My girlfriend is going to a prom with a dude that I absolutely hate. We're both sophomores so we can't go unless a junior or senior takes us. I said I'd be okay with it if they didn't dance or kiss or anything and she was just going with him so she could get in. But then today she told me and a couple of my friends she said "I'm only going with you if you dance with me this time" because he took her last time and didn't dance with her. I'm way uncomfortable with this but don't know how to tell her and I'm pretty sure she already told him yes. What should I do?
2007-01-25 14:45:32 · 14 answers · asked by delacroix192 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you trust her?
Its kind of mean to tell her not to dance with a guy shes going to the prom with. I can understand the kissing, but if you cant trust her to dance with the guy, maybe you need a new woman. Dancing is innocent when there are no feelings except friendship.
If you trust her, you need to back off and let her go have fun.
2007-01-25 14:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by independent101 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
speak up man.
do you want a long term relationship with this girl ?
Why is going with this guy so important to her ?
I never had a senior prom and I didn't die from it. What happens after the dance? will the resentment be there.?
Because there is life after that dance. The dance is only a few hours out of one night in your life. a memory the next day. Memories are fine but they don't keep you company or make you happy 24/7 and maybe you would do better to go somewhere together instead of the dance, or accept the fact your girl just may do what she wants anyway.
If your feelings matter so little, just maybe you need to re-examine the relationship.
But be fair, ask yourself why you hate this guy so much?
Is ti worth a possible break up/
2007-01-25 15:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by andreamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all u dance at a prom so she will dance with him or other guys. if u dont want her to go then tell her. u should have never told her that she could go so thats what u get.
2007-01-25 15:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your girlfriend cares more about the prom than does about you.
I would dump her and look for someone better. If she was truly dedicated to you, she wouldn't even be going. She'd wait until the both of you could go together and make it special. In my opinion, she's treating you like a doormat.
2007-01-25 14:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by Yep! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she'd go with a guy you absolutely hate shows she has no regard for your feelings. Find someone less shallow. She can go to prom the next two years with you, but she obviously wants to go with this particular guy.
2007-01-25 14:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by ginger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should find you a date to go to the prom with and see how she likes it. but if you can't just tell her that you don't like the fact that she is going with someone you don't like and ask her why should told him if he dances with her that she would go. maybe you and her need to talk about yall relationship, cause she can't be for real with you. because you meant anything to her she wouldn't be going to prom anyway.
2007-01-25 15:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by ken's princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is dating another guy and you already told her it would be fine by you. Why are you complaining about it now? Why was it ok for her to use a guy to get into the prom, but not ok if she dances with him? Your girlfriend sounds cheap.
2007-01-25 15:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you've self assurance your girlfriend?..in case you do,then there is no longer some thing to agonize about. it is common to sense jealous,I propose who would not?..yet i ought to assert ( as a woman) that i appreciate you..I propose you being jealous of each and everything,nonetheless believe and love your gf a lot that you probably did not damage her nighttime or be self established about it. and thanks to what you probably did,i imagine your girlfriend feels the same way,you nonetheless provide her sufficient room for herself to augment and meet different individuals,it is a healthy relationship. And good cmmunicatio extremely facilitates,too. extraordinarily your away,i wager provide her a call and say what you sense and tell her that you want her and also you've self assurance her-- i recognize that she'll comprehend and luxuriate in it plenty! so good luck!*wink!*
2016-10-16 03:02:24 · answer #8 · answered by anthony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares let her dance and have fun dude. then make arangements to meet her at an after party. youll get all the benifits of prom night with out having to deal with the prom
2007-01-25 14:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by G-diddy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude dont wuss out if you hate that guy then tell her no. if she doesnt like it then you dont need her anyway shell just mess you over later some how.
you should have not told her its ok in the first place
and dude he is trying to steal your girl
2007-01-25 14:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by Dokie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋