Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years and have a 8 month old son, but his ex (also our bestfriends sister), he says he's over her, but when ever he's in the same room as her he acts weird...for the almost the first yea we were going out he told me his heart well always belong to her, and I told him, I'm not playing games, and told me I need him to be honest with me.....it's either me or her..., for awhile to when we first started living together, I found her number recently called while he was at work on his cell, he says thier just friends, then last night when we went to the local grocery store and got to a cash register she was working on the next one, he wanted us to go to her cash register to check out, but we didn't and when we were leaving she ran after us and wanted to see our baby....anyone have an opinion, I love him and he loves me, but it makes me wonder
2007-01-26 14:45:07 · 5 answers · asked by nlmomma23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've asked him about it recently and he says he over her.....(his says he's saying different, but I think sometimes she's just trying to cause trouble), we are talking about marriage...
2007-01-26 15:03:46 · update #1
There are people who have this one great love that they may bever be able to get fully out of their heart. But it doesn't necessarly mean he is going to do anything with her either. Old lovers can also be friends later on. However, if you feel in your gut that there is something more I would trust your gut and keep a good eye on him
2007-01-26 14:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by twins040401 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has never had closer with her.Did she brake up with him and if so then that is why he acts the way he does when ever he is around her.I hate to be the one who tells you this but his heart still belongs to his ex and always will.I think you no that don't you.Do you really want to marry a man who will always be thinking about another woman when the two of you have sex.You will be watching him and his actions for as long as you are with him.The only way your man will get over her is to have closer with her.He will be with her again sexually that is if he Hasn 't already.He will tell you what ever he thinks you want to hear and he doesn't want to hurt you anymore then he has.But remember he is a man first then your bf.For now he is still thinking with the right head but 9 out of 10 men start to think with the other head lets hope he is the 1% that does the right thing. GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-27 00:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful with this one. You say that he told you that his heart will always belong to her? That should have been your que to end the relationship at that time. Does he still feel that way? I suspect he does, but he probably won't tell you that anymore because you both have a child together. I feel bad for you. I would say ask him, but you know what? I don't think he would be honest, but you know him, and I don't. So if you think he will be honest, I would ask him once and for all. But remember, be careful...
2007-01-26 22:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey....your situation is so similar to mine. mine kept telling me that he was over his ex and that i was being paranoid, until he finally broke it to me. I would say definitely follow your instincts...investigate...and please dont get married until you are CERTAIn that he's over her. Believe me....I thought he was over his ex...who left him for another man about 5 yrs back..and now she's tellinghim she still loves him and it's working. We were getting married in 3 months...and I kept being "paranoid" . I should have listened to my instincts.
2007-01-27 00:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by Starla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be talking marriage with him, she/he is going to be the reason for your divorce.
2007-01-26 23:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋