Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

Okay, I like this guy that I work with and he likes me also. However, about 8 months ago he walked in on his wife cheating on him with one of his good friends. They seperated and he filed the divorce papers about 4 months ago. His divorce has been final now for about 1 month. Also, they have 2 kids that they are sharing custody over. I really, really, really want to date this guy, but I'm afraid it might be too early for him considering how his marriage ended. I know he likes me because everybody tells me. I also know by the way he always smiles when he looks and talks to me. Right now we are basically good friends who flirt a lot. We take our breaks together and for Christmas he got me a single red rose. I gave him an 8 x 10 blown up picture of his kids and framed it. I just don't know what to do. I realized I liked him about a few weeks after him and his wife seperated, so I've had feelings for him for months. What should I do? Please help.

2007-01-26 14:53:34 · 10 answers · asked by Xtina 1 in Singles & Dating

"!*!~~*JoHnS GiRl BiOtCh*~~*!!'s when is too soon to say I Love U

2007-01-26 14:52:32 · 6 answers · asked by morgw2000 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 14:52:14 · 7 answers · asked by Ritesh M 1 in Family

have a boyfriend and questions like that, is he just trying to make conversation? Or is he trying to find out for some other reason?

2007-01-26 14:50:48 · 16 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1 in Singles & Dating

I didn't mean that to sound narrow minded. I guess I worded things badly. I just wish that he was different. He is very verbally and emotionally abusive but I don't know what to do because of our daughters. And my son( his stepson) would be crushed if we ever got divorced because of the fact that he keeps saying that we are now a real family even though he doesn't live with us. But I apologize for generalizing.

2007-01-26 14:50:07 · 4 answers · asked by Aimee B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend asked this guy who I lyk who he liked.I asked her what she said and she said he asked her not to tell anyone.I asked her for hints and she said the girl is short, his age, in chorus, and has brown hair all of which apply to me.The entire time she asked him he was stareing at me and I noticed he stares at me during passing periods and at lunch too.Do you think he is talking about me or someone else.
P.S we are also friends and he sometimes confides in me with problems.

2007-01-26 14:50:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm quite sure that everybody will have different ideas about this.

2007-01-26 14:49:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This subject came up between me and a friend of mine. I read the letter and failed to catch it until he pointed it out to me. I thought it was funny. He says she has several signed that way. What can this say about her or her feelings for him?

2007-01-26 14:48:55 · 11 answers · asked by Michael P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you are no longer together but have kids together,and love him big time, have done the usual ''we shouldnt do this, but''! Made a BIG mistake splitting up,any suggestions? He has a girlfriend.

2007-01-26 14:47:44 · 10 answers · asked by 1 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy and we have been flirting with eachother for about a year now, well I kept telling him how I wanted to bake him some cookeis and he seemed very excited. Finally earlier this week I asked him if he wanted me to bake him some cookies this week and he said, YES PLEASE!!. Well I texted him today to tell him that I baked them and should I drop them off or would he like to pick them up, and he said that he would get them this weekend because he is stuck in a meeting tonight. How should I reply to his text?

2007-01-26 14:47:09 · 5 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

i love him to death but he scares me. I always feel like if i mess up in anyway he is going to flip out on me. for example i was fighting with him and ended up comeing home late (im only 16) and my parents flipped out and grounded me. then my boyfriend comes over while they are gone to see me and goes on this rampage yelling at me and grabbing me and pushing and pulling me. I try really hard not to make him mad but i can never seem to be good enough for him. ne1 have ne suggestions for keeping him happy? did you guys go through this in a tough time in a relationship? plz help i really dont know wut to do. I love him more then anythign but it hurts. I dont know if i can take lieing to my friends about bruises anymore i dont wanna break up with him plz help me

2007-01-26 14:47:08 · 9 answers · asked by Alyssa 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is a Cancer, I am an Aquarius. We are 18 years apart in age. I am older. No one ever suspected there was such a great age difference because I am very youthful looking. We were married 10 wonderful years. We had a new house built and went on 2 cruises every year. I thought everything was perfect. He never gave me an indication that he was unhappy, except he hated to go to work. He got caught up with the wrong people and started cheating on me. My question is this...was our relationship doomed from the beginning, because our signs are opposite, or did he just feel he wanted to be around girls his own age? He never let me know what the problem was, refused to go to counceling, he only stated he wanted to be "on his own now" He said he met someone and they "made a connection" He also said he "needed space".( I hate that phrase)
PS Everyone who knew us was totally shocked that he moved out. They thought we had the perfect marriage. So did I. What do you think?

2007-01-26 14:46:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Now, should I let that keep me up at night thinking about her or wait until she ask a question that I can answer the best? I think the truth is in the fire that burns... I don't believe there is such a thing as saying too much...There are those who like to look and
Those who ain't afraid to touch...Time will do the talking...Years will do the walking
So should I just find a comfy spot and wait it out? And if we dig our heels in
and wonder who's gonna win...Who is gonna win it or wear it out...I could change the lock on the door or learn how to take a little more. I can outrun all of the devils there
But never the doubt. I Try not to throw all my money into 20/20 vision...for the world won't wait on politics or indecision...thanx to Patty Griffins "Living with Ghosts" for the inspiration... So what do you think I should do about this one answered question woman that makes my heart burn as I sit here in the barn on the hay, Laptop in my hands, the horse still standing tall?

2007-01-26 14:46:25 · 15 answers · asked by BAILEY 2 in Singles & Dating

MY mom is the exector of her moms estate and her brothers and sisters hate her because she cant do things there way Has anyone had this problem did things get get better?

P.S. my cousins will not talk to me! Even though i was reaLLY CLOSE TO THEM BUT NOW THEY WILL NOT TALK or even say hi TO ME AND I AM SAD!!!

2007-01-26 14:46:00 · 6 answers · asked by Tay 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So back in December I told the guy I like that I liked him and he said "I just like you as a friend." So I was like sure I get it, but I still like him. So later that month I hit a real rough spot and the guy that liked me (his friend actually) stopped talking to me as did a few others and I felt really low. The guy I like did something he did not have to do - he reached out to me and gave me his number and told me to call him whenever I needed someone. He didn't have to reach out to me, but he did, which shows he cares. He's also nice and flirty, both before and after telling him, saying things like "looking lovely today" and "hey! there's my favorite girl!" I don't understand why he acts so affectionate and kind and looks at me like he's entranced (I kid you not, even my friend admits "he does give you those looks!"), yet he says he only likes me as a friend. Is this all just a really outrageous coincedence, or does he like me, he just can't (or isn't ready) to admit it?

2007-01-26 14:45:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm married and my friend is in a relationship. We've spent so many good times together. My wife spends most of her time in other peoples business. She acts like she don't like sex much and me and my friend been getting it on like crazy in the past. We still keep in touch and she say that she loves me and at the same time me and my wife get along well. She's a nice person but I'm still in love with my friend.Before me and my wife got married she was'nt giving it up cause she said that she wanted to wait, she gave it up after 3 years but at that time me and my best friend been doing the do if ya know what i'm saying. What should I do? I need some advice especially from a woman point of view.

2007-01-26 14:45:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years and have a 8 month old son, but his ex (also our bestfriends sister), he says he's over her, but when ever he's in the same room as her he acts weird...for the almost the first yea we were going out he told me his heart well always belong to her, and I told him, I'm not playing games, and told me I need him to be honest with me.....it's either me or her..., for awhile to when we first started living together, I found her number recently called while he was at work on his cell, he says thier just friends, then last night when we went to the local grocery store and got to a cash register she was working on the next one, he wanted us to go to her cash register to check out, but we didn't and when we were leaving she ran after us and wanted to see our baby....anyone have an opinion, I love him and he loves me, but it makes me wonder

2007-01-26 14:45:07 · 5 answers · asked by nlmomma23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i get my friend to be more than a friend see he is a jr & i am a freshman

2007-01-26 14:43:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

u can see why im asking this on a friday...

2007-01-26 14:43:36 · 1 answers · asked by jordan (♥) 2 in Friends

HOWEVER I BELIEVE THAT HE IS CHEATING ON ME LATELY HE COMES HOME LATER AND LATER AND WHEN I CALL HIS CELL PHONE HE ALWAYS HAS AN ATTITUDE AS IF I AM BOTHERING HIM AND I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY? HE TELLS ME HE LOVES ME AND HE WANTS OUR MARRIAGE TO WORK WHAT DO I DO.
FORGIVE ME FOR ALL CAPS BUT I AM IN SO MUCH EMOTION PAIN RIGHT NOW I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO?

2007-01-26 14:43:31 · 8 answers · asked by KEY 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-26 14:42:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i met this moroccan/Algerian guy in France and we have been going out everyday all day for like a month. he is really respectful but i am American and totally not Islamic, he is but i doubt seriously because he is dating me. anyway he wants now to come visit me in America and all this stuff, he asked to be my bf. ummmmm
how are arabic men in relationships?
im totally clueless...oh and do you think i should even bother?

2007-01-26 14:42:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that i should ask out this guy who i really like but my friends would think im really crazy for dating him? i asked my bff what she would think if me and him were dating and she said "that would be really stupid beacuse hes ugly, and i think that u are really crazy"...... should i ask him out any ways?

2007-01-26 14:41:48 · 28 answers · asked by dramanypphcreaturething 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 14:41:36 · 75 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The roughness of the unshaved man is hard on my delicate face. What do all the women think about facial hair on men?

2007-01-26 14:41:02 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Engagement ring inquiry?
My sister's b/f asked me to go w/ him to pick out a ring for my sister, but she has simple, but hard to find taste and we're thinking about having one designed for her. I am looking for people who have buying experience in this department, where I can I find the cheapest and nicest place online (or that will ship out) to design and buy an engagement ring, maybe even an entire set.......

She insists on white gold or platinum and I would prefer sites/places that have many options as in the diamond and the ring shape.
Her dream ring is a Marquise diamond (or a diamond set <>
princess cut diamond) on a v-shaped band. Please help!!!!Thank you.

2007-01-26 14:39:41 · 14 answers · asked by futuremrspryor 1 in Weddings

We have been going out for just about 2 years now.. she lives with me on the weekends when I'm off work. I'm 21 and a police officer so I have the whole career thing going for me already and we have been talking about moving out with eachother soon after I Graduate the police academy and get some money in the bank. Just wondering when the right time to get engaged would be? I know this is the girl I want to be with, we get along great and share so many of the same characteristics and views.

2007-01-26 14:39:19 · 9 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Weddings

my cousin has recently just lost his step mom and his grandfather he is very grouchy and mean to everyone it has recently attacked me like head locked me does anyone have any help????? please

2007-01-26 14:39:14 · 5 answers · asked by girl881 2 in Family

There is this guy and we have been flirting with eachother for about a year now, well I kept telling him how I wanted to bake him some sweets and he seemed very excited. Finally earlier this week I asked him if he wanted me to bake him some cookies this week and he said, YES PLEASE!!. Well I called him today to tell him that I baked them and should I drop them off or would he like to pick them up, and he said that he would get them this weekend because he is stuck in a meeting tonight. Do you think he is putting me off, or not?

2007-01-26 14:38:59 · 2 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

I'd bet we've all had at least one. In the movie "Summer of '42", near the end, the narrator utters my favorite movie line: " I was never to see her again. Nor was I ever to learn what became of her." Can you relate to that in your own way? I sure can.

2007-01-26 14:38:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce