well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? also i got a friend to talk to her and she said she wanted to talk to me. then my friend called her while i was on the third line and my friend asked why she keeps looking at me during class and she said just to see what hes doing. then she kept going about the things she liked about me and then my friend asked do you like him and she said she'll tell him at school then they talked at school the next day and she does like me. i'm kinda confused now. i also noticed shes been trying to talk to me but is too shy. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. should talk to her?
2007-01-26 16:01:42 · 20 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes yes yes talk to her!!!
2007-01-26 16:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok I have so been there, but on the girls side. It's hard to talk to a guy you like after you've told him you don't want to go out with him. She may have a good reason for saying no. Let her know that even if she does not want to date you, that you still want to be her friend, she may have said no b/c she's afraid it will mess up a good friendship. Once she sees that you will be her friend no matter what, chances are she will open up to you, and tell you how she feels for herself, instead of using all the go between people.
2007-01-26 16:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by christianairedale 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello,
you say you are kinda confused, what you don't say is are you out of kindergarden yet, come on man grow up a bit more, go up to her and tell her, if you wanted to talk to her through so many other people, you can employ an agent to act as mediator, just walk up to her with your best smiley face on, and talk to her, if she runs away, don't chase her, let her go, and find a new young lady that will talk to you. or are you so ugly she might not be able to stand being larfed at by her so called friends, who couldn't stand being without her company for a single moment let alone a date at the movies or the bowling alley, at the movies take a handkerchief with you to blot her eyes at the sad movie you chose, or take the chance of losing at the alley, so she has something to remeber fondly at either date, then my man, she is YOURS. enjoy the experience, ...... Tony M
2007-01-26 16:15:45 · answer #3 · answered by tony m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that same thing happen to me i just don't understand girls. in my case i know she loves me but i don't know whats going on her mind. and if she is shy maybe you should do something to make her more comfortable maybe just say hi or be nice to her maybe you are her first crush and she doesn't know how to act. you should be friends with her first so she can feel more comfortable around you. but my case is way worse then yours. there is being like 4 guys that asked her out as soon as i broke with her i know she still loves me but she is shy. just be her friend after 3 months you should asked her out.
2007-01-26 16:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Frankie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't won't you kick yourself in the butt later when another boy wants to date her??? If you answer yes, then take the next step and talk to her yourself, no more friends in the middle. Try to be her friend first and then see where the two of you are. good luck!
2007-01-26 16:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wasn't too shy to be talking to you while you asked her out, then I dunno........somthing's up, maybe she was leading you on and now she has guilt....never can tell with the girls, you're either going to have to approach her or just move on...dont waste too much time on this....
2007-01-26 16:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is really confusing!! How much do you really like this girl? My thought is, if she really likes you then let her make her move and talk to you. You made it clear that you liked her, but it shouldn't be so complicated. Don't work so hard at trying to make your move, let her come to you.
2007-01-27 03:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you really want to. Situations like this can be misleading, and follow up with disastrous results. I would talk to her, but don't push it. Going to far will totally screw up your relationship. But yeah, go ahead and speak with her. Better to see what she thinks.
2007-01-26 17:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by ~Drewz~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a person who doesn't know what she wants and enjoys messing with a guy's head. Look elsewhere - there are plenty of fish in the sea!
2007-01-26 16:19:37 · answer #9 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget about her and make a new friend and make sure she sees you ...(no wonder you can't get your shool work done)...you waste too much time tring to figure out how this girl thinks!
2007-01-26 16:07:48 · answer #10 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an answer straight from her. Her friends could have lied for fun. It seems she still wants to talk to you. So ask her, her answer. Get it straight from her.
2007-01-26 16:10:52 · answer #11 · answered by Tumbleweed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋