Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

Ok this guy i kinda like at work and me went on one date and everything has been good but no more advances from him (like asking me out on another date) he will walk me to my car at night and stuff though. we have this song that is called baby love and we call it "our song" he will sing it to me when it comes on well today it did and he called me and said hey its our song its all for you...and i looked up and one of his close friends at work is smiling really big at me and is almost laughing. and then my interest is pretty shy to me the rest of the night and his friend won't stop smiling at me when he walks past us..what the heck does that mean?!?!

2007-01-26 16:16:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pls ans me.

2007-01-26 16:15:11 · 18 answers · asked by hiren n harsh 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but he's always telling me to text message him for trainer sessions, and i told him several times, I'm a broke college student, and I cannot afford them, but he's still asking me to told me to call him for this free session, so I asked him why was he offering me the free session, and he said because he does it for people he connect with so anyhow, I finally showed up for the damn session but I was late, so he's like when can you come in and I told him next friday and he's like why so
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2007-01-26 16:15:10 · 26 answers · asked by Trish T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

recently i gave my g/f a ticket to a concert and she cant drive .she dumped me,but still expects me to take her .im going to the concert cuz i love the band ,but i really feel weird about taking her ,because she pretty much is shoving the fact that she dumped me for one of my good freinds,in my face ,plus the tickets are right next to each other and if i say im sick then go shell be there and then she will be mad (like i care) but i dont want to sit next to her what should i do ?help!

2007-01-26 16:14:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I gave my crush my number and told him i would really like to keep in contact with him..well,i thought he wouldn't give it a damn cause previously he didn't sound very enthusiastic about everything and at times,he didn't even reply to my mails but yesterday,i received his reply and he gave me his number as well!! does that mean he's interested or is it because he's just being friendly?

2007-01-26 16:13:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been invited to a wedding in the south suburbs of Chicago where we grew up. The groom is a casual acquaintance of my husband. The reception is in a VFW hall, where the custom is to have either a live band or a DJ, a sit down family style dinner and an open bar. For gifts, the custom is to put a check in a card. What do you think is the appropriate amount to give, and why?

2007-01-26 16:12:48 · 10 answers · asked by Latrice T 5 in Weddings

It's been about 2 months since my baby daddy and I broke up. Tomorrow would have been our 4 year anniversary. I'm so broken inside, but everyday I pretend that everything is ok. I feel so lost and alone...and I wish I could just get over all this. I am still in school, I work out everyday, and I am there 100% for my daughter. (He is too.) But, my problem is that, I hate him. I don't want to but I do. I feel like he stole my dreams away from me, and now he's pursuing his. This makes me so angry. He left me for some one else, and he pretends like everything is ok when he comes around. I don't even want to see him really, but deep down inside I miss the hell out of him. I don't know...I really don't anymore. Is that normal?

2007-01-26 16:12:02 · 12 answers · asked by Stefi13 2 in Singles & Dating

i no wut it is but wut actually happenes gimme real answers not fakes!!

2007-01-26 16:11:59 · 11 answers · asked by misskrisrox 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to send my sweetie something romantic. Any suggestions to a good site? (Please only CLEAN stuff.)

2007-01-26 16:11:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend used to give me compliments all the time. Now it seems that other people give me compliments, instead of him.

Crazy thing about it is he can compliment other woman on tv (celebrities) or one of his friends but can't even find the time to tell me something nice anymore-that really bothers me.

Whats up with him? What should I do?

2007-01-26 16:11:47 · 11 answers · asked by Question Queen 2 in Singles & Dating

but how can you be with some one that f#*k you over and over but i dont remamber all that happen but win i woke up i was in love with her but now that is gone i am alone with her today and tomorrow i wood like to ask her what happen with us why wood you not talk to me about it if you liked me why did we have to keep hurting eachother but there is so much moor you think i shoud say somthing or live it alone

2007-01-26 16:09:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a password protected email account. I had to update some software on his computer and I just found out he has his email password protected. I'm pissed and I don't know why I feel this way. I want it off and I want to confront him about it. Why do I feel this way?

2007-01-26 16:09:26 · 5 answers · asked by luv2shop 2 in Marriage & Divorce

You all make it seem so easy and casual. I'd like to be able to just screw a chick whenever I felt like it without having a relationship. That's what it is, right?

2007-01-26 16:08:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am dateing a black guy and my parents and any other family member is very against it and even some of my friends parents are i have been hurting through this for almost 2 years now....i will never give up on him but why do people have to be like this??

2007-01-26 16:08:08 · 21 answers · asked by trina 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

For now im living with my dad whos almost 60 n isnt in very gd health but still able to walk abt n all .
My question is , when and if im working overseas how should i go about "looking" after him ? should i hired a maid ? place him in a old folk home ( for the time being ) ? i dont want to hurt his feelings or anything .. i love him very much . Ive talk to him about this , but he simply refuse to acknowledge the situation n say he'll follow me to whichever country im working in even if its for short period of time. So pls help n advice !Thank you !

2007-01-26 16:08:06 · 5 answers · asked by Cassie 3 in Family

my best freinds birthday is coming up and i ran out of ideas!

2007-01-26 16:08:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A wife is confronted as to why she cheated and she responds by saying," You're not taking my son away from me." She has a genuine concern for her child, but is this guilt or shame?

2007-01-26 16:07:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-26 16:07:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am in 8th grade and i can't talk to guys very easily. I always start acting weird because i can't think of what to say. Please help me!!

2007-01-26 16:07:22 · 14 answers · asked by thelittlemermaid11 2 in Singles & Dating

Cliff notes of my marriage: See other postings to get the most information #1 post “Will My Wife Turn into my mother-in-law?” #2 post “Need some help with my wife” Both posted today 01/25/2007.
My wife has depression which I found out(she knew) after the I do’s Wife has continues to lie, steal, deny, be stubborn, difficult, (on things that made no sense) and maybe cheat (not sure on that one) I have two step children, she’s been married twice, my first time. Treat them very good. She moved from the south to the NE where my job is. Within a month noticed my wife undermining the me/ family. So much that my step daughter underwent counseling for depression (cutting, “can only be happy in the south” her mom’s doing, and unsure of her sexual orientation. Spent thousands but, she worth it I was to work & she was to be the home keeper (One of our pre-marriage agreements) did the opposite till I said OK to her working ,now doesn’t want to work(and isn’t) Gave her plenty of cash & a credit card for emergencies. Used that card 15 to 30 times a month for 10 months (till she gave it back/ I said enough, I was very kind and loving) all while I am tending to my terminally sick mom (Talk about blind sided). Went through many more card methods nothing worked (no trust/keeps lying & stealing in other ways to) Find out that I have been supporting my mother-in-law during that time and funding my wife’s secret bank account. Within 6 months, M-I-L hit me up directly for money (which I gave to her) and later found out she expected monthly handouts because I have a good job.(wife denies all)
Found out I was going to lose my job in a couple months (airline down cycle) she refused to get a full time job cause “I don’t want to do any of those jobs” Said it will be temporary and let’s keep the kids(hers) in private school and keep the house. Still wouldn’t get a job. Sold my motorcycle, golf club membership and my SUV to lead the cutbacks. She demanded new furniture while I downsized. Luckily I found a job. Said she could have a reversal (before marriage) not true .Feel really doped on that one, I’m sure she knew that). Don’t think I want kids w/ her now There’s been some good times, she is nice looking , can be a sweetheart, sex is good, my family all likes her (but they don’t know any of this). Just this week found out that my wife also has secret PO Box, she got 3 more cards in her name, pays her cards debt w/ my (families) money. I could write about her behavior for hours. I would kindly forgive all this stuff but it keeps on happening. It’s been bottled up for years except for our two councilors. I’m afraid nothing is working. I’d also like my own children. Do I stay in this mess?

2007-01-26 16:07:11 · 9 answers · asked by Concerned Husband 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what qualities??? physicaly only.

2007-01-26 16:05:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a best friend. her name is morgan and we talk a lot. but sometimes i feel left out. She has this other friend named michelle and she says they click ... it make me feel really bad inside cuz i feel like the third wheel.. i cry a lot and i dont know what to do ... she is my best friend like ever and we have knwn each other froa along time... PLEASE HELP!

2007-01-26 16:04:42 · 10 answers · asked by hcoxchick15 2 in Friends

2007-01-26 16:04:41 · 12 answers · asked by Gizmo 1 in Friends

2007-01-26 16:04:28 · 6 answers · asked by beach blondie xox 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months and we have gone as far as i feel comfortable going. He obviously wants to go farther but i wont give it to him and he knows because we have talked about it once before. He asks when we hookup but i continuously say no. He likes me a lot for me not just action but this annoys me sometimes...what can i do that will substitute and give him the satisfaction of going farther without being sexual?

2007-01-26 16:02:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know how to tell this boy i like him cuz im really shy and i wanna know if he likes me too cuz weve made eye contact before but i dont know what to do or say to him. he's also a yr younger than me n im afraid what other people will think about me liking some1 younger than me

2007-01-26 16:02:37 · 11 answers · asked by kidtexlex123 1 in Singles & Dating

Not looking to get yelled at about the Friends with benifits thing, just opinions.

I have been friends with benifits with a guy for almost 9 months now. He talks to me almost everyday and told me a few times that he likes me. We havent become official yet... do you think its still possible to become official after being friends with benifits for so long?

2007-01-26 16:01:54 · 29 answers · asked by Bo B 2 in Singles & Dating

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? also i got a friend to talk to her and she said she wanted to talk to me. then my friend called her while i was on the third line and my friend asked why she keeps looking at me during class and she said just to see what hes doing. then she kept going about the things she liked about me and then my friend asked do you like him and she said she'll tell him at school then they talked at school the next day and she does like me. i'm kinda confused now. i also noticed shes been trying to talk to me but is too shy. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. should talk to her?

2007-01-26 16:01:42 · 20 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating

if you are a taurus ....

what's your profession?
are you happy?
what sign did you marry?

thnks I really need to know!!!!

2007-01-26 16:01:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Older married men divorce to marry younger women because they think younger women make them look young to.

2007-01-26 16:01:10 · 27 answers · asked by dotty9square 1 in Marriage & Divorce