2007-01-26 15:47:54 · 11 answers · asked by justinstrachan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
finding someone to love you as much as u love them is a farce, if your happy, they are happy, ride it out.
2007-01-26 16:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by houstonbank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You can pretend you're safe, but you never will be. It's happened to me before, and when they break it (heart), it hurts. It feels like your very soul is being peeled apart from your body, splitting you in two. However, It's ultimately up to you how you deal with this. If you trust them too much, it will hurt all the worse. But not trusting enough will leave you an empty shell after they are gone. There is also the thought of cheating; that your partner will find someone else and never tell you about it, for their own benefit. Again, the answer is no. I know it seems a cruel way to think, but it's the truth, and nothing hurts more than that.
2007-01-27 00:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by ~Drewz~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the one being loved more than you love back. If so, you may need to tell them how you are feeling and end the relationship, so they can move on. If there is a question of that person hurting you, then move and if something starts going wrong (stocking, abuse) speak with the local police department about what you can do. Either way good luck and stay safe.
2007-01-27 00:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they threatening you? I'm not sure I understand your question. If you love someone more than they love you, then you are not safe from having your feelings hurt. If they are a decent person, but just don't show as much love to you as you do them, then you have to decide for yourself if you can live with them.
2007-01-26 23:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unequal relationships are extremely difficult. First of all, it's possible that you are misreading things. Maybe the one you love is not good at expressing his/her love; or maybe you just need more confirmation that the average person.
If you're sure that this relationship is truly unequal, I think I would opt to move on. Although that would hurt, it would be far less painful than moving through every day wondering when the other will leave.
2007-01-26 23:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are loving more not the other person.
So, there is little doubt from other side.
Let them love more than you do and you will be safe in future.
2007-01-26 23:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by pdotsee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a good idea to show a guy your full emotions. Let him know that you love him, but don't let or show him that you love him to death because then he'll just take advantage of that. Guys treat girls like crap when they know you love them too much.
2007-01-26 23:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by Virginia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"safe from them"? what does that mean?
2007-01-26 23:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by KAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you will find someone else later and forget all about them. i promise!
2007-01-26 23:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by bellatrix27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
safe? you'll either feel heartache or you'll eventually get together.
2007-01-26 23:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋