I moved to Texas due to my job about 7 months ago and left the love of my life behind in Ohio. We dated for 6 years, and he has made it clear that he DOES want to be with me but his job and family are in Ohio, and he can't seem to decide if he is ready to move so far away to be with me and my kids. The problem is, I don't want to be with anyone else.
2007-01-26 15:55:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really love him and are not interested in anyone else why not wait? It isn't hurting anything, if you meet someone in the mean time then it's his loss for taking so long to figure out who is more important to him, you or his family.
2007-01-26 16:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to value his waiting to make such a decision to make a drastic move there. Wait a little longer and then have the talk with him and tell him how torn you are that the two of you are apart and how you really want him there. Reassure him that he'll see his family and that you are more than willing to help him find a new and maybe even better job there in Texas! People are generally scared to make big moves, especially when they don't see anything wrong with the way their life and relationships are. Good luck and I hope that he comes around and moves with you!
2007-01-27 00:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance is always a barrier when it comes to relationships. if he is so far away how do you know he is already with someone? Plus you can't have a good relationship without some type of physical action, not sexual but, being able to actually be together. Moving from family is a big issue for some who are clsoe with them, if he doesn't want to move, how about you move?
If you only want to be with him, then you have to move if you want the relationship to work. i hope this helps.
2007-01-27 00:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley[!] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are begging for a long and protracted period of agony for something that you could find with about 20 minutes of searching at a good library or church. Get rid of the past, the future is more optimistic.
2007-01-27 00:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by Mitch H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you and you really love him. Yalls time will come when yall meet one another again. Maybe its just a test from above to see how long you can last without seeing one another.
2007-01-27 00:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by Nana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I can say from personal experience that if he can't decide after 6 years where he wants to be then it may be a lost cause. Especially if you have children you need to do what's best for you and them - which may mean moving on. Even if that means just cutting back on the phone calls and emails, etc. It's best that he decides whether he wants to make that commitment all on his own because that's how it will be a long term relationship. Besides, family can be visited and jobs are temporary but love is forever...
2007-01-27 00:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you should not wait for him.because if really want to be with
you then he would make the effort to be there, he know that
you and your children had to leave. but the fact that he cant
decide what he want. it not good. time to move on and find
love.
2007-01-27 00:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love shouldn't stop because of distances. If you love him, then don't give up on it!
2007-01-27 00:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-27 00:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by LuCKyNUmBeRShaDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋