My b/f is always busy and has no time to spend with me! We don't even see each other may be once in a month or so & even for that he has to get permission from his mom/family! But the worst thing is he won't even talk on the phone, 1st of all i have to call him and if i call he picks up and talks for 5 min and goes like 'hey i got to go' i'll talk to u later then again 10 more mins and so on....well i'm the type who expects him to talk at least for an hour! Is that too much? Am i expecting too much from him? OTHER BIG thing is that i feel i love him and i'm so crazy about him more than him!! Is that a weakness for my love? For instance he will live for a week or so if i don't talk to him! But i can't be like that if he doesn't pick up the phone or talk to me! What can i do? When we get to see each other is there any good approaches that would make him understand and love me like i do!
2007-01-26 16:59:31 · 12 answers · asked by Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can't make people be a certain way. If you are so incompatible, then find yourself a boyfriend who is more your type.
2007-01-26 17:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take it from me...are not getting in touch with someone who's only separated. until eventually the ink is dry on those divorce papers...lower back off. The red flags are there already...he's continually "too busy". now to not indicate he jokes about you arising with a fashion to MAKE him have more desirable time for you...if he extremely had to be with you...HE'D locate a fashion.
2016-10-16 04:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by faulkenberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't make anyone love you. If he felt the same way bout you he would make the time. I don't know how long you've been dating but actions speak louder than words.... leave him alone for awhile and see what he does. I know it's hard but put him to the test to see if he misses you or even attempts to talk or see you. I think with that you'll truely know where you stand is his life
Best of luck to you!
2007-01-26 17:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anna e 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont think that this is love. Bcos its difficult to stay away from each other for such a long time in love. I feel that you are just getting attracted to him bcos of his qualities and he is avoiding you. Wake up and go for different options and then decide. Have a loving time.
2007-01-26 17:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to work on your self esteem. You should take a yoga class and work on making your body and mind strong.
Forget about him. He is living his life and doesn't have the need to share much of it with you. He probably thinks you are too needy for him. Work on developing outside interests and making yourself happy. Then you will be ready to find someone.
2007-01-26 17:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by kindness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First buy the book "He's Just not that in to you". And second what exactly do you love about a guy who doesn't spend any time with you?
2007-01-26 17:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by linda k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you be in love with him if you only see each other once a month. Maybe your in love with BEING in love.
I say, move on. Find someone who has time for you. Because it doesnt sound like he's very interested in keeping right.
2007-01-26 17:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by Laurellamags 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I know you like this guy a lot but he's not that into you. If he was he would make the time to be with you--there would be no stopping.
It's time to move on--and meet someone who will return your love.
2007-01-26 17:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by autimom 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all, have you ever tried just---not caring?
....
Try not caring for a minute. Stop trying to push him for every little thing. Its not worth it. Really.
Get a guy who cares, you dont need guys like that.
I know what youre thinking---youre thinking you could change him. Right?
^_^ uh huh....no?
2007-01-26 17:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would spare yourself so much agony and end it. if he really wanted to, he would make time. thats bullshit.
2007-01-30 14:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by xtal6872 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋