we have been going out for a long time and i see her all the time
2007-01-26 14:06:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just got paid!
2007-01-26 14:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by L1M1J1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pressure is only gonna kill your chances so i might back off for just a minute or you might lose everything. Patience is a virtue. However if you just wanna get laid download my new how to get laid book at www. just kidding no if you really wanna get laid more than you want this girl you can either a)dump her plain and simple or b) start showing interest in other girls and make her feel like she is going to lose you. Sounds bad yes but it might work just dont be an a**hole and pressure her into something shes not ready for dont be that guy.
2007-01-26 14:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by Andrew D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you have to convince her? If she doesn't want to and you care about her you wouldn't ask her to do something she doesn't want just so you can get some pleasure. Talk to her to find out how she feels and tell her how you feel and then decide if you need to break up with her so you can find someone who will but do not trick her into, cheat on her, nor force her with guilt trips or something low like that.
2007-01-26 14:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by strawberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might not want you that way, have you thought of that? Also, what is a "long time" for you? This question is awkward. You can't get your girlfriend to sleep with you because she just doesn't want to. This type of behavior just freaks girls out.
2007-01-26 14:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
nothing...you should have been breeded out of the genepool a few generations ago, and hopefully your distant relatives found out that women aren't as interested in sex as you are...
ie just ask her how her day went...then proceed to listen to your ipod at half volume for thirty minutes. Silently nodding your head in agreement when it is appropriate. Then go in for the kill.
2007-01-26 14:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by chris c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can say to get her to have sex with you if she doesn't want to if you push the issue she might leave you but if you love her she is worth waiting for when the time is right she will. she might not want to have sex she probably rather make love and when the time is right it will happen
2007-01-26 14:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by jon j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I will wait until you are ready" is the only appropriate response. It will let her know she can trust you. And if she can't then she needs to bail now. Anything else you say "to get her to" will be asking her to do something she's obviously not ready for and that's not ok.
2007-01-26 14:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by blhenne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I would like to know how old are you before answering your question.
Second, does she love you? You can´t ask her to sleep with you if she doesn´t feel anything for you. Women are not like men. They are more sophisticated after all.
2007-01-26 14:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by icecool_oh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
romance the situation get her in the mood nice dinner some flowers, go down on her if this doesn't work i think u have to move on good luck
2007-01-26 14:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by freeby1011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant just walk up and say i wanna have sex, it has to be spontaneous the first time
2007-01-26 14:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by rabdcow72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight forward and ask her for sex.
2007-01-26 14:14:19 · answer #11 · answered by Seagull 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋