Have you ever cheated on your spouse?

Question

How did you feel afterwards and did anyone ever find out?

Answer 1

I take it you are considering cheating on your spouse. If so, I would advise you not to. My ex husband was a drunk and I found his profile on adult sites on the net. He was advertising for an affair. He said he never went through with it, but it still hurt just the same. So, I decided to find me a little buddy. I had the same buddy for 3-4 years while my marriage was crap. Over the 3-4 year span, I only slept with this man perhaps 10-15 times. Well, it didn't make me feel better about myself. In fact now I feel like I was a little whore. I divorced my ex and now am married to a wonderful man. Sure we have our problems, but I know I would never cheat on him. Not only because of the love I have for him, but I learned along the way that I should respect myself. I still feel so guilty of doing it to my 1st husband. Never told him, what good would come out of it now. But, I still feel ashamed of what I did. Good luck with this.

Answer 2

My spouse and that i talked approximately it one night and we the two understood that if the two human beings have been to cheat are marriage could be over often times in existence there are not any 2nd opportunities so which you extra desirable make the better of your first. 3 yrs later we've been given the possibility to work out what occurs whilst a chum of my spouse's have been given caught and she or he paid an extremely heavy cost. the main important situation is cheaters on no account completely understand the implications until eventually it is to overdue. Her buddy surprisingly lots misplaced each little thing and that i think of if all people have been to invite her if it grew to become into worth it she probable might say no.

Answer 3

Honestly, at the very end, I did. There was no hope. I was tired of being bruised up, having my bones broken, and all of that. The last straw was him getting angry that I was successful at work and graduated college. He couldn't handle that I didn't absolutely need him to breathe, so he snapped. He had been abusive for some time. I also had bumped into the only other man I've slept with, my ex bf. He saw the bruises on my arms and legs when my children and I went to visit him. He saw the bruise on my face. He basically said to either get out of there, or he'll go and do it for me while kicking his a55. The kind of person he is, that was a huge statement. So, I did. I left him. I divorced him. And I am now in a very happy, healthy, and loving relationship where my children are loved as well.

Answer 4

Never did. Not in the 45 years we've been married.

I suspect that he may have cheated on me once when we were a lot younger. Something that's been over for a lot of years, and I don't think about it very often.

Answer 5

Yes, I did on my first husband. Alot of people knew and they did not care. I was going through alot with my husband. We are now
divorced and I am now married again and there is no way that I would ever cheat again.

Answer 6

I'd never cheat on my wife and we have been married for 6 years since we were 18!

Answer 7

No, never. The thought never crossed my mind.

My friend's ex-husband cheated on her and the family suffered. You don't just break up with your spouse - your children will be affected by it also.

Answer 8

No, never. But my husband cheated on me, and now we are very close friend.

Answer 9

not married now, but the answer is no never cheated

Answer 10

No no, my husband treat me well so i'll never cheated on him.