Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

i know my husband is cheating on me and i want to know what it means when i keep having dreams of a woman and a baby girl.

2007-01-26 17:10:34 · 12 answers · asked by summer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know he was fealing her breast, should I let it go? It kind of turns me on.

2007-01-26 17:10:17 · 16 answers · asked by Ronald C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

everything was giong great, his mom absolutly loved me to death, invited me over EVERY weekend! told me i was the best thing that ever happened to her son. then she found out about my religion, and all the sudden i'm the worst thing that can happen to her son. me and my bf have discussed it and we've agreed that it doesn't matter to us, we still love eachother and he said nothing would change that. but all the sudden he isn't calling me or returning my calls, he's stood me up a few times and i can't get a hold of him. i would be extremely surprised if this was his doing, i think his mom might have something to do with it. but how do i handle this situation? i don't have a prob. with his mom, as long as she leaves my beleifs alone. i've never said or done anything to offend her, in my knowledge anyway. i really need help becuase i'm still in love with him and i'm sure he is too. i dont' know what to do. =* ( PLEASE HELP ME!!!

2007-01-26 17:09:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 29, and I constantly see young chicks that turn me on. They're the type of chicks that I would never have the confidence to hit on when I was there age, but now that I'm a few years older than they are, I feel totally confident. There so young and fresh. Plus, they haven't been to sullied by lots of dudes.

2007-01-26 17:08:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are the schools even going to allow it, and if they do will she be embarassed by it if i send them? ( i dont go to her school)*

2007-01-26 17:08:52 · 7 answers · asked by hey! 1 in Singles & Dating

like not a game where you play with several people. like "physically" kissing one another. what are some "cool/fun" ways of kissing?

2007-01-26 17:08:38 · 16 answers · asked by Em 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 17:08:06 · 8 answers · asked by Smiley 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my really good friend's boyfriend just broke up with her and I've been eyeing him for awhile. You're smart enough to figure out the situation (if you're not for some reason, i like my friend's ex boyfriend) help!

2007-01-26 17:08:00 · 18 answers · asked by Chimpanzees? Monkey. 7 in Friends

my husband doesn't last as long as he did before in bed...i need to know how can i help him out or if there is some tipe of pill to help with that... its not me i'm sure...he cant take hands off of me.

2007-01-26 17:07:53 · 9 answers · asked by NET03 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl is his friend, and is friends with his friends. They date on and off, she always dumps him, and he gets hurt so bad. Last time she dumped him for his best friend, nothing ended up happening. He is on the road to self destruciton with her. As a good friend what do i do?

2007-01-26 17:07:51 · 6 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

To cut to the chase I met her in a small class of 11 or so people last semester. We would talk a little in class but everyone talked to everyone. towards the end of the semester I offered to help her on an assignment and she came over to my dorm (I live on campus, Don’t own a car by choice for now), So I have another class with her, this time its a lecture hall class, so I don’t get much chance to talk to her in class even though we always sit next to each other. I’m not great with hitting on or asking girls out so does anyone have any advice? She also has a friend that sits on her other side who I don’t know (girl), so asking her out after class is kind of hard. I do have her number but I have never hung out with her causally. I don’t have a car so do I have to ask "hey do you want to go out this weekend? Cool, pick me up at 8". How do I go about doing that. Should I call her, I do have her number. There’s a bite more but don’t have the space to write it. Any and ALL advice is welcome. thanks

2007-01-26 17:07:30 · 8 answers · asked by name_isnt_taken_yet 1 in Singles & Dating

To be honest, I'm quite popular at my small high school of 550. I'm only a freshman here, and I know a lot of the seniors. Alot of the guys are very attractive. One of them started talkign to me through myspace, and I thought he was really really hot, but then he got a girlfriend, he still talks to me and when people see him they yell my name. I swear he has a thing for me but I'm not sure. I have a lot of big crushes on about 3 guys, and I wish I had the guts to go for all of them. One of the guys I talked to (he is a senior also..) was drunk one night, and talked to me on the internet saying things like.."ohh.. I want to get on you really bad, and you're so hot" etc, etc. I wonder if he actually is into me, or it was just an act. I'm not saying they don't want to get into my pants, most teenage boys would love to do that, but I see him at school alot and I don't have the courage to say something because of the awkwardness, what should I do?

2007-01-26 17:06:34 · 5 answers · asked by tap2585 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that my husband gets to do anything he wants to?
Like go to Party's, Concerts, Bars, Strip Bars(I don't approve of that)
But when I want to go out just to even my best friends house He throws a fit and makes me feel very bad!
Like tonight I had planned to go to an ALL GIRLS party and at the last minute I had to call my best friend and tell her I wasn't going.
Her feelings were hurt and mine are too!
We had planned this for two weeks and my husband knew of it!
My son's feelings were hurt too because he was looking forward to just hanging out with his dad alone!
AND NOW MY HUSBAND IS OUT DOING HIS OWN THING!
I haven't been out alone with my friends for about 4 and a half years and I miss doing that. I'm falling into a rut and I don't want to live like this. I want to be able to go out without taking my son every where I go. I LOVE my son but at times I need a break!
I know we need counseling but I wanted to know if anyone else goes through this too and how do you deal with it?

2007-01-26 17:06:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-26 17:06:03 · 6 answers · asked by nia8194 1 in Friends

i am going out with my best friends cousin and my best friend is going out with my ex she thinks i am trying to hook up with him so she is trying to make a 3rd grader hook up with him for pay back but i couldn't care less about her boyfriend and i love mine to death what should i do

2007-01-26 17:05:25 · 9 answers · asked by sexy l 1 in Singles & Dating

he left the night I caught them and didn't come back because he was afraid of what I'd do to him. Since I caught him with her everybody has been telling me that they always saw him with her at the bar or restaraunts. We are separated right now but sometimes he calls and wants me to go back with him. Then he gets mad and says he doesn't love my anymore. Then he calls back begging again. I don't know what to do. I married him when I was 15 and I've been married to him for 11 years. He's always been abusive and controlling but for some reason I can't imagine my life without him. I'm afraid of having to live the rest of my life alone because I have 3 kids and I don't think anyone else would want me with 3 kids. Please help me with some advise because I really don't know what to do.

2007-01-26 17:05:13 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im really crushing on this guy at my youth group.
Hes not looking for a girlfriend right now but im not chasing him.
I just really like him
A friend of his told me he wasnt looking right now but likes me as a friend and he would date me but just not at the moment and then i asked him if he liked anyone and he said he liked my best friend until he found out she has a boyfriend...
For some reason she wont stop smiling at him she used to like him too but hello you have a boyfriend.
And i want to be with him so bad.
Apperently he likes girls with the same intrests as him and we totally do he liked her cuz they both play soccer.

What should i do i feel soo lame
Every guy seems to like my best friend
he knows i like him now and i dont know what to do.

please help....

2007-01-26 17:05:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 17:04:12 · 11 answers · asked by non active 2 in Singles & Dating

I would like to know if it's just that I'm a single mom feeling bad for myself over such a comment or what! Ok we've been best friends for ten years, together the last two. I have 3 kids age 7, 4, and 3. My two youngest kids know very little of who their dad is. Not envolved at all, basically. We ended up moving into his parents house. Plan on moving sooner than soon.... Anyways, I love his parents. They are good people. But, this evening his dad made a comment to me when hearing in on our conversation. I got invited to go to a concert with a girlfriend of mine. His dad walks up and says, " I think you should think about who is going to babysit your kids first." "Hopefully, it's not going to be him." "See, I take care of him, he takes care of you, and you take care of your kids." "They are YOUR kids!" Now, umm does that seem a little odd to be making point of? I know they are my kids. We are not married. They are not his kids. But what was his meaning to that?

2007-01-26 17:03:08 · 12 answers · asked by sexy_lop 1 in Family

My girlfriend and I have an unsual relationship. Whenever we are out together and I notice another really hot woman, my girlfriend enjoys proving to me that she can get this woman into her bed while I cant. The only problem is she is right and they never let me join in with them. Instead, they make me sit outside but close enough so that if they call I can serve them refreshments. I still have not slept with my girlfriend even though we live together and I do all the housework. I also have half my monthly salary deposited directly into her account. I love her to death but it is agony listening to her moan for hours with another woman behind a closed door. Begging them doesn't help, they only laugh at me more whenever I do, and I do beg them alot. Sometimes if I take them out shopping on my credit card and carry all their purchases she will let me kiss her feet but that is the most I ever seem to get. Is there anything more I can do for her. I would die if we broke up, she knows it too.

2007-01-26 17:01:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am one of those poor fools who will fall for one person, and because of that, will find it difficult to date anyone else. This would be great except I fall for guys before anybody gets to asking anyone else out. The one I am currently smitten with, I work with him, although I don't see him as much as I did last year due to having different lunch times. I can honestly say I have never liked anybody as much as I genuinely like this person (I feel like Im 12 again, seriously), but I have lingering doubts, and I wonder at what point a person should maybe consider making an active effort to LOSE interest, if thats possible. (It seems to me the only option I have left. Id feel weird asking him out because we work together and such, and although I sense that he is interested sometimes, Id understand if he felt the same way. He's shy in the same way I am and I dont necessarily think that asking boys out works too well.) Thanks in advance!

2007-01-26 17:01:35 · 9 answers · asked by StarryEyedSurprise 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 17:01:11 · 17 answers · asked by joi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I set my friend up with someone my husband works with. She didn't want to meet this guy alone, so she begged me to go with her. My husband happened to be out of town that night, so it would just be the three of us. I called my husband and told him we were going out with his co-worker when my friend was there. She shouted into the phone, "we're going to have a threesome." My husband got a tid irritated by this. As we drove to the bar, she told me it was weird for my husband to get mad because he should trust me. He does trust, he just thought she was rude. I do, too. I was trying to do her a favor, after all.

2007-01-26 17:00:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when u get in trouble and the person who is guilty doesn't! gosh i can't get over it! how do handle it when no one will listen?

2007-01-26 17:00:31 · 4 answers · asked by la virgen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband loves talking to this particular woman. They could talk on the phone for hours everyday. They hang out a lot while I am at work. I found out about it. He said they just like to bull-**** together, that is it. I told him to stop. He said he would. But it turns out they still hang out, but behind my back. I questioned him if they have had a sexual relationship. He denied it. I am in so much pain now because he is not willing to leave her. We have two young kids. I don't know what to do.

2007-01-26 16:59:39 · 2 answers · asked by Minnie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My b/f is always busy and has no time to spend with me! We don't even see each other may be once in a month or so & even for that he has to get permission from his mom/family! But the worst thing is he won't even talk on the phone, 1st of all i have to call him and if i call he picks up and talks for 5 min and goes like 'hey i got to go' i'll talk to u later then again 10 more mins and so on....well i'm the type who expects him to talk at least for an hour! Is that too much? Am i expecting too much from him? OTHER BIG thing is that i feel i love him and i'm so crazy about him more than him!! Is that a weakness for my love? For instance he will live for a week or so if i don't talk to him! But i can't be like that if he doesn't pick up the phone or talk to me! What can i do? When we get to see each other is there any good approaches that would make him understand and love me like i do!

2007-01-26 16:59:31 · 12 answers · asked by Girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was abused as a child by my mother and she didn't want me when I left home I moved in with my b/f and had a baby all she could say was that shes not happy about it my mum & dad divorced and my brother lives with my mum& stil does Im 33 he's 30 hes mummys little boy he had no g/f, wife, kids, bills job etc never exp. life.I'm married (not to sons father) very settled got a good job very nice home, car etc. My mother &grandmother are extreamly manipulative! My mother had a child after I had mine because she felt the spotlight was taken from her, even though my grandmother had very little to do with my son. My father has always been in touch. My mother refused to come to my wedding because my dad got remarried and she expected her invite to say 'and friend' mind you all her side of the family were going and she wasnt seeing anyone Itold her she could bring someone but it wasnt good enough then.She turned up on the day with some guy and left an hour later but expected to be treated like

2007-01-26 16:58:41 · 9 answers · asked by Nicky 3 in Family

Ok so my girlfriend has been acting slightly distant i think. I mean i never was touchy, feely with her in our 6 year relationship. We have great sex but we were never the cuddling kissing all the time type. We had a fight at the beginning of the month where i got her extremely mad and she said she wants to break up. We talked it out and smoothed things over.

For the past 3 months shes been into different music, movies, and her friends are into this weird folk rock and 1 of her girlfriends plays in the band and her other girlfriends boyfriend is in the band. Now one of the band members has my space and i checked it out and its all the stuff my gf has been getting into, Same bands and movies are in this guys profile.

I walked her to the car tonight and she had the band's CD in her car and it's terrible. i asked her why do you listen to this she said i like it. Could she be cheating with this guy? I asked if she ever met him she said she doesn't know who he is.

2007-01-26 16:58:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lol..deres dis guy that is like really weird..well..we had a winter ball..and i was standing around wit my friend
then i was lookin around and saw this guy and his 2 friends..one of his friends pointed at me and then the guy ( lets call him chris lol )
well chris came over to me
and *pretended to tie his shoe* and his butt was like all up mmy space.. ( kinda weirrdd!!!!!!!)
well hes like really hot
and im just wondering if he likes me
i guessing not lol...doing somehting as weird as that
( im a 6th grader..hes a 7th grader...no chance..)
sp does it mean anything?????
or does it just mean thats hes a hot retarted dude??

2007-01-26 16:57:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've heard all of the normal advice, but what is something that really has helped your relationship? Thanks everyone!

2007-01-26 16:56:37 · 29 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce