im so confused cause I know I shouldnt go after him, but thats so much easier said than done... any advice pleaz

2007-01-26 14:16:48 · 15 answers · asked by xxEquestrianxx 1 in Singles & Dating

It happened at lunch, when she invited me over to see her dog. Do I call her tonight and should I feel awkard on Monday?

2007-01-26 14:16:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont think i would, i would probably make her move here.

2007-01-26 14:15:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Someone has this as their away message... more than likely directed toward me...

however, i cant seem to figure out what it means...maybe you all could give me help...

"You are my sweetest downfall
I loved you first, I loved you first
Beneath the sheets of paper lies my truth
I have to go, I have to go
Your hair was long when we first met"

2007-01-26 14:14:33 · 4 answers · asked by Kyle W 3 in Friends

I started dating this one girl at my school last week and we haven't kissed yet. I'm wondering how long should you wait till you kiss someone and when is a good time to do it! Thanks this would be alot of help!

2007-01-26 14:13:40 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the phone book with his 1st wife.they were divorced 6yrs ago and yes she knows about me and has our phone # so its not her.nothing has changed since he was married to her so why is he making such a fit about it?

2007-01-26 14:13:32 · 8 answers · asked by sue9grewdftyy 1 in Singles & Dating

He has already told me that he wants us to get together. We have been out on 1 date and he rarely calls, the crazy thing is that he lives around the corner from where I attend college. We have never had sex, but always come close and something happens that puts a damper on things. What should I do.

2007-01-26 14:13:16 · 1 answers · asked by Queen_B 2 in Singles & Dating

the phone book with his 1st wife.they were divorced 6yrs ago and yes she knows about me and has our phone # so its not her.nothing has changed since he was married to her so why is he making such a fit about it?

2007-01-26 14:13:10 · 12 answers · asked by sue9grewdftyy 1 in Family

the phone book with his 1st wife.they were divorced 6yrs ago and yes she knows about me and has our phone # so its not her.nothing has changed since he was married to her so why is he making such a fit about it?

2007-01-26 14:12:57 · 8 answers · asked by sue9grewdftyy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-26 14:12:55 · 4 answers · asked by saeed s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 14:12:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom passed away tonight at the dinner table. She was an angel loaned to the earth for 83 years. She had sent me an email yesterday and on the 15th sent the full text of Psalms 139. I wasn't expecting nor ready for her to leave. I wish I could have said good-by.

2007-01-26 14:11:49 · 5 answers · asked by lindakflowers 6 in Family

i've been messing around with my friend for a while now and at first i thought it was just going to be a physical thing but now its something else. i'm afraid that i have fallen in love with him. i know that he loves me to because he told me this even before we started messing around. i dont kno what to do. i wanna start a relationship with him but the thought of him breaking up with me would tear my heart to millions and millions of pieces. so what do you think i should do? should i start a real relationship with him or should we jus continue being friends-with-benefits.

2007-01-26 14:11:17 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think part of love is knowing you can never be without a person? That you can't be whole?

I am single now and I am whole. For me, happiness comes from the inside, not from others. Marriage and kids are good, but I don't think I really believe in love. I will always be happy because I am a happy person. I've been sad in the past from break ups, but it goes away.

Most people who think they are in love realize later that they were wrong. For me, right now I am single, never married, age 24.

Please define what love is

2007-01-26 14:11:06 · 15 answers · asked by JoeIQ 4 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy an dhe likes me. he told me we go out and i had no time to really answer him. what do i say to him when i see him and how do i say it. i like him but i just dunt want him anymore

2007-01-26 14:10:57 · 6 answers · asked by Dr_true_love 1 in Singles & Dating

Wassup guys, been with this girl for 8 years, usually me and her see each other every night, I mean we have our clique of friends but mostly I just see her, every night. We're not married and don't live together, by the way. Anyway, everytime she meets someone new, like a new friend thats a girl, she tries to get mad at me and then turn something against me to "take a break" while she goes and hangs out with them? I just don't understand it. Not that I am controlling but why can't she outright tell me she wants to go out with a new friend she met? But of course if I met with someone new she wouldn't like it, blah blah.

This happens everytime she meets a new friend. She tries to pick a fight or say we "need a break" and then come to find out she made plans with this person. Why does she act like this?

2007-01-26 14:09:30 · 6 answers · asked by WC 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 14:09:13 · 8 answers · asked by Booger Yum Yum 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 14:08:51 · 10 answers · asked by AST 2 in Weddings

why does it seem i choose the wrong people to be friends with.

1)i've known this kid for 4 years, and the other day he stole my credit card and emptied my account, 4 years down the drain....

2)another friend just doesnt want to hang out with me anymore. he use to sleep over my house about thrice a week. now he has better things to do. i've tried talking to him...

3)my best friend from elementary school stopped hanging out with me when we went to different middle schools...

4)and my all-time best friend from childhood moved when i was about 9 years old...

All these people called me their best friend...

am i doomed to remain bestfriendless for the rest of my life?

2007-01-26 14:08:04 · 3 answers · asked by J J 3 in Friends

2007-01-26 14:07:28 · 16 answers · asked by latinme 1 in Singles & Dating

I bought this sexy little number for Valentines Day and I want to wear it, but not seem uncomfortable. Any suggestion that would be reasonable.

2007-01-26 14:07:26 · 11 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been going out for a long time and i see her all the time

2007-01-26 14:06:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have known this girl all my life and I have started to develop feelings for her but I don't know if it's love or just hormones.

2007-01-26 14:06:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We talk alot of the time that we see eachother,he is more likely to come and talk to me first. He makes me laugh and when i laugh he laughs too. He laughs at some little things i say. He asks me questions about my personal life. Asks me about things i am doing and tells me what he is doing. He tells me about his friends and their lives and when he has had a thought about me. He can become louder/quieter around me.He brings me into his conversations with others. He looks me right in the eyes when we talk and when i invade his space he doesn't step back or away. He comes closer when he talks to me sometimes and i feel like he hardly takes his eyes off of me. He won't let me do something for him without him doing something for me. He smiles when we talk and i can walk past him and he keeps looking at me. I look back but he doesn't look away straight away. When i am standing alone he'll come and stand next to me and start talking to me. does he like me.I can't stop thinkin bout him.

2007-01-26 14:05:35 · 3 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

if a guy talks to you about other girls he likes does that mean he doesnt like you?

2007-01-26 14:05:32 · 5 answers · asked by browneyedgirl 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it's a good idea to double date with you, your boyfriend, his brother, his date and your boyfriend's cousin along with his girl friend? We're all going to a scary movie and my boyfriend said the whole reason why they want us to go see a scary movie is 'cause they want all of us girls to get scared and grab our boyfriend's arms so they can be held... LOL I think a movie is a good date what do you think?

2007-01-26 14:05:30 · 1 answers · asked by Blue eyed girl 2 in Singles & Dating