my cousin has recently just lost his step mom and his grandfather he is very grouchy and mean to everyone it has recently attacked me like head locked me does anyone have any help????? please
2007-01-26 14:39:14 · 5 answers · asked by girl881 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You don't say how old he is. If he's grade school age, he may be thinking that somehow he had something to do with it. Little kids sometimes get mad and wish harm to someone in their anger. When something bad actually happens, they're sure they caused it.
Sounds like maybe he could use some grief counseling and lots of hugs.
2007-01-26 14:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by S. W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my father when i was 13 and not long after my grandmother passed away. I became a very angry person and when my mum found a boyfriend later i was very nasty to him all the time. My younger brother and sister thought that i hated them as did my mums boyfriend. It wasn't that i hated anyone i was just so angry that i had lost my dad and i felt like everyone else just forgot about him and moved on. In the end mum found some professional help for me and in time i was able to move on. Just try to be understanding. I don't know how old your cousin is but this is a very hard thing for a young person to deal with and not always an easy thing to understand. my advise would be to find some help and give him time and space and just be there should he need you.
2007-01-26 22:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone handles grief differently & usually get through it within a few weeks. If people carry grief too long, counceling could be helpful.
2007-01-26 22:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by SmallVoiceInBigWorld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to his father or another close family member. because he's not handling his grief very well and that could mean trouble.
It's hard to lose one person you love much less two...so make sure he gets some help dealing with this.
2007-01-26 22:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh, this is sad, but u got to find him some hobbies to get his mind off of all this.
the smell of honeysuckles will help him get over this mourning stage
Does he eat honeysuckles in the spring, u pull the string and sip the juice out.
the powerful juice has powers that will help him and it is good for u too.
2007-01-26 22:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋