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This girl at my job like but hse said she had a BF. Last week at a party she was flirting with me BIG time. Anyway her GF told that I should leave her alone. I told her GF that she can make her own decison. And I told here GF friend that boyfriends are fair game, if she's not happy with him. The girl told me that she didn't love her BF and that she's not happy with him. Now at work, her GF tells me she's happy and I shouldn't think like that. But the girl told me that she's not in love with him but her GF is skeptical of my intentions. I do like this girl but I'm not a player like that but I'm not sweet and innocence either. You think her GF messed it up for me, because they're both telling me two different stories. You think she let her GF influence her?

2007-01-25 14:42:15 · 18 answers · asked by Vesdog! 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

18 answers

Well, if you really do like this girl, why don't you tell her what your intentions really are here. If she is just waiting for an opportunity to leave her bf, that might be it. I don't see you as doing anything wrong by telling her how you feel. It's not like you are jumping her, you are just giving her some info to make an informed decision. Once you have made it clear where you stand, then step back. If she wants you, she will come to you.

2007-01-25 14:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0 0

Well first off don't beileve what her GF is telling . Believe the girl that you like. But don't go into this trying to make her break up with her BF...that makes you the bad guy here. Just wait for about 3 months and if shes not with you by that time ...MOVE ON cause she'll never leave her bf.

2007-01-25 22:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sounds like her girlfriend might b jealous of the fact that u like her so tell her girlfriend back off and let her decide what she wants but let girl know how you really feel for her

2007-01-25 22:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by hotbunnydoll 1 · 0 0

Who cares. If she has a boyfriend, she's not available. If or when she breaks up with the guy, asker her out. But as long as she has a boyfriend, back off and find a single girl.

2007-01-25 22:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0 0

Find another one, why deal with all the baby BS, Life is to short, theres just to many out there. Honestly sounds like fookin romper room to me.

2007-01-25 22:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well, this is so obvious it hurts.

Her girlfriend doesn't want the 2 of you to get together because she has a crush on you. She wants to try to get you for herself.

Seen this too many times to count.

2007-01-25 22:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by Molly 6 · 0 0

ask yourself this,

whats worse, getting turned down, or not doing anything


whats worse, you be depressed, or you will make a guy feel good that she is attractive

make moves, but as a friend at first, and watch out for bf

2007-01-25 22:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Leave this girl alone for the time being. If she is interested in you, she will let you know.

2007-01-25 22:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by shannon d 4 · 1 0

Dude,get over it,and yourself. If she's got a bf,happy or not,it's not YOUR call. If she wanted you,I'm sure she'd make it clear to you. Move on,find someone SINGLE.

2007-01-25 22:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0 0

stay away from those 2 girls before its too late they will just mess you up look for another girl instead some one that is away from you work place

2007-01-25 22:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0 0

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