I love my boyfriend and Im sure he loves me too... sometimes he says he's doing this or that for me... and I just wont accept those things cause It bothers me he says Im doing it "for you"... like most recently he said he is going to postpone his graduation so that we can be together longer cause he wants me to be happy"... those are the things he says he's doing for me and I rarely accept those... am i crazy?.. i just somehow feel he doesnt really want those things and he's only doing them for me and I really dont want him to regret anything later...
But i've comment this to a friend today and she was like i should let him do it and that its sweet and Im being impossible and that i just block him.. and i was watching "the oc" earlier and this guy said his girlfriend he can postpone his semester so they are more time together and she just like that say really?? that would be great!! and both were happy.. am i crazy? :-S what u think? any advice?
2007-01-25 14:44:45 · 2 answers · asked by Aija 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Although it seems sweet and all, you don't want him to do it. Education is important - he should graduate and focus on what he needed to do so that he could take care of you (if you're going to marry him some day).
If something happens with this relationship, he will blame you for it. Love is strange - but if you love someone, you want him/her to excel in life. Look ahead and prepare for the future.
Take care.
2007-01-25 15:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As his girlfriend--you should encourage him to do things for his own betterment and stand strong for him to follow through with it. You'll mean more later to him.
2007-01-25 23:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋