To ask her or not to ask. And I dont have a car.?

Question

To cut to the chase I met her in a small class of 11 or so people last semester. We would talk a little in class but everyone talked to everyone. towards the end of the semester I offered to help her on an assignment and she came over to my dorm (I live on campus, Don’t own a car by choice for now), So I have another class with her, this time its a lecture hall class, so I don’t get much chance to talk to her in class even though we always sit next to each other. I’m not great with hitting on or asking girls out so does anyone have any advice? She also has a friend that sits on her other side who I don’t know (girl), so asking her out after class is kind of hard. I do have her number but I have never hung out with her causally. I don’t have a car so do I have to ask "hey do you want to go out this weekend? Cool, pick me up at 8". How do I go about doing that. Should I call her, I do have her number. There’s a bite more but don’t have the space to write it. Any and ALL advice is welcome. thanks

Answer 1

well you obviously like this girl, i say yes. ask her. just don't worry too much about it when you do. i hear girls like confidence. i would start of very little though. maybe you could offer help on another assignment again if she needs it. if she doesn't, why not fake that you need help on an assignment? ask her to help you out if she understands it? it that works, see what happens from there. you have her number, so that must mean she gave it to you, which means that she doesn't think you're a horrible person or anything, she's at least a LITTLE bit interested in you, at least. work from small to big. maybe after one of you guys help eachother with whatever help yall need on an assignment, maybe ask her if she's hungry or thirsty or something. something right on campus would be perfect. just go to the cafeteria, i know there's a cafeteria on campus. (im a student at virginia tech). so ask her from there. when yall depart tell her something like you would like to hang out again sometime. if she agrees, wait till the next day in class to see if she wants to help you once again...or if she's gonna want to eat after class or soemthing. work from there. the thing to remember is, what's the worst that can happen? the worst thing is she won't be "interested" in you and won't want anything more than a friendship, in which case she isn't the right girl for you anyways. so why worry? at least you made a new friend...good luck man...

Answer 2

Meet at the school like the cafeteria for coffee and donuts or for sandwiches. Maybe after you get to know her better and see if there is a romantic interest shared invite her to a nearby or on-campus park bench area with a romantic picnic you have personally creatively fixed replete with candles and table cloth (not the first date though!). Lots of campuses have tennis courts. Try some sort of activity that you both enjoy whether it's playing chess or taking a walk. Our hometown campus had a lovely lake with ducks to feed and a chapel with surrounding benches and park lights. Dollar store items will go a long ways for picnic set-up and cards, letters, phone calls and poetry can get you started in courting her. You could also try borrowing a friend's vehicle or double dating with friends. Group activities would be a great way to start a friendship that could develop into a romance. Always have honorable intentions and things will go well for you. Be thoughtful, courteous, and creative. Best of luck to you!

Answer 3

Well maybe you can try a group date. Or double with a friend that can drive you somewhere. If nothing else then ask her to meet you at the cafeteria or somewhere else on campus you can eat or just hang out. But be honest with her about the car thing. She'll understand I'm sure but you need to be up front about as soon as possible. Not all girls are going to judge you by the car you drive or don't. Maybe plan a study date with her and pick up a few things at a near by store, if you can, to snack on. Good luck. Or you can get Netflix and order a movie and get a pizza.

Answer 4

You live on campus, there are lots of things you could do on campus. Ask her if she wants to go have a coke at the ...what ever.
Go study at the library.
Rent/buy a movie and watch it at the dorm on TV Have coke and popcorn and candy like at the real movies.
If you belong to any clubs you could ask her to one of the functions there.
Maybe there is a dance on campus you could ask her to.
When I was in collage, 35 years ago, we had what we called a "Coffee House" to hang out at. Do they still have places like that? If so ask her to go there with you.
Not having a car is pretty ruff in the dating department.
I drought she wants to drive you around when she does not even know you that well.

Answer 5

Do she need a car to like you? if yes, don't ask her out at all. If no, just give her a call. If you don't want her to decline, just write a note and ask her friend to pass it. It is very romantic. She may not be talking to you because she simply does not want to show she feels something about you. Good luck ! And if the car is so important to you, rent one or borrow one from a friend.

Answer 6

i do no longer understand how a techniques away she lives from you or from the place you desire to take her. i do no longer think of that strolling slightly is out of the question as long as you ruin it up with a staggering prepare or relaxing dinner, gondola holiday or carriage holiday. Does she have a bike has she ridden it lots at present any solid places to holiday that's exciting with probabilities of battling off for an somewhat solid meal or prepare? Does she take the bus in any respect? With the fee of gas further and further everyone seems to be the two heading off using already or are going to as much as attainable. So in that understand, you have a head initiate. possibly you will be able to desire to hire a pair scooters to run around? -make factors all around via conversing to your mom and dad first approximately it then ask her in case you will be able to desire to ask her mom and dad regarding the assumption.

Answer 7

Okay i really hate guys like you. What a coward. If you like a girl just ask her already. ARGH. Why can't guys make up their mind. Stop leading girls on!!!

Answer 8

call her,and ask her out already so you don't have a car who cares!