I have a best friend. her name is morgan and we talk a lot. but sometimes i feel left out. She has this other friend named michelle and she says they click ... it make me feel really bad inside cuz i feel like the third wheel.. i cry a lot and i dont know what to do ... she is my best friend like ever and we have knwn each other froa along time... PLEASE HELP!
2007-01-26 16:04:42 · 10 answers · asked by hcoxchick15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Best friend = only friend?
Feeling left out? It can only happen if your idea of 'out' is not being included with Morgan. Guess what? Morgan has a life, other friends, and other interests. She may want to spend time with you -- she might not.
In the meantime, are you going to sit at home feeling sorry for yourself? Because, you can do that as much as you like -- but it won't do very much to change the way Morgan feels. Start finding new friends by joining groups, volunteering, etc. DO something to be with others, don't wait to be invited!
If you continue to define your happiness or sadness with Morgan's presence or absence, I don't think you'll be very happy very often.
2007-01-26 16:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by CarinaPapa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i highly recommend that you take my advice because the exact same thing happened to me and my friend. I went a really long time feeling bad because i felt left out and i had no idea what to do. my friend would always talk about her other friend and it got to the point where i could not listen to her talk about her other best friend and how they were just like sisters. i finally snapped and told her how i was feeling and how long i had felt like that. She felt really bad because she had no idea how much she was hurting my feelings and she appreciated the fact that I told her how I felt. It is so important to tell your friend how you feel because the situation can definitely get worse. If you think that your friend is too sensitive and will not be able to understand how you feel, you just need to sit her down and tell her very calmly. It may take her time to get used to it but if she is really your best friend she won't just leave you, or at least get mad at you.
2007-01-26 16:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by shayshay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends are friends for different reasons . no one person meets every need of a friend you like bowling the other one like chess
she likes both
dont call her for a bit and see if she continures to call and invite you to come if so your not a 3 wheel that is useless your just part of a 3 wheel car. they work well too.
2007-01-26 16:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go ahead ask her
ii believe she still treat you as her best friend too
and 3 of you can be a very good friend!!!
you are not a third wheel!!!
don't ever think that you are third wheel!!!
don't be so pesimistic!!!
you are the best!!!
2007-01-26 16:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by Erika_shin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u heard da term lesbo shes probably it cmon every body moves 0nn on some direction or jst go get to a new click or sumtin and cmon cry for somtin dats worth crying for
2007-01-26 16:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by edwinerzz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i was like that once. Why don't you spend more time with ur best friend more then michelle does with her. Then maybe your relationship will grow. But if it doesnt work. Maybe becoz they know eachother more then you knew her.
Good luk hun:D
2007-01-26 16:10:08 · answer #6 · answered by Emma R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think u should start hanging out w/some1 else, thats not right! ummm she'll want u back after u've found one! and u'll b all "umm no i have a bf like move" soz soz
2007-01-26 16:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried telling her how this makes you feel? can't the three of you be friends?
2007-01-26 16:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by momof7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd start looking for a new best friend
2007-01-26 16:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by more61077 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even best friends move on...you need to move on...
2007-01-26 16:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋