Ok, so my really good friend's boyfriend just broke up with her and I've been eyeing him for awhile. You're smart enough to figure out the situation (if you're not for some reason, i like my friend's ex boyfriend) help!
2007-01-26 17:08:00 · 18 answers · asked by Chimpanzees? Monkey. 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
So you HAVE a really good friend and you really want to keep that good friend so you should not be eyeing up her ex for any reason other then loosing your good friend.
If you start dating this ex of your good friend then you might as well say good-bye to your really good friend because that's the next step you will for sure have to take.
Is loosing a really good friend worth this?
I think not!
Really good friends are not easy to come by these days and if you are a really good friend to your good friend then get the ex boyfriend of you good friend out of your mind before you loose something worth more, okay.
2007-01-26 17:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you dont have to ask this question you should know the answer already. if your a true friend u shouldn't go after ur friend's ex i mean shoot i would be mad if my bestfriend tried to hook up with my ex after we just broke up... that is just not right. don't do it. u'll hurt ur bestfriend just stay away from. u'll only make things worst. i've been through that situation coz i like this one guy and i've been telling my friend about him and she was flirtin with him when we all hang out together. and i hated her so much.
2007-01-27 01:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a good thought before going for him - is she likely to be offended? Maybe she will think that you were the reason for the break-up and she will never forgive you, although you have no blame for that. Evaluate your friendship and if it is really worhty, it is no use to spoil it.
2007-01-27 01:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by gery_encycle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time before you go after the guy. Both he and his ex=gf will need time to adjust. And it will give her time to find another guy,so if you do get together with the guy,maybe she won't feel so bad.
2007-01-27 01:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never date a friend's ex. Never ever. You can't help having feelings for him, true, but you can refuse to act on those feelings.
2007-01-27 01:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it girl! It's not worth it but, hey why you checking out your girl's man anyway? You're like so not a good friend.
2007-01-27 01:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by Ericqua 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well,,he may like you too,,maybe thats why he broke up with her.If thats the case he will let you know but wait until she moves on with someone else out of respect for your friend.
2007-01-27 01:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must not think to highly of your good friend then. He should be off limits to you unless you intend to hurt and lose your friend.
2007-01-27 01:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him and try to aviod him and start to like a new guy........... yah thats happed to me cuz mai friend broke up wit her bf ( i never knew that she still likes him). she got really mad at me when he asked me out and i said yes. the totally ruined mai friend's and i relationship but she still likes him and she finally forgave me.
2007-01-27 02:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by It'S mEeH!!!!!!!!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your friend you know what the unwritten rule is for girls..
probaly in a couple of years you can go for him..like when your older..
2007-01-27 01:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by exotic_island_beauty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋