MY mom is the exector of her moms estate and her brothers and sisters hate her because she cant do things there way Has anyone had this problem did things get get better?
P.S. my cousins will not talk to me! Even though i was reaLLY CLOSE TO THEM BUT NOW THEY WILL NOT TALK or even say hi TO ME AND I AM SAD!!!
2007-01-26 14:46:00 · 6 answers · asked by Tay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey thanks zzhoundzz someone who understands she has to obey my grandmothers wishes!!!
2007-01-26 14:56:34 · update #1
also thanks John goos for u and zzhoundzz you are the only ones that are bieng decent!
2007-01-26 14:57:54 · update #2
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More then likely your Grandmother knew your Mom was the only one that would do as she wanted. Her other children are probably greedy, self centered spoiled brats. Your cousins are mad because their parents made your Mom in to the bad guy when in fact she's probably the only one who had much to do with your Grandmother in her old age. Grandma knew what she was doing keeping her estate out of the hands of your aunt's and uncle's.
I know it hurts your cousins won't talk to you but accept them for what they are, greedy just like their parents
2007-01-26 15:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by WILLIAM R T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow, i seen this stuff way too many times.
It is a jealous thing and really your moma needs to get on terms
with her brothers and sisters and let them have a say so
in matters cause when your grandma dies it may be a big
court deal if u all dont get along now.
Also the family needs to put grannys things in boxes and number the boxes and put the numbers in a hat and pick the numbers and distribute her things or trade or whatever.
they need to get along now and think positive and mature about this matter.
talk to your cousins anyway, call them up and invite them over.
u can help in this matter.
2007-01-26 22:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its all pure greed every one thinks someone else is getting a bigger share than them,and they think for some reason or another they deserve it all. It happens whenever someone dies and leaves any money or anything behind!!!
2007-01-26 22:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by John 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mom should do whatever her Mom wants or wanted her to do & that is all. The others have to understand this.
2007-01-26 22:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ha! Your mother had better give in or there will be war. There were plenty of hostilities when my brother was handling my mother's estate. Your mother had better learn to be diplomatic.
2007-01-26 22:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
thats family for you i wouldnt worry about it it wont get better youll just have to suck up the hurt and pass them by they are not worth your time
2007-01-26 22:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyessly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋