To be honest, I'm quite popular at my small high school of 550. I'm only a freshman here, and I know a lot of the seniors. Alot of the guys are very attractive. One of them started talkign to me through myspace, and I thought he was really really hot, but then he got a girlfriend, he still talks to me and when people see him they yell my name. I swear he has a thing for me but I'm not sure. I have a lot of big crushes on about 3 guys, and I wish I had the guts to go for all of them. One of the guys I talked to (he is a senior also..) was drunk one night, and talked to me on the internet saying things like.."ohh.. I want to get on you really bad, and you're so hot" etc, etc. I wonder if he actually is into me, or it was just an act. I'm not saying they don't want to get into my pants, most teenage boys would love to do that, but I see him at school alot and I don't have the courage to say something because of the awkwardness, what should I do?
2007-01-26 17:06:34 · 5 answers · asked by tap2585 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude...you should just chill. TRUST me....coming from a guy, don't lower yourself...or trying to "higher" yourself to get a guy to like you. i really hope you don't give yourself up just so a guy will like you. lemme tell you a story. i know this girl who, when she was younger, your age...a freshman, thought this one guy really liked her. that's cuz she had a crush on him. he invited her over one day, and told her that she was cool and stuff. (this guy was older than she was). she got flattered. (which is dangerous). he then tried to get in her pants, and since things were going soooo good for her, she didn't want him to not like him, so she decided to let him do whatever...you know. she felt disgusted in herself, but she put that aside because this guy "liked" her. the next day she tried to say hi to him in the hall and he pretended he didn't want anything to do with her. to me, that's f-ing sick. i've talked to this girl many times, and it still haunts her even now...about seven years later. i'm not saying a senior dating a freshman is bad...but i wouldn't recommend it. freshmen are indeed alot more naive than they think. alot of shiit goes down in four years...trust me. seniors learn how to manipulate freshman, especially freshman girls. i'm a guy, trust me, i've herd guys talking about things when i was a senior...i got sick. its horrible. i say watch your self. you don't want to regret putting yourself aside to "make" some guy like you to just find out you've been used. TRUST me. its not worth it....
2007-01-26 17:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by zeek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely stay with friends your age.
It's ironic that the couple of years age difference now will mean very little in your years ahead. Actually, as time goes by, the guys that will be in your dating pool will be much older than you.
However, for now the few years age difference is significant. This is because as a young person your developmental changes, both physical and emotional, are happening very quickly. In the age range I believe you are considering, the young men you are attracted to are "hormone" driven. That is to say that they are really mostly looking for one thing... doesn't make them bad, but you need to be very aware of that and act in your own best interests.
Why? Because as a young lady you have more to lose.
I think you should work on just having friends. But if you're going to be involved with someone romantically, you may want to select someone very close to your age. An older guy, although he's just a couple of years older will probably have better "player" skills.
STAY IN SCHOOL!
2007-01-26 17:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by i_tunes_junkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, i'm getting what you're declaring, and that i do imagine that a 50 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous with a 20-some thing 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous is somewhat extreme (notwithstanding it does happen), yet as you become old the hollow closes. operating example a 22 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous and a 14 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous sounds gross- that is gross, yet what about a 32 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous with a 24 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous? similar age huge difference, notwithstanding it would not sound as disgusting. I do trust that in some unspecified time sooner or later in time (50 and 20-some thing) that's no longer love, that's some thing else (money). yet that is my opinion. i have not in any respect been in that extreme of a difficulty to say for actuality although.
2016-12-03 02:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by boshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you said younger girls and older guys i thougth you meant you were twenty and he was forty , but no you are 15 and they 18, just boys! Now you know what seniors wont from a freshman girl ITS p u s s y and that a fact ask anyone on the net and they will tell you the same thing. Now it you wont to date boys date freshman boys there not as sex crazed as seniors at lest they wort when i was in high school. Remind seniors boys 15 will get you 20
2007-01-26 18:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In no way shape or form should you upto any guy, let them come to you and be into you for who you are not what you are. In and out of your pants isn't cool, respect yourself and you raise your bar and standards; don't get heart broken.
2007-01-26 17:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by Rich M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋