Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

How did you feel afterwards and did anyone ever find out?

2007-01-25 14:54:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What could it mean if you requested your credit report and it was being held. They have also held my husbands.

2007-01-25 14:53:44 · 1 answers · asked by steffi 2 in Family

Ok, so i've been with my bf for 2 years. Our first mnth 2gthr he asked me if it was ok to meet his ex. I wasn't comftbl. So i said no. By christmas of that year, i found out that they met up, she was calling his vm. and that they were emailing regly. I was obvsly upset, so i told him about it. And in return he called her and told her it was best they dont talk. So i thought all was fine, but still had that feeling. We are now in our 2nd yr and i just found out that the 2 are still talking, and behind my back again. He thinks its ok, and tells me they are just friends. But he doesnt undrstnd that i am not ok with it and it hurts me that he does it (because of the lies and betrayl)So we got into a huge fight and he got mad and started saying that he will never end the communication between the 2 beacuse of the friendship (they went together for 5 yrs and lived together.) Any way, im so confused, not too sure what to do. Am I over reacting?

2007-01-25 14:53:30 · 13 answers · asked by I just don't Know 1 in Singles & Dating

and have i met her yet

2007-01-25 14:52:59 · 2 answers · asked by chriz j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 12 year old daughter who wants to date a boy in her class. Do you think I should let her?

2007-01-25 14:52:36 · 123 answers · asked by jilly babe 2 in Singles & Dating

How can i ask a girl to be my gf, how to start and end if she says yes or no??

2007-01-25 14:52:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she still have 1 year of intership and another year to review for the boards.... i do love her.. please give me an advice thanxxs

2007-01-25 14:51:40 · 6 answers · asked by Arnel I 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend left her email open and I found a folder with her ex boyfriends name on it. It has several emails from the past two months. They go all the way back to when they were together. I don't understand why she is saving these when she is with me. They are friends, the emails are nothing about love or anything. I just don't understand why she would be saving them. Should I be worried she still has feelings for him? They also hang out every now and then and I have had my concerns about it, but she always has said they are just friends.

2007-01-25 14:51:26 · 6 answers · asked by john 2 in Singles & Dating

So, I meet this guy. I wanna become friends with him. We end of going out and after the second date he figures out I am not "easy" at all and doesn't ask me out anymore. Basically, he just wanted to get into my pants. So, I see him everyday and we joke around. But we don't hang out anymore. The truth is that I don't know how to act around him. Should I discuss it with him? Help me people

2007-01-25 14:51:22 · 7 answers · asked by soosool 2 in Singles & Dating

yup...

2007-01-25 14:51:05 · 2 answers · asked by sykochipmunk 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever met a really ugly person, if so describe why/how they were so ugly.?
i mean, my friends are always saying so and so is hideous/totally ugly etc, but i have to say i've so far never met a young /healthy person who i would consider totally ugly, most people are not that below average and have some nice feature about them

2007-01-25 14:50:07 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The school scholarship is giving me 900 dollars. I want to put that money together with 150 dollars, I was saving so that I can get invisalign braces to fix my teeth. My mom says she needs the money to pay off some loans. It seems to me that my mom always needs money.

So, my mom said, "If you take that 900 dollars and don't give it to to me, just move out of my house because your not being fair if you say, I'll go to school and if they give me money, I'll take it." I don't know what to do? I have tried talking to her but she made up her decision.

2007-01-25 14:49:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and after a year he said that it was over between you two what would you think?

2007-01-25 14:48:36 · 36 answers · asked by elliepenelly 3 in Singles & Dating

So, he asked me out on wednesday. We have liked each other for along time and have known each other for almost 7 years. He's really sweet. He even keeps his promises to call me! My problem is that our first date is Sunday and I was the one who mentioned it. He invited me to other things they just didn't work out. We are going to see The Epic Movie so should I pay? I was the one who brought up us going. Do I pay for only me, for both of us, or not at all? Thanks a bunch for your answers!

He's 16 and I am almost 15 just so you know.

2007-01-25 14:48:35 · 17 answers · asked by Kali 2 in Singles & Dating

This is the most rediculous thing ever. Its a long story too. Ill try to keep it short and sweet. Last year, I became madly in love with this boy, lets call him cody. I am 2 years younger then him and we live in different cities. Cody, is best friends with "David." David was madly In love with "Mia" who just happens to be my best friend. Anyways after a few months of just dates... along comes"courtney." David and Cody both fall for her. They end up fighting with each other and me and Mia, are devistated to say the least. In the end, Cody got courtney and they ended up dating. Me & Mia moved on to better things. However in the last month or so, I have began to fall for David. Pretty much Mia's ex. She still has feelings for him & so do I. But I also still have "love" feelings for Cody that will always be there. Me and Mia talked about it, But I dont wanna hurt her or her chances of her & David dating again. But I really Like him. He likes us both. and Im still in love with cody. Help me

2007-01-25 14:47:44 · 8 answers · asked by Nic.Marie<3 1 in Singles & Dating

theres a girl on msn that i have know for six years from primary school (i'm going to high school this year she is too) i'm having trouble having convocations. i don't know what to say to start convocations. (she nearly always starts them) what can i say???

2007-01-25 14:47:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know wht to do. i moved to MA for him.We have lived together for 1.5 years now. he is very selfish, and all this friends are telling me tht. they say he takes it for granted that i am nice to him. i cook 5/7 days for him, i make him breakfast. i do the dishes 8/10 times, i give him long massages 5 times a week. i try my best to please him, even in bed..i am or i thought i was a confident, smart yng lady. always speak my mind and truth, and have lived an abusive childhood, and i do admit i have trust issues with men. but he is always sayin that i nag him, and always use my past as an excuse. he always tells me he wants someone submissive, but i have nvr been submissive. i do wht i do for him cos i love him. when he gets drunk he gets loud and violent. he drunk drives, n we have had fights on the road - cos i want him to stop driving. (i dont know how to drive or else i wud). i have tried breaking up with him many times, didnt work. cos i didnt want to leave, and hes stopped me.

2007-01-25 14:47:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and now she doesnt know what to believe what should I do to prove to here it didnt happen

2007-01-25 14:47:01 · 21 answers · asked by BJ O 1 in Singles & Dating

Assuming she's nice/normal/non-crazy. Or are other factors very important?

2007-01-25 14:46:48 · 7 answers · asked by lb 3 in Singles & Dating

If you could have one choice....either perfect health for the rest of your natural life, or perfect love. Which would you choose? That's a tough one.

2007-01-25 14:46:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband's ex-wife has demanded that he divorce me before he can get his child for his court ordered summer parent time. Can one parent make this demand of the other, legally? There are no allegations of abuse or neglect. The mother just simply doesn't like the step-mother. If anyone has legal expertise, this would be helpful.

2007-01-25 14:45:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, the story goes simply like this.
This girl had became my friend last spring due to a school trip, we formed a r/s over that time and when i came back to school, i realized i had a crush on her. I'm pretty obvious and she wanted to go to prom with me. I asked her with the idea we'd be going out after i asked her, yet nothing. Now that shes gotten a prom date, she only really talks to me when i iniate and she has really not given me the same attention as before. Some of her friends tell me to keep pushing and that shes being stubborn but i dunno. The whole thing doesn't add up. I like her , i ask her for a date she backs out using a excuse. Do i have to ask her stright out if she likes me ? and if its a no than cancel our prom date cause i only wanted to go to prom with her under the pretence she be my gf. Any ideas of what shes thinking, does she like me, and what i should do about it either way thanks guys

2007-01-25 14:45:52 · 10 answers · asked by n mick 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys, what are your thought on virgin girls who wanna save their virginity for marriage? Would you date a virgin with this viewpoint knowing that you won't have sex with her unless you end up being Mr. Right? I'm 21 and I'm saving sex for marriage but it's difficult cuz most guys want girlfriends who will put out. Some people have told me that most guys (especially in their twenties) are at their sexual peak and they won't wait for me even if they REALLY like me cuz their urges will take over? Is this true? Are no guys willing to wait for virgin girls?

2007-01-25 14:45:33 · 41 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is going to a prom with a dude that I absolutely hate. We're both sophomores so we can't go unless a junior or senior takes us. I said I'd be okay with it if they didn't dance or kiss or anything and she was just going with him so she could get in. But then today she told me and a couple of my friends she said "I'm only going with you if you dance with me this time" because he took her last time and didn't dance with her. I'm way uncomfortable with this but don't know how to tell her and I'm pretty sure she already told him yes. What should I do?

2007-01-25 14:45:32 · 14 answers · asked by delacroix192 2 in Singles & Dating

grand children its beneath them.... do you think i should just give it to charity.. do u think they would want it. I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN FUND OF IT AND REALLY WOULD LIKE FOR SOME ONE TO HAVE IT THAT I REALLY LIKE.

2007-01-25 14:45:27 · 4 answers · asked by Seeker of Truth 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-25 14:44:47 · 9 answers · asked by It'sJustMe 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend and Im sure he loves me too... sometimes he says he's doing this or that for me... and I just wont accept those things cause It bothers me he says Im doing it "for you"... like most recently he said he is going to postpone his graduation so that we can be together longer cause he wants me to be happy"... those are the things he says he's doing for me and I rarely accept those... am i crazy?.. i just somehow feel he doesnt really want those things and he's only doing them for me and I really dont want him to regret anything later...

But i've comment this to a friend today and she was like i should let him do it and that its sweet and Im being impossible and that i just block him.. and i was watching "the oc" earlier and this guy said his girlfriend he can postpone his semester so they are more time together and she just like that say really?? that would be great!! and both were happy.. am i crazy? :-S what u think? any advice?

2007-01-25 14:44:45 · 2 answers · asked by Aija 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now and I am feeling a little tied down. There just doesn't seem to be any thrill or passion anymore. I've been with him since my second MONTH of college and I liked the thrill of being able to go out to a party and have random make-out sessions. I would never cheat, but is it bad to think about it? Like to think what it would be like to be with another guy?

2007-01-25 14:44:35 · 6 answers · asked by noclue32 1 in Singles & Dating

Her name is Alex. I thought of

*Baby A
*Candycane

2007-01-25 14:42:23 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl at my job like but hse said she had a BF. Last week at a party she was flirting with me BIG time. Anyway her GF told that I should leave her alone. I told her GF that she can make her own decison. And I told here GF friend that boyfriends are fair game, if she's not happy with him. The girl told me that she didn't love her BF and that she's not happy with him. Now at work, her GF tells me she's happy and I shouldn't think like that. But the girl told me that she's not in love with him but her GF is skeptical of my intentions. I do like this girl but I'm not a player like that but I'm not sweet and innocence either. You think her GF messed it up for me, because they're both telling me two different stories. You think she let her GF influence her?

2007-01-25 14:42:15 · 18 answers · asked by Vesdog! 3 in Singles & Dating