Love Triangle? Not Quite.?

Question

This is the most rediculous thing ever. Its a long story too. Ill try to keep it short and sweet. Last year, I became madly in love with this boy, lets call him cody. I am 2 years younger then him and we live in different cities. Cody, is best friends with "David." David was madly In love with "Mia" who just happens to be my best friend. Anyways after a few months of just dates... along comes"courtney." David and Cody both fall for her. They end up fighting with each other and me and Mia, are devistated to say the least. In the end, Cody got courtney and they ended up dating. Me & Mia moved on to better things. However in the last month or so, I have began to fall for David. Pretty much Mia's ex. She still has feelings for him & so do I. But I also still have "love" feelings for Cody that will always be there. Me and Mia talked about it, But I dont wanna hurt her or her chances of her & David dating again. But I really Like him. He likes us both. and Im still in love with cody. Help me

I Love Mia. Thats What Im Saying. I Dont Wanna Hurt Her Or Her Chances of Her and Dating David again. and Now theres this other guy who might ask me out. grr. Im so confused.

Answer 1

Boys come and go but a friend can last forever.Your choice but Sounds to me you don't really care how MIA feels ..if you did you would forget about David Grow up and start being the type of friend you would like Mia to be should she be in this position one day.

Another guy who might ask you out?? MIGHT...Do you really need to worry about this?How old are you?I think you need to forget about David, Cody and this other guy and work on yourself..It sounds to me you really dont care who you are with,You just want someone to be with. Does the first sign of attention from a guy make you fall in love with them?

Answer 2

STOP!! MOVE AWAY FROM DAVID! Lol, really just stay away from him. You're too mixed up to get involved with anyone. Mia has been your friend for how long? Doesn't really matter, but as she still has feelings for David, you could really end up hurting her. You don't want that. Forget about Cody too. He's shown he can't be trusted with your feelings. Maybe in 8 years when he grows up a little, but not now. Go out with boy #3, and just have some fun. You really don't need this drama in your life. I wish you well.

Answer 3

Ok this sounds like something they would put on MTV !!!!
Alright well since David and your friend used to go out respect the fact that they might go out again..so just move on. There has to be someone out there that will treat you right.
That guy Cody sounds like he was just using ya until something better came along and he prove that...
Forget about both of them and take time for yourself and give yourself time too heal..
WELL contact me if you need to talk.

Answer 4

Sounds like you may be on the rebound....

Go on hiatus for a month (or 2 if that's what it takes)-- that means no guys in any kind of romantic relationship... which means avoiding Cody, David, AND Mia (because she reminds you of the "boys").... Hang out with other girlfriends. Treat all guys (outside of work) as mere eye-candy... and the guys at work- you gotta treat them as mere beings (who happen to be male... pretend they're your brothers or something).

Answer 5

Dump Cody. Dump David. Focus on your school and when you're grown, you'll meet a real man, not a schoolboy, to fall in love with.

Answer 6

why not save your friend ship and find someone else that will solve the whole thing love comes and goes and things can only get better when one looks for a long while and searches for it.

Answer 7

forget about him both of you. kick his butt to the curb and just move on. guys should not break up friedns belive me i would know.

Answer 8

its never a good idea to date your best friends ex....boys will come and go...friends are for life..do you really want to jeopardize your friendship???