My boyfriend used to give me compliments all the time. Now it seems that other people give me compliments, instead of him.
Crazy thing about it is he can compliment other woman on tv (celebrities) or one of his friends but can't even find the time to tell me something nice anymore-that really bothers me.
Whats up with him? What should I do?
2007-01-26 16:11:47 · 11 answers · asked by Question Queen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's tired of the same old,same old. He wants to compliment something new.
2007-01-26 16:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ericqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you anymore, no but They may stop because they dont want to seem fake and over do it, like they are robots who say it over and over again. Saying as much as they have should get the point across that they love you to death. It's really a compliment, if he is comfortable in the relationship enough that he doesn't have to be overly "doing everything she wants" Then he is comfortable in the relationship so i say it is a good thing. :)
If he has completely stopped... there is a problem though.
2007-01-26 16:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley[!] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its because you nag, or are clingy and dont give him any space. Are you high maintenance? That takes a toll on the other person. Do you compliment him? Are you giving him what he needs? Theres really no way any of us here know the answer, you need to examine the relationship yourself and see where its been going. There are some questions a stranger cannot answer.
2007-01-26 16:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My best guess is that if he stopped complimenting you, it was a conscience choice. It could be that you are acting to frequently on his opinion of your appearance and he wants this to stop. Secondly, he could have seen everything you own by now and he can't keep saying the same thing about the same clothes, right?
If he is still telling you he loves you and the sex is good/frequent, then you guys are probably fine.
2007-01-26 16:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Could be your just in the "settled in" part of your relationship. You feel comfortable around each other so you have no need to impress each other all the time, or he's just not that into you anymore and your growing apart. Only you can ask yourself that question because only you have the answers. Trust yourself.
2007-02-03 14:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems he is in his "comfort zone". He may feel that you and I have an understanding already...that you know how much he appreciates you and respects you but lately he may feel that if he goes over board and too much...you may feel suffocated...that he may sound needy or clingy. Talking to him is always best...but believe it or not. Men find it easiest to talk when they are doing something, not just concentrating on listening...too hard for them to do. lol Go for a drive. Explain that you still appreciate hearing the compliments, maybe he feels that it's one sided. You know men like to feel wanted and appreciated too.
2007-01-26 16:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by juicyapplejazz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be a control thing. If it freaks him out that other men find you attractive, it is better if he doesn't build up your ego too much. This is happening with someone I know. Sad really.
2013-12-12 00:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by Blossom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is probably tired of what's on the menu. Spice up the night. Sexy romance. Not the girly kind o romance. The guy kind. ha ha. He wants change and you are just not giving it to him. Why don't you put on something sexy
and....yeah...
2007-01-26 16:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by babie468 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to find out is to talk to him and ask him what's up. perhaps he's bored of the relationship. i dont know. ask him:)
2007-01-26 16:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you gained some weight.
2007-01-26 16:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by scraps 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋