Guys, what are your thought on virgin girls who wanna save their virginity for marriage? Would you date a virgin with this viewpoint knowing that you won't have sex with her unless you end up being Mr. Right? I'm 21 and I'm saving sex for marriage but it's difficult cuz most guys want girlfriends who will put out. Some people have told me that most guys (especially in their twenties) are at their sexual peak and they won't wait for me even if they REALLY like me cuz their urges will take over? Is this true? Are no guys willing to wait for virgin girls?
2007-01-25 14:45:33 · 41 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the guy won't wait, forget about him. That means that's why he wants a girl for. The one guy that waits then good. I when out with 21 guys during my single life, And they all waited and only like 3 of them ask me to have sex with them, i said no and we still continued the relation. I married my 21ts boyfriend, I WAS 21 AND STILL A VIRGIN WHEN I GOT MARRIED. All I did was kiss and hold hands with other boyfriends, that's how far I got. I been marry for 7 years, And He really appreciated.virginity. I have a car all the money want to spend and my kids and a caring husband. It's worth it, And most of all my conscience is clean Na d I'm very happy a gave it in to my husband only. Guy's won't or don't wait, but they will sure love to have there wive to be a virgin. I'm sure if they were to choice between a virgin and a not virgin they will value you like a trophy. That's the biggest treasure you could ever have why? because there barely any virgins left. Don't give it up. No guy is worth it.They want sex then they can go pay and possibly get infected.
2007-01-25 15:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by mexlavanderlover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if it's that important for you to wait you should find a guy who wants the same thing . I'm trying to wait for marriage also,but I'm a guy....And I also want kids and soon. I have been waiting for the right one...And she may never come. So I might have to settle ..it's ashame but thats life. besides the woman I was in love with didn't want me ..and All I have bee getting is mind games from other women.
Well if you wanna chat some time contact me... I would love ta talk too you and just chat.
2007-01-25 15:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do guys only date/commit to girls who PUT OUT?
That's what they want.
The male human psychology requires that.
If a guy wants to be friends, and be celibate, he'll hang out with the guys.
Good luck. If you find a guy who will wait, you better PUT OUT after marriage, because he won't wait forever.
Remember, your time with him now is exactly a "miniature version" of whats to come for the rest your relationship with him.
2007-01-25 15:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I respect girls who choose to wait until marriage to have sex. In order to find someone who shares the same commitment to abstinance, you will have to search for some time. Most everyone in this culture, especially at age 20-24, are sexually active. You have to search long and hard for someone who respects your way of life. Also, when you date new people, it's probably best to tell them you plan to stay a virgin until marriage. Thats the best way to weed out the guys that may try to use you.
2007-01-25 14:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by Gideon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in my thirties so I guess I'm past my peak. I have no problem waiting. I think you have a misconception, men are not faithful if they are in a sexual realtionship. They say they will be, but that is not often the case.
The problem with relationships that I've seen is that there is a physical attraction, and once that is satisfied, then you start evaluating the person on other aspects.
Good luck.
2007-01-25 14:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by something 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some few will, but do you have any idea how bad it is to go so far in a relationship based on this sexual philosophy, that marriage happens, then sex for the first time, and it's horrible from the lack of first hand experience? Ever heard of people who are horrible at sex? Or have terrible issues with their own bodies that you won't know of until you're in bed with them?
Worst thing is that the other person lies and you find out when it's long over, and you spent your life to that point making the sacrifice of pleasure denail to yourself for them... or they break up with you later... or a dozen other bad things I could say.
It's not worth it, seriously.
Give a moment to thnik about the male dominated religions who have institutionalized this bull, and how it only came about for the man's pleasure and knowledge that the woman would be without any knowledge of how much better other lovers can be.
In my own life i've been with just 2 of 10 women who were too small for intercourse. Not fun to learn that when you are both REALLY turned on and wanting to. Best to get a sample of what you are setting yourself up for with the sexual part of your life with that special someone, and in so doing making sure it's going to be just fine sexually.
Ever hear about how the virgin got married, to a good guy who was sexually selfish, or dull as hell, and yet a good husband in all other respects... and she could never have sex with another person for the rest of her LIFE?
First, last, only is not a good deal for her.
For a guy? It's never been as hard to climax, or enjoy, as it is for women in general.
Look at the bright side, only women get multiple O's!
Almost forgot the human nature part... realize this also...
Men's bodies are making one MILLION sperm a day. Thats 30,000,000 a month.
Women make one egg. Just one.
Now even mathmatically challenged people can see the guy has 30,000,000 reasons a months to want to have sex, she only has one.
Just one.
Questions? I doubt it.
Good point made by someone, if you want male friends get gay friends in relationships, they are committed to a gay relationship and you get two for the friendship of one.... they can be your wingmen. It's good.
30,000,000 to one. But women get multiple O's. It evens things up maybe.
2007-01-25 15:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by justacarguy.blogspot.com 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen if he won't wait, then not the boy for you. You want a man that can wait for you and there are guys that will. Very few but some. When he has the urge, there are ways to get by without actual intercourse. Lots and lots of four play. Happy hunting:)
2007-01-25 14:59:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most want to know what they are getting, but their are some who will wait. If you don't find him right away...it's not time. I know a guy that has plenty of experience thats dating a girl who wants to wait. They've been together for 6months, and he hasnt cheated.
2007-01-25 15:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only at church is this common. Myself I`ve considered meeting a REAL decent woman at a church. Part of me believes that is the only place to find a honest, caring, loyal women. Its just the NO SEX before marriage thing that I am having trouble with. I don`t understand why something so wonderful should only be enjoyed by a selected few. View my new 360 blog and call me if you like.
2007-01-25 15:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do guys only date guys who want to put out the same date?
2007-01-25 15:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by Misterflorida 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋