My friend is dating a girl, they have dated millions of times before and broke up! What do i do?

Question

This girl is his friend, and is friends with his friends. They date on and off, she always dumps him, and he gets hurt so bad. Last time she dumped him for his best friend, nothing ended up happening. He is on the road to self destruciton with her. As a good friend what do i do?

Answer 1

You are really a true friend as you honestly wish to help your friend in trouble!

Take him to a quiet place and discuss the problem with him in depth. It is better that you hear him out first, and then let him analyze the problem along with you. You may offer advice - very gently - about the self destruction angle of his actions. A solution should normally come out of such a discussion. If not, you can have a similar - but shorter - follow up session with your friend to see if he could be counseled out of his destructive path.

However, please remember it is his life and, as a good friend, you can only do so much to help him out. Ultimately he has to help himself. Good luck!

Answer 2

the best you can do is to be there when he needs help or advice. but unfortunately, you can't run his life for him. whatever he does is his responsibility. he alsready knows what type of girl he's dating. and yet he still wants to be with her. so there's nothing else you can do to stop him. just hope that one day he realizes what he's doing and stops going after her.

Answer 3

You need to get him with another girl, sabbotage it or something. I wouldn't let it go on any longer. It sounds like she takes him for granted and doesn't care about him that much.

Answer 4

jess admit it you want him for yourself, next time they are broke up talk to him about how you feel, the worst that can happen is he will not return the feeling

Answer 5

introduce him to a nice pretty girl haha

Answer 6

what she said...get him away from her