Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

2007-01-26 16:01:05 · 6 answers · asked by Sassy Pants 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my mom dont want me over his house. i not allow cause my mom think his dad is crazy.but i have nothing to do at superbowl party.... i wanna over his house. and im 19yrs old. and hes my fiancee. and my mom dont wanna me over his house. and its long story... i wanna over his house... but my mom will mad at me.. what can i do?

2007-01-26 16:00:10 · 13 answers · asked by XxItalianxX 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't really right now. \

I think what most people think is love is just liking somebody a lot.

2007-01-26 15:59:30 · 4 answers · asked by JoeIQ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 15:58:43 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I met him he was married, but wasn't happy. Well we seen each other and I didn't hear from him for about 2 months. But I didn't try to contact him either. He comes to where I work sometimes for lunch with the guys he works with. When he finally came back in he contacted me again. Well we talked a few times, (he tells me how beautiful I am and always ask to come see me ), mostly on the net while he was at work (he's a fireman). He aske me about a week ago if he could come see me and I told him he could. Well he came over and stayed for a few hours and went back to work. I havent hard from him since. But the thing is...I think im starting to like him. I mean I know it was just a hook up and thats ok. But in the back of my mind I want to see him more and be with him more. I know hes going through a divorce, and busy. But Is that the only reason I dont or havent heard from him? Like the last time, I heard from him after he seen me at my job? I feel like I'm setting myself up.

2007-01-26 15:58:08 · 6 answers · asked by WhatNow 1 in Singles & Dating

im a young and horny man that enjoys looking at naked girls. yeah so! so my question is why do some strict feminists and strict male conservatives take it way too far to say that it is demeaning to women. Hello! they arent representing anybody but themselves! its like saying that male construction workers represent all men or some other weird overgeneralization. i just think conservative people need to stop making statements that are unjustified. porn is good. its where you learn your all your positions. i know even know women who watch it, too. and it keeps you out of trouble!!

2007-01-26 15:57:53 · 9 answers · asked by The Interviewer 1 in Singles & Dating

since i married to my hubby for 3 yrs now we always end up moving anywhere in the us because of the new job he got and we need to relocate.
we've been living in florida for 1 yr,in mississippi, in washington, and many more we always moving and living in the place a months or a year.
and i've been always supporting of what he wants but now im tired yet because he is fired again from the job he got previously and now he have an interview for another job somewhere and we need to relocate again.
but im really really tired of the situation it is repeatedly,i feel like i have no future for him and sometimes i am thinking that it would be better i will going to devorce him and go back to my country and wanted to start a new life and planning for a better future.

what do you think about this ? please help me to enlighten
what is good or bad?
right now i am confused of what i should really do.

thanks for the good input

2007-01-26 15:56:32 · 3 answers · asked by confusegirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What exactly is a Ward of the State? I just found out that I am one and I don't know what that means. Do I have any rights. What does this mean if I was living with family in a house that I don't like, can I just leave? Please Help...

2007-01-26 15:56:21 · 2 answers · asked by Meagan N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just recently family members all were telling me how big i got then i lost a lot of weight and no one seemed to comment on my sucess how can they not notice 35 pound weight loss although i lost it for my self it would still be nice to hear a compliment.your thoughts

2007-01-26 15:56:06 · 14 answers · asked by justagirl 3 in Singles & Dating

I appreciate people helping me or giving their opinions, but when it comes 2 my kids, thats where I draw the line. My mother in law babysat our kids tonight so my hubby & I could go out & have a date night 2 try & re-kindle our relationship. I laid out my 22 mo old son's dinner (hes on a certain diet because he suffers from constipation) & I showed her where my 7 mo old daughters babyfood was if she was hungry. I dont give my son too much sugar, hes ornery enough without it. I dont give my daughter any either. She told me 2 get them 2 eat, she put a lil sugar in their food. I was appalled! If they arent hungry, I dont bribe them with sugary foods. She even gave my son a sucker. Its almost bedtime & now hes bouncing off the walls! Just a tiny bit & hes wired. She claimed my daughter was cold yet she took off her socks! I had cleaned my house from top 2 bottom & she made a huge mess in the kitchen. With food all over the mopped floor. She didnt put their diapers on tight enough & they...

2007-01-26 15:56:03 · 2 answers · asked by Koozie 5 in Family

I moved to Texas due to my job about 7 months ago and left the love of my life behind in Ohio. We dated for 6 years, and he has made it clear that he DOES want to be with me but his job and family are in Ohio, and he can't seem to decide if he is ready to move so far away to be with me and my kids. The problem is, I don't want to be with anyone else.

2007-01-26 15:55:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My very, very best friend has been dating this guy for about eight months now. I just met him this summer, because they both live several states away from me, and we're pretty much friends now. He's an absolutely wonderful guy and they're pretty much in love with each other. They're both great people. Anyway, they've been having a couple of little problems and he recently asked if we could talk sometime about stuff in general, but also about her. Not bad stuff, obviously, we both love her (in different ways), just so he can kind of try to figure her out a little more. Should I let her know that I'm talking to him about her and stuff, just to be sure it's ok? And can I tell him stuff that she told me? Not private stuff that she definitely doesn't want him to know, just a little bit of her sides of the issue? I think sometimes there's stuff you can't really work out face-to-face and it would help a little to have me as kind of a go-between on some stuff.

2007-01-26 15:54:56 · 20 answers · asked by angelsong_04 3 in Friends

Well me and my bf broke up 2 days ago. now I am talking to him online it isnt akward or anything, but i dont know what to talk about. could you mabey suggest a few topics?

2007-01-26 15:54:23 · 7 answers · asked by karen! 1 in Friends

2007-01-26 15:54:23 · 3 answers · asked by Jade 2 in Friends

Last night he was drunk,and hit me very hard,but I know he is sorry this time because I received flowers today,it is not our anniversary,or any other special day.
Today,he still hit me,but I know he is sorry because I received flowers today,it is not valentine's day or any other special day.
*I'm so scared to get help,because I depend much on him with my kids,and without him they would have no food at the table....
Today,I received flowers at my funeral,last night he beat me till death even thought my kids were watching,if I woulda have gotten help I woulda never received flowers today...

2007-01-26 15:53:46 · 7 answers · asked by Mâybé Î £øvé HÌM... 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So....I can't believe im sharing this crazy story but I was really confused by this for many reasons.
My ex-boyfriend and I first met about 3 years ago. When we met, he was seperated from his crazy wife....planning on getting a divorce. It was a bad break up....he ended up having to have her arrested and get a restraining order.

We fell head over heals for eachother. After 7 months tohugh....I broke it off with him. He was very upset and tried calling for months after.
About a year and a half later, I decided I really messed up. I tried contacting him and found out that he had took her back! They were still legally married too I guess.
He talked with a mutaly friend of our and he kept asking her why I had not told him everything sooner and that "in a prfect world, we would be together." He told her he still cared about and always has. He said that he didn't want to let go, but felt it was the right thing to do. He said "if he had things his way, we would be together?" What???

2007-01-26 15:53:28 · 4 answers · asked by ecrc 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

OH MY GOD I DON'T KNOW. I'M SO SICK OF ALL OF YOU KIDS COMING ON HERE AND SAYING "HEHE THIS GUY LOOKED AT ME WHAT DOES IT MEAN" OR "LOL THIS GUY LIKE TOTALLY LIKE TOUCHED MY HAND DOES THAT MEAN HE LOVES ME?"

WE WERE NOT THERE. WE DIDN'T SEE WHAT HAPPENED. THEREFORE, WE CANNOT ACCURATELY ANALYZE THE SITUATION.

YOU WANNA KNOW WHAT HE MEANS BY IT? WANT TO KNOW WHY HE DOES IT? THEN ******* ASK HIM YOURSELF!

2007-01-26 15:53:09 · 6 answers · asked by Zero 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm catholic, he's Jewish. He wants me to be Jewish before we marry. Any thoughts?

2007-01-26 15:52:38 · 31 answers · asked by Hear2Help 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I'm relatively new to the whole Q&A thing, so please bare with me. And if you think this is a stupid subject, please don't awnser; If you don't have any advice, don't bother answering the question.

Okay, so i've been going out with this one girl for about a year, and, of course, I love her. We've known each other for years, and we connect really well. But then a new student showed up, and ever since, I've been attracted to the NEW student (is that bad?), and not my previous girlfriend. I have every class with her, so it's easy to find out more about her, and I now know we are very similar. I even think she has feelings for me, but she knows I'm already dating and hasn't made any advances yet. I almost kissed her yesterday, and I'm getting scared, as my heart is being torn between two girls, and the pressure from fellow students is crippling. I don't want to break either of their hearts, as I love them both, but I don't know what to do... Any help guys?

2007-01-26 15:52:31 · 12 answers · asked by ~Drewz~ 2 in Singles & Dating

However, she says "I don't want you to think I'm flirting with you." In front of my wife. She knows this was my wife. Again this is a relative on her side. It was uncomfortable,but should I have felt that way or was I being uptight?

2007-01-26 15:52:15 · 6 answers · asked by Michael P 1 in Family

you respect that, and wait until i was ready??? please answer! thanks

2007-01-26 15:51:33 · 7 answers · asked by beach blondie xox 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad just told me that he won't be able to pay much for my wedding...which is still over a year away. Money that I bring in goes to all by bills from school and my fiance is finishing is last semester. We are already putting off our wedding for a year and half...But what do I do? How can I pay for my dream wedding? Is it possible to have a beautiful wedding and reception with just a few thousand dollars?? I'm totoally bummed out.....:(

2007-01-26 15:50:44 · 31 answers · asked by bethv_84 2 in Weddings

We've been married for almost 5 years. During that time she's found every excuse not to have sex, she has never been interested in doing things together, she has kept all her finances separate and secret from me, and she stopped wearing her ring for about a year. I tried planning vacations together, romantic outings, cooking her dinner every night, and so on. Finally I got so frustrated I told her I was unhappy and that I we weren't working out and it was senseless to stay together. Also, in the meantime I had met a friend that has turned into a romantic relationship.

Now my wife has suddenly turned a 360--she says she's sorry for how she treated me and wants to make things work. I still love her but I'm not in love with her anymore--I care for her and want her to be happy but I don't think we have a future together. She just cries and says she can't understand why I'm not willing to make it work. (She doesn't know about the other person)

Am I a terrible person for giving up?

2007-01-26 15:50:26 · 16 answers · asked by xaow20 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hai.....my fwend neds help n shes asking me n i cnt answer it..ok this is how it goes....my fwend have a txtm8 in our skol n d boy is in 6th grde and she is in 7th grade ....they r texting..but wen tym has past ..the boy dnt rep. no more and my friend wants to txt him ...yesterday she made up her mind to stop txting the boy but she ask me will she do it..welthe boy is kinda cute u knw but i think its already have a GF!! wow his still in 6 grade ......wel is my friend r8? will she stop txting the boy...and if u says yes..y? n if no..y?...

2007-01-26 15:49:44 · 19 answers · asked by bluelover_gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so in my previous questions I was aksing how I could get the guy I like to like me back, & then I was wondering if his actions were igns of homosexuality, then if he was messing with y head by being nice to me after months of ignoring me.
Now I need to know, is he only being nice to me to make me feel better about myself, or is he actually trying to be my friend or something?
Since Thursday, he's been saying hello to me and smiling at me every tme he notices me walking by at school, only somethings making me suspicious- when he smiles, he doesn't smile like he normally would; he smiles at me like I'm a retard..and he constantly says hi. I appreciate the attention (although it's not very much) but I feel like his kindness fake..like he's merely mocking me because he knows I have a crush on him. His best friend (lets call him Charlie). also knows and in sixth hour today, we were sort of arguing of whether or not the guy I like hates me or not. "Charlie" says he doesn't

2007-01-26 15:49:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-26 15:48:33 · 44 answers · asked by The Interviewer 1 in Singles & Dating

i can't explain to u long story. but i just tell u a bit.. my mom don't like my fiancee's parents. and my mom don't want me go his house ever cause my mom think his father is crazy man!... but i wanna kept over his house...and my fiancee want me stand up myself and im 19years old. he in college i working. we trying fix our life and get own place. but it's long story... what can i do? we are almost married... his parents dont like my mom. my mom dont like his parents.they dont get along.... me and my fiancee are stay together forever... my fiancee want me stand up and be tough. i told him i dont wanna be stress....i dont know what can i do....should i do kept over his house or not now?

thanks.....

2007-01-26 15:47:55 · 11 answers · asked by XxItalianxX 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-26 15:47:54 · 11 answers · asked by justinstrachan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-26 15:47:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how many times does it take for the perverbial heart to break, before a person can walk away with out regret and what if's? how many times untill your heart finally gives in and is willing to let you walk away?

2007-01-26 15:47:01 · 25 answers · asked by daydreamer_100676 1 in Singles & Dating