So....I can't believe im sharing this crazy story but I was really confused by this for many reasons.
My ex-boyfriend and I first met about 3 years ago. When we met, he was seperated from his crazy wife....planning on getting a divorce. It was a bad break up....he ended up having to have her arrested and get a restraining order.
We fell head over heals for eachother. After 7 months tohugh....I broke it off with him. He was very upset and tried calling for months after.
About a year and a half later, I decided I really messed up. I tried contacting him and found out that he had took her back! They were still legally married too I guess.
He talked with a mutaly friend of our and he kept asking her why I had not told him everything sooner and that "in a prfect world, we would be together." He told her he still cared about and always has. He said that he didn't want to let go, but felt it was the right thing to do. He said "if he had things his way, we would be together?" What???
2007-01-26 15:53:28 · 4 answers · asked by ecrc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You left the guy. You decided it was not something you wanted. What were you expecting to happen? He was not going to give up on love because you and his wife left him. He took back his wife for whatever reasons but maybe he did this on the premise that he figured if he screwed up with a what he thought was a great relationship with you then maybe the problems that he had with his wife were his fault and decided to work them out.
I don't think it is quite fair that you decide remove your affections and expect him not to move on. A year and a half. He did make a promise of til death do we part and at one point he might have been willing to break that promise for you but you left him. That alone influenced him more than anything else. If you would have made your move sooner than who knows.
2007-01-26 16:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by thors13thhammer2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on. he had the best of both worlds and left it up to you to decide which path he was going to take.if he really loved you he wouldn't have stopped pursuing you and definitely wouldn't have gone back to his ex. you can do better
2007-01-27 00:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by john h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he's one to stay away from, there must have been something there for them or he wouldn't have went back to her or is someone that doesn't want to be alone and settles for who ever is available.
2007-01-26 23:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by Just Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see what you are confused about. He wasn't the best that he can get and he thinks you'd be better than his wife.
2007-01-27 00:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by jtivytk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋